E dashura ime u kap duke u puthur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Tani ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb imi. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb rr\u00ebfimi i sinqert\u00eb i nj\u00eb 22-vje\u00e7ari p\u00ebr psikologen e The Sun:<\/p>\n
Ne kemi filluar si miq me p\u00ebrfitime, por kemi qen\u00eb serioz\u00eb gjat\u00eb vitit t\u00eb kaluar. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7 dhe ende jeton me prind\u00ebrit e saj. Une jam 22. E dashura ime nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt n\u00ebse foshnja \u00ebsht\u00eb e jona pasi koh\u00ebt e fundit ajo ka pasur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n
Ne biseduam \u00e7do dit\u00eb gjat\u00eb izolimit, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb dy ose tre her\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb. Pastaj ajo filloi t\u00eb vonohej p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjur ose nuk p\u00ebrgjigjej deri t\u00eb nes\u00ebrmen. Justifikimi i saj ishte se ajo ishte e lodhur.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb mik m\u00eb telefonoi nj\u00eb nat\u00eb dhe m\u00eb pyeti n\u00ebse isha akoma me t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn time, pasi ai e kishte par\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00eb qytet me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Ajo u zem\u00ebrua dhe u mbrojt kur e pyeta.<\/p>\n
E di q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e gabuar, por un\u00eb hodha nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim n\u00eb telefonin e saj dhe gjeta nj\u00eb mesazh flirtues nga nj\u00eb djal\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Ajo vijoi t\u00eb \u00a0mohonte se \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb po ndodhte.<\/p>\n
Pastaj nj\u00eb shoqja ime tha q\u00eb e kishte par\u00eb at\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri, duke q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb stacionin e autobusit duke u puthur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Pas nj\u00eb grindjeje masive, ajo m\u00eb n\u00eb fund rr\u00ebfeu se kishte shkuar me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, por k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguli se ishte thjesht di\u00e7ka momentale.<\/p>\n
Gjithashtu u shpreh se ndihej e palumtur dhe ai ishte dikush q\u00eb e njihte nga puna dhe mund t\u00eb fliste p\u00ebr shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra me t\u00eb. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb 28 vje\u00e7. Un\u00eb isha i gatsh\u00ebm ta falja, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur ajo tha se isha un\u00ebai q\u00eb ajo kishte n\u00eb planet afatgjat\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb madje i k\u00ebrkova asaj t\u00eb transferohej me mua dhe ajo pranoi. Ajo ishte m\u00ebrzitur dhe qau nj\u00eb mbr\u00ebmje jav\u00ebn e kaluar. Un\u00eb pyeta se \u00e7far\u00eb nuk shkonte dhe ajo tha se sapo kishte zbuluar se ishte shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Un\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb e pyeta n\u00ebse isha babai. Ajo tha se nuk mund t\u00eb g\u00ebnjej\u00eb dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrgjigjja e psikologut Deidre: Edhe ajo ting\u00ebllon shum\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitur dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi q\u00eb ju t\u00eb dy t\u00eb filloni t\u00eb flisni me sinqeritet.<\/p>\n
Ju jeni t\u00eb dy t\u00eb rinj. Duke supozuar se ky \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj, a jeni gati t\u00eb jeni prind\u00ebr? Me t\u00eb gjitha kufizimet dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb sjellin p\u00ebr shum\u00eb vite q\u00eb vijn\u00eb? A \u00ebsht\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj mjaft e fort\u00eb p\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrballuar?<\/p>\n
A ka biseduar e dashura juaj me nj\u00eb profesionist sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsor p\u00ebr dat\u00ebn e mundshme q\u00eb ka mbetur shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb? Kjo mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjet pyetjes se kush \u00ebsht\u00eb babai i mundsh\u00ebm. P\u00ebrndryshe, do t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb prisni p\u00ebr testet e ADN-s\u00eb pasi t\u00eb lind\u00eb foshnja.<\/p>", "protected": false }, "excerpt": { "rendered": "
E dashura ime u kap duke u puthur me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. Tani ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e sigurt n\u00ebse f\u00ebmija \u00ebsht\u00eb imi. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb rr\u00ebfimi i sinqert\u00eb i nj\u00eb 22-vje\u00e7ari p\u00ebr psikologen e The Sun: Ne kemi filluar si miq me p\u00ebrfitime, por kemi qen\u00eb serioz\u00eb gjat\u00eb vitit t\u00eb kaluar. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb […]<\/p>", "protected": false }, "author": 2020, "featured_media": 139787, "comment_status": "open", "ping_status": "closed", "sticky": false, "template": "", "format": "standard", "meta": { "footnotes": "" }, "categories": [ 241 ], "tags": [], "class_list": { "0": "post-139786", "1": "post", "2": "type-post", "3": "status-publish", "4": "format-standard", "5": "has-post-thumbnail", "7": "category-aktualitet" }, "_links": { "self": [ { "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139786", "targetHints": { "allow": [ "GET" ] } } ], "collection": [ { "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts" } ], "about": [ { "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post" } ], "author": [ { "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2020" } ], "replies": [ { "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=139786" } ], "version-history": [ { "count": 0, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/139786\/revisions" } ], "wp:featuredmedia": [ { "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/139787" } ], "wp:attachment": [ { "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=139786" } ], "wp:term": [ { "taxonomy": "category", "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=139786" }, { "taxonomy": "post_tag", "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=139786" } ], "curies": [ { "name": "wp", "href": "https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}", "templated": true } ] } }