Journalist Fjodora Fjora, as a mother of an only son, shared some details from her unique experience, while speaking on the show “Opinion”.
She said that if she had had the opportunity, she would have had a full 8 children.
The journalist also highlighted a phenomenon that, according to her, has been spreading very recently in Albanian society.
Fjodora Fjora: I am not a pessimist, I personally would have liked to have 8 children. Life brought me this way, it has nothing to do with…
–Would you have 8?
Fjodora Fjora: Yes, yes 8! With as much spirit as my grandparents did. I lived in a fantastic family, they lay on the floor, they enjoyed us… If I had had the opportunity, today I am called to my personal experience, which comes differently. With only two grandparents, who help me as much as they can.
So I have my reasons why I can’t have 3 or 4 or 5. But a very big reason is that even the men I’ve had serious relationships with have had a very difficult time committing to having a child. I think this is a big problem.
-But why out of fear of spending?
Fjodora Fjora: All girls today suffer from a very strange trend in Albanian society, to find a man who is committed. Commitment means family and children. It’s so open as a phenomenon. The first moment a woman joins a man, he sees it as a trap to have children. Why is this child such a terror?!