Laureta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e re nga Pogradeci, e cila ka dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj Armandon. Martesa e tyre nuk ka funksionuar kurr\u00eb si\u00e7 duhet dhe tashm\u00eb ajo k\u00ebrkon d iv or cin.
\nLaureta shpjegoi se gjat\u00eb 8 viteve t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, ajo kishte konsumuar vet\u00ebm 4 muaj e gjysm\u00eb koh\u00eb fizike me bashk\u00ebshortin, pasi ky i fundit jetonte dhe punonte n\u00eb emigrim n\u00eb Greqi, e m\u00eb pas n\u00eb Gjermani.<\/p>\n
Ajo jetonte n\u00eb nj\u00eb fshat t\u00eb Pogradecit tek sht\u00ebpia e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb Armandos. Mir\u00ebpo, tani vjehrrit e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrz\u00ebn\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia dhe Laureta \u00ebsht\u00eb dety ruar t\u00eb kthehet tek familja e saj. E \u00ebma, znj.Sk\u00ebnderie thot\u00eb se nuk ka mund\u00ebsi ekonomike dhe as hap\u00ebsir\u00eb fizike p\u00ebr ta mbajtur vajz\u00ebn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Ajo k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul q\u00eb e bija duhet t\u00eb kthehet tek vjehrrit, pavar\u00ebsisht se bashk\u00ebshorti nuk jeton n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n
Laureta tregoi gjat\u00eb programit se n\u00eb Maj t\u00eb vitit 2015, ajo dhe bashk\u00ebshorti Armando shkuan n\u00eb Gjermani. Aty q\u00ebndruan n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr familje. Sikurse thot\u00eb ajo vet, ata q\u00ebndronin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e nj\u00eb zonje greke me dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe bashk\u00ebshortin e saj. Kjo grua, shpjeguan n\u00ebn\u00eb e bij\u00eb, ishte shoqe e Armandos. K\u00ebshtu iu ka th\u00ebn\u00eb edhe vet ky i fundit. Por, Laureta ngriti shqet\u00ebsimin se n\u00eb Gjermani ku q\u00ebndruan nj\u00eb muaj e gjysm\u00eb, burri nuk e preku me dor\u00eb edhe pse flinin bashk\u00eb. Gjat\u00eb or\u00ebve t\u00eb nat\u00ebs, ai dhe shoqja e tij greke dilnin deri n\u00eb or\u00ebt e para t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit, dhe ky fakt shqet\u00ebsoi Lauret\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Pas kthimit nga Gjermania, Armando shkoi t\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e Lauret\u00ebs dhe u tha q\u00eb ta mbanin n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi p\u00ebr disa koh\u00eb deri sa t\u00eb rregullonte dokumentet p\u00ebr n\u00eb Gjermani. Por, e \u00ebma e Lauret\u00ebs, znj.Sk\u00ebnderie shprehet se u ma shtrua nga ky premtim i Armandos, pasi ai e ka bra ktisur familjen. Nga ana tjet\u00ebr, nuk e pranon div orcin e s\u00eb bij\u00ebs, edhe p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb mentalitetit.<\/p>\n
Laureta: Kemi 8 vjet martes\u00eb me Armandon, kemi sjell\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u00e7up\u00eb e djal\u00eb, 7 edhe 6 vje\u00e7. Armando nuk ka qen\u00eb prezent gjat\u00eb ardhjes n\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, ka qen\u00eb emigrant n\u00eb Greqi. Un\u00eb kam jetuar te prind\u00ebrit e Armandos. Pas k\u00ebtyre 5 viteve jetes\u00eb me prind\u00ebrit e Armandos, kam vajtur n\u00eb Greqi, kam ndenjur 3 muaj. Atje Armandon e njoha mir\u00eb, q\u00eb ai dilte, vazhdonte jet\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb nat\u00ebs. Pastaj i kam k\u00ebrkuar llogari Armandos, q\u00eb mos dil k\u00ebshtu se je vet i kat\u00ebrt. Armando m\u00eb ka kthyer p\u00ebrgjigje q\u00eb e di un\u00eb, punoj vet i prish vet lek\u00ebt. Un\u00eb nuk i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb shamat\u00eb m\u00eb tej se ma preu shkurt. U ktheva pas 3 muajsh n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Sot ndodhem te prind\u00ebrit. Kthehu atje ku e ke vendin m\u00eb thon\u00eb. Po mua m\u00eb nxorr\u00ebn jasht\u00eb, si vjehrri edhe burri.<\/p>\n
