{"id":3290,"date":"2015-08-02T20:33:19","date_gmt":"2015-08-02T18:33:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=3290"},"modified":"2015-08-02T20:32:00","modified_gmt":"2015-08-02T18:32:00","slug":"ja-9-shenjat-se-partneri-juaj-eshte-nje-genjeshtar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/ja-9-shenjat-se-partneri-juaj-eshte-nje-genjeshtar\/","title":{"rendered":"Ja 9 shenjat se partneri juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtar"},"content":{"rendered":"
G\u00ebnjeshtra \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb akt bashk\u00ebpunues, d.m.th q\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra t\u00eb ket\u00eb sukses kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr g\u00ebnjeshtarin dhe p\u00ebr personin q\u00eb i beson g\u00ebnjeshtarit. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, ne kemi tendenc\u00eb q\u00eb t`u besojm\u00eb personave q\u00eb na kan\u00eb par\u00eb lakuriq, kjo d.t.th se 50 % e personave q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb n\u00eb Google \u201c si t\u00eb zbuloj n\u00ebse m\u00eb g\u00ebnjen ai\u201d e din\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebnjyera mir\u00ebpo nuk d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t’a besojn\u00eb.<\/div>\n
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Zbraz\u00ebtirat n\u00eb lidhje jan\u00eb shum\u00eb reale dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtar\u00ebt e din\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Nj\u00eb rregull p\u00ebr manipulimin e njer\u00ebzve \u00ebsht\u00eb t`u jepni di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb shum\u00eb, nd\u00ebrsa ata persona q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb dashuri dhe besim zakonisht e kan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb shohin t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

\u00ebsht\u00eb e komplikuar t\u00eb kuptohet arsyeja pse rrim\u00eb v\u00ebrdall\u00eb njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb cil\u00ebve nuk u besojm\u00eb? Pse fjal\u00ebt e \u00ebmbla fitojn\u00eb mbi argumentet e idh\u00ebta? Kur t\u00eb kuptoni se \u00e7far\u00eb d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb mundoheni t\u00eb kuptoni edhe t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

G\u00ebnjeshtra i sh\u00ebrben nj\u00eb q\u00ebllimi n\u00eb lidhjen ton\u00eb, ajo ndihmon n\u00eb mbulimin e zbraz\u00ebtir\u00ebs nd\u00ebrmjet realitetit dhe iluzioneve, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb lidhjet n\u00eb zhvillim t\u00eb ken\u00eb gjasa p\u00ebr t\u00eb luftuar. P\u00ebr lidhjet m\u00eb t\u00eb zbehta, si ato mes miqve apo koleg\u00ebve, g\u00ebnjeshtrat e vogla q\u00eb i p\u00ebrdorni p\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar shoq\u00ebrimin me ta nuk jan\u00eb pun\u00eb e madhe. Duhet t\u00eb brengoseni kur ndjeni se partneri mund t\u00eb fsheh di\u00e7ka. P\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb, lexoni n\u00ebn\u00ebt\u00eb \u201calarmet\u201d q\u00eb duhet t`ju zgjojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Flet n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb formale dhe t\u00eb larg\u00ebt
\n<\/strong>Th\u00ebnia e famshme e Bill Klintonit: \u201c Un\u00eb nuk kam patur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me at\u00eb grua\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb e famshme pasiq\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201calarm\u201d. Ai p\u00ebrdori \u201cnuk kam\u201d n\u00eb vend t\u00eb zakonshmes \u201cs`kam\u201d, nd\u00ebesa \u201cat\u00ebgrua\u201d e tha me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb distancohet ngae v\u00ebrteta e hidhur. Shpesh tek g\u00ebnjeshtar\u00ebt e hasim fenomenin e eliminimit t\u00eb p\u00ebremrit \u201cUN\u00eb\u201d, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb distancohen nga rr\u00ebfimi.
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\nNdryshime n\u00eb ngjyr\u00ebn dhe tonin e z\u00ebrit
\n<\/strong>Ju jeni gjys\u00ebm agjente e FBI n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, pasiq\u00eb e njihni mir\u00eb partnerin tuaj dhe i dini modelet e zakonshme t\u00eb z\u00ebrit t\u00eb tij, andaj \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb g\u00ebnjeheni.<\/p>\n

Ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb derisa t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjet n\u00eb pyetje
\n<\/strong>E th\u00ebn\u00eb tro\u00e7, e v\u00ebrteta nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb formulohet, kjo vazhdon edhe p\u00ebr tekstet dhe sms.
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\nP\u00ebrgjige t\u00eb gjata dhe t\u00eb komplikuara ndaj pyetjeve t\u00eb thjeshta
\n<\/strong>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb indikator se g\u00ebnjen, pasiq\u00eb n\u00ebnvet\u00ebdija e rrefuzon k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo i duhet koh\u00eb derisa t\u00eb g\u00ebnjej\u00eb vetveten.<\/p>\n

Ndryshimi i tem\u00ebs
\n<\/strong>Rrefuzimi t\u00eb flas\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb tem\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar, g\u00ebnjeshtari e b\u00ebn duke ju pyetur juve. P.sh. \u201cNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi se ku isha un\u00eb mbr\u00ebm\u00eb, por ku ishe TI?\u201d.<\/p>\n

Teprica e detajeve p\u00ebr nj\u00eb tem\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb ju nuk d\u00ebshironi ta flisni
\n<\/strong>N\u00eb thelb, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e urrejm\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebn dhe nuk jemi t\u00eb mir\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb, andaj fillimisht do t\u00eb flisnim p\u00ebr miliona gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta.<\/p>\n

Gjuha e trupit nuk p\u00ebrputhet me fjal\u00ebt
\n<\/strong>Kur i dashuri juaj ju g\u00ebnjen se si shoku i tij u deh aq shum\u00eb dhe filloi t\u00eb vjell\u00eb kudo, e m\u00eb pas shkuan n\u00eb banes\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb nd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb rrobat dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb dush, e q\u00eb e t\u00ebr\u00eb kjo zgjati 4 or\u00ebt q\u00eb ju nuk e dinit ku \u00ebsht\u00eb. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast kontrolloni shprehjet e fytyr\u00ebs dhe t\u00eb trupit, n\u00ebse l\u00ebviz kok\u00ebn p\u00ebr \u201cjo\u201d dhe ju thot\u00eb me goj\u00eb po, apo n\u00ebse qesh me vet\u00ebk\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi kur duhet t\u00eb ndjehet keq, jan\u00eb shenja t\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtr\u00ebs.<\/p>\n

T\u00eb rrefuzojn\u00eb apo t\u00eb largohen nga diskutimi
\n<\/strong>A keni v\u00ebrejtur se si mashtruesit q\u00eb jan\u00eb fajtor\u00eb ndjehen t\u00eb ofenduar kur ju dyshoni tek ata? Kjo ndodh pasiq\u00eb d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb largohen nga diskutimet n\u00eb t\u00eb cilat duhet t\u00eb g\u00ebnjejn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

N\u00ebse mbikompenson me fjal\u00eb
\n<\/strong>T\u00eb themi sinqerisht\u2026k\u00ebto jan\u00eb lajme t\u00eb k\u00ebqija. Ne mendojm\u00eb se i dashuri juaj proteston shpesh me fjal\u00ebt \u201csinqerisht, seriozisht dhe me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u201d, dhe p\u00ebrdor shum\u00eb \u201ckualifikues\u201d si \u201c me sa e di un\u00eb\u201d apo \u201csa mund t\u00eb m\u00eb kujtohet\u201d.<\/p>\n

Zbulimi i pavet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm i g\u00ebnjeshtrave \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i zhvilluar tek njer\u00ebzit andaj juve edhe nuk ju duhen k\u00ebshilla. N\u00ebse ndjeni se di\u00e7ka nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull, kushtoni v\u00ebmendje.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

G\u00ebnjeshtra \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb akt bashk\u00ebpunues, d.m.th q\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra t\u00eb ket\u00eb sukses kemi nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr g\u00ebnjeshtarin dhe p\u00ebr personin q\u00eb i beson g\u00ebnjeshtarit. P\u00ebr fat t\u00eb keq, ne kemi tendenc\u00eb q\u00eb t`u besojm\u00eb personave q\u00eb na kan\u00eb par\u00eb lakuriq, kjo d.t.th se 50 % e personave q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb n\u00eb Google \u201c si t\u00eb zbuloj n\u00ebse m\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3290","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3290","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3290"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3290\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}