{"id":310347,"date":"2023-01-16T17:47:47","date_gmt":"2023-01-16T16:47:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=310347"},"modified":"2023-01-16T17:47:47","modified_gmt":"2023-01-16T16:47:47","slug":"tolerimi-i-abuzuesit-qe-te-le-pa-buke-pa-pune-pa-dinjitet-por-te-ngop-me-cirk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/tolerimi-i-abuzuesit-qe-te-le-pa-buke-pa-pune-pa-dinjitet-por-te-ngop-me-cirk\/","title":{"rendered":"Tolerimi i abuzuesit q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00eb pa buk\u00eb, pa pun\u00eb, pa dinjitet, por t\u00eb ngop me \u2018cirk\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Sonila Meco<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<p>Rrjeti, n\u00eb disa prej llogarive sociale t\u00eb revistave dhe tabloid\u00ebve t\u00eb njohur amerikan\u00eb po zien n\u00eb debate, fyerje, protest\u00eb e thirrje p\u00ebr ndryshim skenari pas publikimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb fotoje nga skena e xhirimeve t\u00eb aktor\u00ebve n\u00eb rol filmik.<\/p>\n<p>Carrie Bradshaw (luajtur nga Sarah Jessica Parker) shfaqet dor\u00eb p\u00ebr dore me ish-in e saj n\u00eb serialin dhe m\u00eb pas dy filmat Sex and the City, Aidan Shaw (luajtur nga John Corbett). Prej dy vitesh producentja dhe aktorja Sarah Jessica Parker po prodhon serit\u00eb e reja t\u00eb jet\u00ebs pas t\u00eb 50-ave t\u00eb mikeshave m\u00eb t\u00eb komentuara t\u00eb New York-ut n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr serial me titull \u201cAnd Just Like That\u201d. Pra jemi n\u00eb kinematografi, jo jet\u00eb reale, n\u00eb rol t\u00eb nj\u00eb seriali q\u00eb ka nisur me mikeshat q\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb 30-at.<\/p>\n<p>Por publiku ka shp\u00ebrthyer i indinjuar, q\u00eb personazhi Aiden (kujdes \u00ebsht\u00eb rol, fiction, asgj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb) \u00ebsht\u00eb rikthyer n\u00eb lidhje me Carrie-n (kujdes \u00ebsht\u00eb rol, fiction, asgj\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb), e cila n\u00eb serit\u00eb e dikurshme e kish l\u00ebn\u00eb dy her\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u martuar me burrin me t\u00eb cilin e tradh\u00ebtoi (Mr. Big) dhe Aiden qe martuar e kish krijuar nj\u00eb familje me tre f\u00ebmij\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Mij\u00ebra komente, qindra mijra p\u00eblqime e mosp\u00eblqime, diskutime e deri acarime mes komentuesve, q\u00eb nuk pranojn\u00eb dot k\u00ebt\u00eb lidhje, duke u keqardhur p\u00ebr Aiden e duke \u201ccoptuar\u201d Carrie-n si t\u00eb padenj\u00eb, shum\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt dhe manipulatore e pashpirt, q\u00eb prish familje t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme.<br \/>\nDhe e gjith\u00eb kjo \u201czierje\u201d e rrjetit b\u00ebhet n\u00eb anglisht, nga publik i gjer\u00eb prej \u00e7do vendi t\u00eb bot\u00ebs duke paralajm\u00ebruar edhe bojkot t\u00eb serialit kur t\u00eb dal\u00eb n\u00eb transmetim si shenj\u00eb proteste ndaj skenarit q\u00eb rilidh dy ish-\u00ebt.<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<p>Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, n\u00eb shum\u00eb telenovela e reality me skenar\u00eb t\u00eb imponuar nuk kan\u00eb munguar rastet kur aktor\u00ebt jan\u00eb sulmuar, fyer e dhunuar nga fansat e programeve, q\u00eb nuk po din\u00eb t\u00eb zhb\u00ebjn\u00eb mjegull\u00ebn cerebrale mes realitetit dhe show-t.<\/p>\n<p>E pra nuk ka asgj\u00eb t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme n\u00eb reagimin e publikut n\u00eb rrjet mbi zhvillimet n\u00eb BBVIP.<\/p>\n<p>Fenomeni \u00ebsht\u00eb i njohur, po aq sa edhe ecuria e formateve, q\u00eb nis\u00ebn si eksperimente sociale p\u00ebr t\u2019u trajtuar nga profesionist\u00eb, sociolog\u00eb, psikolog\u00eb, gazetar\u00eb, psikiat\u00ebr, specialist\u00eb komunikimi e p\u00ebrfunduan n\u00eb degradimin e qenies njer\u00ebzore duke nd\u00ebrhyr\u00eb me kontrolle d\u00ebmi, zgjidhje drastike, k\u00ebrkesa p\u00ebr kontrolle, skualifikime, p\u00ebrballje t\u00eb konkurent\u00ebve me publikun si ato t\u00eb mishit t\u00eb gjakosur me peshkaqen\u00ebt e uritur.