Znj.Sk\u00ebnderie: K\u00ebtu duhet t\u00eb ishin vjehrrit dhe bashk\u00ebshorti. Laureta t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto q\u00eb ka kaluar, mua nuk m\u2019i ka treguar. Kjo sot po i tregon. Mua si n\u00ebn\u00eb duhet t\u00eb m\u00eb tregonte di\u00e7ka. Un\u00eb mir\u00eb i kisha marr\u00ebdh \u00ebniet me vajz\u00ebn, por Laureta nuk m\u00eb ka treguar asgj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Laureta: Martesa ishte me shkuesi, nuk e kam marr\u00eb vet. Nd\u00ebrhyn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e af\u00ebrm tan\u00eb, edhe prind\u00ebrit than\u00eb jemi dakord. Mir\u00eb thash\u00eb un\u00eb, meq\u00eb jeni dakord juve, \u00ebsht\u00eb e mira t\u00eb shkoni t\u00eb pyesni. Un\u00eb nuk e njihja.<\/p>\n
Znj.Sk\u00ebnderie: Un\u00eb vajza pyeta. Laureta mos thot\u00eb q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk vajta.<\/p>\n
Laureta: N\u00eb Maj t\u00eb 2015 un\u00eb kam vajtur n\u00eb Gjermani me Armandon. Q\u00eb nga Greqia merr vjehrrin n\u00eb telefon, bisedon, kurse me mua jo. Erdhi e m\u00eb mori dhe m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb do ikim n\u00eb Gjermani. I thash\u00eb un\u00eb n\u00eb azil? Jo tha, do ikim n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoqe. Ishte greke. Mir\u00eb than\u00eb un\u00eb, po nga doli kjo shoqe greke.<\/p>\n
Kam k\u00ebtu e 15 vjet q\u00eb e njoh at\u00eb, tha. Vendosa t\u00eb iki n\u00eb Gjermani. Ne ishim kat\u00ebr, edhe zonja ishte kat\u00ebr veta. Ishim tet\u00eb veta, kishin dy dhoma edhe kuzhin\u00eb. Dit\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb doli, do iki t\u00eb pyes p\u00ebr dokumentet tha Armando. Po doli me at\u00eb. Erdhi darka, prap\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb 8 t\u00eb dark\u00ebs deri n\u00eb 2 t\u00eb nat\u00ebs dilte. Vazhdoi me at\u00eb, deri sa nj\u00eb dit\u00eb i thash\u00eb \u2018ti mua nuk m\u00eb ke grua, por grua ke at\u00eb\u2019.<\/p>\n
Znj.Sk\u00ebnderie: Un\u00eb at\u00eb greken e njihja se ai solli n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi mua.<\/p>\n
Laureta: Kam ndenjur nj\u00eb muaj e gjysm\u00eb n\u00eb Gjermani. Jam kthyer n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij. Pastaj m\u00eb nxorri vjehrri nga sht\u00ebpia. Ai m\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb vet i deshe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, vet mbaji. Un\u00eb b\u00ebj edhe f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb k\u00ebtej. Zonja Eni t\u00eb lutem m\u00eb ndihmo p\u00ebr di vorcin.<\/p>\n
Znj.Sk\u00ebnderie: Un\u00eb nuk jam dakord q\u00eb Laureta t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb d ivorcin. Ku do rrish ti tani. Nuk t\u00eb mbaj Laureta, kam hyr\u00eb n\u00eb konflikt me t\u00eb gjith\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk kam q\u00eb t\u00eb paguaj p\u00ebr div orc.<\/p>\n
Laureta: Mama m\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet!<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Znj.Sk\u00ebnderie, arsyeja q\u00eb ju nuk pranoni d iv orcin \u00ebsht\u00eb mentaliteti?<\/p>\n
Znj.Sk\u00ebnderie: Po! Dhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb. Laureta i ka k\u00ebrkuar Lek\u00eb Armandos se do shkoj t\u00eb vizitohem. Pse \u00e7far\u00eb ke ti q\u00eb je e s\u00ebmur\u00eb, i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb Lauret\u00ebs. P\u00ebrse je e s\u00ebmur\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Laureta: Dua divorcin, t\u00eb lutem znj. Eni m\u00eb ndihmo.