{"id":302934,"date":"2022-12-02T16:14:44","date_gmt":"2022-12-02T15:14:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=302934"},"modified":"2022-12-02T16:23:36","modified_gmt":"2022-12-02T15:23:36","slug":"refuzoi-te-laje-kembet-e-vjehrrit-babe-e-bir-e-dhunojne-nusjen-qe-u-kishte-ardhur-per-pushime","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/refuzoi-te-laje-kembet-e-vjehrrit-babe-e-bir-e-dhunojne-nusjen-qe-u-kishte-ardhur-per-pushime\/","title":{"rendered":"Refuzoi t\u00eb laj\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e vjehrrit, bab\u00eb e bir e dhunojn\u00eb nusjen q\u00eb u kishte ardhur p\u00ebr pushime"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>B\u00ebhet aq shum\u00eb fushat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat dhe harmonin\u00eb familjare dhe vendi yn\u00eb si kudo ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb 15 dit\u00ebt e aktivizimit kund\u00ebr dhun\u00ebs me baz\u00eb gjinore. Shum\u00eb gra denoncojn\u00eb vazhdimisht dhe nuk heshtin. Shifra e urdhrave t\u00eb mbrojtjes kalon 3000 persona n\u00eb vit q\u00eb me vendim gjyq\u00ebsor duhet t\u00eb mbrohen nga nj\u00eb familjar i dhunsh\u00ebm, kryesisht burr\u00eb q\u00eb ose n\u00ebn efektin e alkoolit, ose p\u00ebr xhelozi, ose nga gjaknxeht\u00ebsia sulmon njeriun e dashur t\u00eb familjes.<\/p>\n<p>Sakaq rasti i m\u00ebposht\u00ebm tregon se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb zakonet e prapambetura t\u00eb harrohen dhe t\u00eb lejojn\u00eb \u00e7iftet e reja t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtojn\u00eb familje. Nj\u00eb 32-vje\u00e7ar q\u00eb jeton n\u00eb Paskuqan ka befasuar policin\u00eb me zakonet e prapambetura q\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi t\u00eb respektoheshin pasi bashk\u00ebshortja refuzoi t\u00eb laj\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e vjehrrit. Gruaja i tha boll keqtrajtimit nga 32-vje\u00e7ari dhe sipas dosjes q\u00eb ju vendos n\u00eb dispozicion Gazetasi.al, k\u00ebrkoi nd\u00ebrhyrjen e oficer\u00ebve t\u00eb policis\u00eb (komisariati num\u00ebr 5).<\/p>\n<p>Rasti i dhun\u00ebs ekstreme t\u00eb kryer nga i riu kulmoi mbas refuzimit t\u00eb t\u00eb res\u00eb e cila nuk pranoi ti sh\u00ebrbej\u00eb vjehrrit sipas rregullave t\u00eb caktuara n\u00eb familjen dibrane q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb zhvendosur dhe jeton prej vitesh n\u00eb periferi t\u00eb Tiran\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cKam ardhur me pushime prej dy-tre jav\u00ebsh s\u00eb bashku me tim shoq dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt dhe u vendos\u00ebm tek prind\u00ebrit e tij n\u00eb Paskuqan\u201d<\/em>, e nisi rr\u00ebfimin e reja.<\/p>\n<p>Para policis\u00eb ajo tregon me detaje se i shoqi nuk ishte ndar\u00eb nga prind\u00ebrit q\u00eb ajo i respektonte sa her\u00eb kthehej n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cQ\u00eb dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb vjehrri m\u00eb urdh\u00ebroi q\u00eb un\u00eb ti sh\u00ebrbeja. M\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi ti jepja uj\u00eb dhe i dhash\u00eb. M\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi t\u00eb b\u00ebja gati ushqimin dhe pa asnj\u00eb problem gatova. M\u00eb k\u00ebrkoi ti laja k\u00ebmb\u00ebt dhe nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb absolute nuk pranova ta b\u00ebj. Ai filloi t\u00eb b\u00ebrtas\u00eb\u201d,<\/em>\u00a0p\u00ebrmend e reja e cila thot\u00eb se ishte ndjer\u00eb e posht\u00ebruar nga kjo k\u00ebrkes\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb familjen e t\u00eb shoqit ishte shenj\u00eb ku nusja duhet t\u00eb tregonte respekt sipas zakoneve. Gruaja thot\u00eb se kishte d\u00ebgjuar p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb zakon, por nuk pajtohej me larjen e k\u00ebmb\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Ky refuzim i saj i solli debate me bashk\u00ebshortin q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb lutur t\u00eb bindet.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cAty nd\u00ebrhyri vjehrri dhe nisi t\u00eb ushtroj\u00eb dhun\u00eb psikologjike dhe fizike. Edhe im shoq nisi dhun\u00ebn fizike kur pa q\u00eb reagova. M\u00eb kap\u00ebn p\u00ebr flok\u00ebsh dhe krah\u00ebsh dhe m\u00eb q\u00eblluan me shpulla. Im shoq befas m\u00eb vuri duar t\u00eb fyt dhe m\u00eb tha \u201cdo t\u00eb vras\u201d. Kjo sken\u00eb e tmerrshme p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn e dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebve \u00ebsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrprer\u00eb nga nj\u00eb i af\u00ebrm q\u00eb kur ka d\u00ebgjuar t\u00eb b\u00ebrtiturat , i ka ndar\u00eb nga kacafytja. Nusja e re ka vrapuar p\u00ebr n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit ku mbasi e ka mbyllur me \u00e7el\u00ebs, ka telefonuar direkt Policin\u00eb.\u00a0<\/em><em>Vjehrri fiku energjin\u00eb elektrike dhe nd\u00ebrpreu internetin q\u00eb mos t\u00eb kisha komunikime jasht\u00eb mureve, por un\u00eb e realizova telefonat\u00ebn me Policin\u00eb,\u201d-\u00a0<\/em>thot\u00eb m\u00eb tej gruaja.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ifti, sipas policis\u00eb, jeton n\u00eb Itali dhe shpesh vijn\u00eb p\u00ebr pushime tek prind\u00ebrit e moshuar t\u00eb kryefamiljarit.