<\/p>\n<p>Aty ku problemet, hallet, varf\u00ebria shpirt\u00ebrore, degradimi kulturor dhe arsimor, \u00e7ekuilibri vleror i shoq\u00ebris\u00eb \u201clul\u00ebzojn\u00eb\u201d, nevoja p\u00ebr \u201carrati\u201d n\u00eb skenar\u00eb telenovelash e show-sh televiziv\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe m\u00eb e madhe, deri n\u00eb mbathjen e k\u00ebpuc\u00ebve t\u00eb protagonist\u00ebve duke p\u00ebrjetuar dramat e tyre n\u00eb l\u00ebkur\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>E gjitha ndodh, sepse shkat\u00ebrrimi i mekanizmave kulturor\u00eb e mbrojtjes s\u00eb dinjitetit ka \u201crrjepur\u201d logjik\u00ebn dhe arsyen p\u00ebr t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb zbuluar instiktin, reagimin natyral ndaj stimujve n\u00eb kushte ekzistenciale.<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<p>E leht\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebnjestrosh publikun \u201cinjorant\u201d, apo t\u00eb kryq\u00ebzosh median \u201ce pacip\u00eb\u201d, por n\u00eb thelb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u201ccirk\u201d me ndjenjat dhe p\u00ebrjetimet tona e kemi pasoj\u00eb t\u00eb \u201cn\u00ebnshtrimit\u201d t\u00eb leht\u00eb ndaj pushteteve abuzuese, t\u00eb \u00e7do lloji si shoq\u00ebri.<\/p>\n<p>E derisa shumica reagon k\u00ebshtu, pa kuptuar r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e ngjarjeve, dallimin mes realitetit dhe show-t, me leht\u00ebsin\u00eb e pap\u00ebrballueshme t\u00eb manipulimit, duke relativizuar t\u00eb keqen e mahnitur prej skandaleve, duke prodhuar \u201cheronj\u201d ku s\u2019ka beteja t\u00eb denja, duke lin\u00e7uar atje ku s\u2019ka interes publik, duke veneruar aty ku prodhohet degradimi i saj, shpjegimi do t\u00eb gjendet tek \u201ckockat\u201d e parritura t\u00eb rezistenc\u00ebs. Her\u00ebt, shum\u00eb m\u00eb her\u00ebt se sot.<\/p>\n<p>Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb nga marr\u00ebzia do t\u00eb ket\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb, rrjeti s\u2019ka kritere p\u00ebr ta. Ja hyni e lexoni n\u00ebse dini anglisht n\u00eb faqet sociale t\u00eb revistave e tabloid\u00ebve amerikan\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb shihni se sa shum\u00eb po debatohet gjer n\u00eb degradim mbi dy personazhe filmi si t\u00eb ishin t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Me gjas\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe ndonj\u00eb protest\u00eb.<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<p>Por kjo nuk prish rendin e gj\u00ebrave n\u00eb ato shoq\u00ebri, ku e drejta p\u00ebr nj\u00eb jet\u00eb dinjitoze u lejon t\u00eb nd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb qeveri, t\u00eb marrin drejt\u00ebsi, t\u00eb protestojn\u00eb e ndryshojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat p\u00ebr mir\u00eb.<br \/>\nK\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb dallimi kryesor, zhb\u00ebrja e frikshme e \u201ckock\u00ebs\u201d reaguese, tolerimi i abuzuesit, q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00eb pa buk\u00eb, pa pun\u00eb, pa dinjitet, por t\u00eb ngop me \u201ccirk\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Sepse evoluimi shoq\u00ebror nuk ka mundur dot t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb qytetar\u00ec t\u00eb fort\u00eb, por na \u00e7oi nga prapambetja n\u00eb dekadenc\u00eb. Edhe pa demokraci n\u00eb mes. T\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb fundit amerikan\u00ebt e nd\u00ebrtuan.<\/p>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>\n<figure><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i.imgur.com\/l7bgfeN.jpg\"><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Sonila Meco Rrjeti, n\u00eb disa prej llogarive sociale t\u00eb revistave dhe tabloid\u00ebve t\u00eb njohur amerikan\u00eb po zien n\u00eb debate, fyerje, protest\u00eb e thirrje p\u00ebr ndryshim skenari pas publikimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb fotoje nga skena e xhirimeve t\u00eb aktor\u00ebve n\u00eb rol filmik. Carrie Bradshaw (luajtur nga Sarah Jessica Parker) shfaqet dor\u00eb p\u00ebr dore me ish-in e [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2030,"featured_media":310348,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,3365,5380,231,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-310347","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-analize","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310347","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2030"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=310347"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/310347\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/310348"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=310347"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=310347"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=310347"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}