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: E do Armandon m\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Laureta: Jo znj.Eni, por jan\u00eb ata dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb i soll\u00ebm n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Se dilnin n\u00eb lagje me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb, e m\u00eb thoshin \u2018mami ne s\u2019kemi babi, kujt do t\u2019i th\u00ebrrasim\u2019. Kam duruar znj. Eni vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Z.Shahin: Rasti i vajz\u00ebs sime nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Kjo ka 8 vjet q\u00eb po i ndodhin ato gj\u00ebra. Ai ik\u00ebn n\u00eb Greqi, shikon jet\u00ebn e tij. Ik\u00ebn n\u00eb Gjermani, prap\u00eb shikon jet\u00ebn e tij. Tani asnj\u00eb kok\u00ebrr leku p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij, lere p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn time. P\u00ebr Vit t\u00eb Ri s\u2019ka g\u00ebzuar me gruan dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Laureta: Un\u00eb nuk vete te vjehrri, m\u00eb ka kujtuar edhe buk\u00ebn. M\u00eb ka thirrur edhe qene.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, Eni \u00c7obani angazhohet p\u00ebr ta ndihmuar Lauret\u00ebn n\u00eb procesin e divorcit, por edhe p\u00ebr situat\u00ebn ekonomike.<\/p>\n
Eni \u00c7obani: Divorci n\u00eb t\u00eb tilla raste \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhje. Pra nuk mund t\u00eb l\u00ebm\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb kaq t\u00eb re me dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb, t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb nj\u00eb familje q\u00eb nuk e duan. \u00cbsht\u00eb tjet\u00ebr dashuria ndaj nipit dhe mbes\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
Zgjidhja p\u00ebr mendimin tim \u00ebsht\u00eb patjet\u00ebr q\u00eb Laureta duhet t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb drejt ndarjes p\u00ebrfundimtare me k\u00ebt\u00eb bashk\u00ebshort. Kjo martes\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb funksionon. Nuk ka as q\u00ebllimin as objektivin q\u00eb e mban nj\u00eb martes\u00eb. K\u00ebtu nuk shikojm\u00eb asnj\u00eb motivim m\u00eb q\u00eb kjo martes\u00eb t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb sot dua ta filloj k\u00ebt\u00eb sezon t\u00eb ri me nj\u00eb premtim personal, t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb n\u00eb fakt, por nisur nga d\u00ebshira e mir\u00eb, prandaj Laureta k\u00ebt\u00eb procedur\u00eb ne do ta nisim dhe do ta p\u00ebrfundojm\u00eb s\u00eb bashku. T\u00eb gjitha shpenzimet do t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb miat dhe jo tuajat.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Laureta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e re nga Pogradeci, e cila ka dy f\u00ebmij\u00eb me bashk\u00ebshortin e saj Armandon. Martesa e tyre nuk ka funksionuar kurr\u00eb si\u00e7 duhet dhe tashm\u00eb ajo k\u00ebrkon d iv or cin. Laureta shpjegoi se gjat\u00eb 8 viteve t\u00eb martes\u00ebs, ajo kishte konsumuar vet\u00ebm 4 muaj e gjysm\u00eb koh\u00eb fizike me bashk\u00ebshortin, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2016,"featured_media":262396,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,5380,231],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-262365","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-kryesore","9":"category-lajme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/262365","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2016"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=262365"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/262365\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/262396"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=262365"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=262365"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=262365"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}