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cF\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi ishin d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebsaj skene dhe t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs q\u00eb erdhi sepse refuzova t\u00eb respektoj zakonet e tyre\u201d<\/em>, p\u00ebrmend e reja.<\/p>\n<p>Por kryefamiljari q\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoi n\u00eb pranga k\u00ebmb\u00ebngul se e shoqja ka luhatje personaliteti dhe se p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb shkak n\u00eb vendin ku ata jetojn\u00eb n\u00eb Itali ajo trajtohet me psikolog\u00eb. Por procesverbalet e marrjes n\u00eb pyetje t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb mitur dol\u00ebn kund\u00ebr q\u00ebndrimit t\u00eb t\u00eb arrestuarit. Policia u bind se p\u00ebrleshja midis t\u00eb rriturve u ndez nga nj\u00eb zakon q\u00eb, si\u00e7 kuptohet, vazhdon t\u00eb jet\u00eb ende prezent n\u00eb disa familje.<\/p>\n<p>Nj\u00eb grua e moshuar nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00ebn hetim n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb lir\u00eb p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb thyer sepse sulmoi t\u00eb bij\u00ebn e cila vendosi t\u00eb ndahet dhe u kthye tek e \u00ebma.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cIme m\u00eb e quan turp veprimin tim, e lash\u00eb burrin sepse ai nuk punon dhe nuk e dua m\u00eb. K\u00ebrkova vet\u00ebm pak dit\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndroja tek prind\u00ebrit, por n\u00ebna m\u00eb kapi flok\u00ebt dhe m\u00eb tha: \u201ckthehu tek burri ndryshe do t\u00eb vras\u201d\u201d,<\/em>\u00a0ka deklaruar 41-vje\u00e7arja.<\/p>\n<p>41-vje\u00e7arja q\u00eb b\u00ebri denoncimin \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb e tre f\u00ebmij\u00ebve dhe n\u00eb familjen kuksiane divorci i k\u00ebrkuar nga nj\u00eb grua \u00ebsht\u00eb i pakonceptuesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cN\u00ebna jeton me nusen e v\u00ebllait t\u00eb madh i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb Angli. Dit\u00ebn q\u00eb e priti keq ndarjen nuk fola se \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebna ime. Por p\u00ebrdit\u00eb gjendja u b\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00eb, p\u00ebrdit\u00eb n\u00ebna m\u00eb shante. Ajo i k\u00ebrkoi kunat\u00ebs q\u00eb mos t\u00eb m\u00eb fliste me goj\u00eb se do ta b\u00ebja si\u00e7 jam un\u00eb, sipas asaj\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Policia i thot\u00eb Gazetasi.al se gruaja u sulmua n\u00eb nj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej k\u00ebtyre net\u00ebve nga e \u00ebma dhe kunata dhe kjo e shtyu q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb telefonat\u00ebn p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb e moshuara ka hedhur posht\u00eb \u00e7do version t\u00eb t\u00eb bij\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cT. u kthye von\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi dhe kjo nuk mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb time. Po t\u00eb ishte im shoq gjall\u00eb, vajza nuk do guxonte t\u00eb b\u00ebnte k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra. Kur m\u00eb b\u00ebri kafen\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes vura re q\u00eb p\u00ebr vete mori nj\u00eb got\u00eb raki dhe p\u00ebr mua kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e r\u00ebnd\u00eb\u201d,<\/em>\u00a0akuzon e moshuara nga ana e saj. Policia i shpjegoi Gazetasi.al se mbas denoncimit, 41-vje\u00e7arja nuk u kthye m\u00eb n\u00eb banes\u00eb dhe ka refuzuar t\u00eb marr\u00eb urdh\u00ebr mbrojtjeje. Nga k\u00ebrkimi policor ajo nuk u kthye as tek bashk\u00ebshorti. M\u00ebsohet se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb zhvendosur me qira n\u00eb kryeqytet ku dhe ka nisur pun\u00eb si banakiere.<\/p>\n<p><em>\u201cT\u00ebrhiqem nga denoncimi ndaj n\u00ebn\u00ebs, isha e tronditur dit\u00ebn q\u00eb m\u00eb sulmuan dhe nuk dua t\u00eb hetohet m\u00eb<\/em>\u201d, lutet kuksiania por nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb e till\u00eb nuk do merret parasysh.<strong>\/GazetaSi<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u00ebhet aq shum\u00eb fushat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb drejtat dhe harmonin\u00eb familjare dhe vendi yn\u00eb si kudo ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb 15 dit\u00ebt e aktivizimit kund\u00ebr dhun\u00ebs me baz\u00eb gjinore. Shum\u00eb gra denoncojn\u00eb vazhdimisht dhe nuk heshtin. Shifra e urdhrave t\u00eb mbrojtjes kalon 3000 persona n\u00eb vit q\u00eb me vendim gjyq\u00ebsor duhet t\u00eb mbrohen nga nj\u00eb familjar i [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":302942,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,231,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-302934","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-lajme","9":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/302934","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=302934"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/302934\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/302942"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=302934"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=302934"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=302934"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}