Bised\u00eb me vajz\u00ebn ( Anonime)<\/p>\n
\u201cMbase nuk jeton kjo vajz\u00eb e ta b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb djal\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb fund.\u201d, \u2013 tha teta Zejnepja para foshnj\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
U shokove, pak? E po, m\u00eb the t\u00eb them t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Kam qen\u00eb 8 vje\u00e7, kur e kam d\u00ebgjuar time m\u00eb duke ia (ri)treguar k\u00ebt\u00eb histori kunatave e motrave t\u00eb veta. Teta Zejnepja, kush\u00ebrira e babait tim, ka th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb mbi djepin tim, kur u linda un\u00eb. Nuk e ka th\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb sy t\u00eb mamas\u00eb sime, por ajo e ka d\u00ebgjuar. Sa do ken\u00eb dhembur ato fjal\u00eb!<\/p>\n
Mban mend si e p\u00ebrjetove?<\/p>\n
Nuk dija \u00e7\u2019t\u00eb mendoja. Teta Zejnepe\u2026 Po un\u00eb e doja shum\u00eb at\u00eb. Ajo m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafonte, m\u00eb sillte p\u00ebrher\u00eb ndonj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb dhe kur nuk kishte, m\u00eb jepte ndonj\u00eb 200 Lek\u00ebsh. M\u00eb pyeste p\u00ebr shkoll\u00ebn dhe korin \u2013 e dinte q\u00eb e doja shum\u00eb korin dhe isha solistja kryesore vajz\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Teta Zejnepe ta ket\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb? F\u00ebmij\u00ebt shpesh i harrojn\u00eb traumat e tyre. Vendosa mos ta besoj time m\u00eb, derisa u rrita dhe e kuptova q\u00eb ka qen\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Dhe sot, kuptoj se sa shpesh u ndodh grave kjo gj\u00eb, nuk i besojn\u00eb as familjar\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n
Si ndihesh sot p\u00ebr at\u00eb \u00e7ka tha teta Zejnepe?<\/p>\n
Pyetje e komplikuar. Tashm\u00eb jam e rritur vet\u00eb, n\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00eb. Por, duke u rritur si vajza e kat\u00ebrt, kam iden\u00eb q\u00eb kam ngritur n\u00eb pik\u00ebpyetje shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se ime m\u00eb, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se motrat e mia, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kushdo. Dhe, pas shum\u00eb konflikteve me veten, hera her\u00ebs dhe urrejtje ndaj vetes, kam kuptuar q\u00eb k\u00ebto lloj th\u00ebniesh vijn\u00eb nga mosdija, nga trash\u00ebgimi t\u00eb mykura q\u00eb gra si teta Zejnepe, q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb pasur qasje n\u00eb shkollim dhe mezi lexojn\u00eb, nuk kan\u00eb pasur forc\u00ebn t\u2019i shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb si\u00e7 po b\u00ebjm\u00eb ne.<\/p>\n
A ka m\u00eb teta Zejnepe sot?<\/p>\n
Jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb vjetra, nuk thon\u00eb m\u00eb gj\u00ebra kaq t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuara. Po a e di \u00e7\u2019ka tjet\u00ebr? Ka \u00e7ifte t\u00eb brezit tim q\u00eb nuk mallkojn\u00eb, por abortojn\u00eb. Marrin vesh gjinin\u00eb dhe abortojn\u00eb fetusin e gjinis\u00eb F. E imagjinon dot? Sa e trisht\u00eb!<\/p>\n
E sakt\u00eb. Raportet e UNFPA nxjerrin q\u00eb dukuria ende vazhdon, dhe kemi disbalanc\u00eb n\u00eb raportin midis lindjes s\u00eb djemve dhe vajzave dhe si vend Shqip\u00ebria rendit e 11-ta n\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr preferenc\u00eb djemsh.<\/p>\n
Nuk dija stastitika, por t\u00eb thash\u00eb. Si vajz\u00eb e kat\u00ebrt v\u00eb re gj\u00ebra q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve nuk i duken problem. Por jan\u00eb, jan\u00eb shum\u00eb. Si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe fakti q\u00eb un\u00eb kam dy djem dhe, n\u00eb t\u00eb dyja rastet m\u00eb kan\u00eb uruar, m\u00eb kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201cm\u00eb n\u00eb fund\u201d.
\nSa pak k\u00ebrkues jan\u00eb ndaj djemve t\u00eb mi familjar\u00ebt e mi, e mbesat i kan\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtore tashm\u00eb.
\nN\u00eb koh\u00ebn e teta Zejnepes mbase ka qen\u00eb me vler\u00eb djali m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u00c7\u2019do i thoje \u00e7ifteve q\u00eb presin?<\/p>\n
Babait i them q\u00eb f\u00ebmija nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i gruas t\u00ebnde \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe i yti, ndaj merr pjes\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 50%.
\nAh po, do u thoja dhe \u201cMos e pyet doktoresh\u00ebn apo doktorin p\u00ebr gjinin\u00eb e bebit. Vet\u00ebm ashtu do m\u00ebsoni dashurin\u00eb pa kushte.\u201d\/newsalbania.al<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Bised\u00eb me vajz\u00ebn ( Anonime) \u201cMbase nuk jeton kjo vajz\u00eb e ta b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb djal\u00eb m\u00eb n\u00eb fund.\u201d, \u2013 tha teta Zejnepja para foshnj\u00ebs. U shokove, pak? E po, m\u00eb the t\u00eb them t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. Kam qen\u00eb 8 vje\u00e7, kur e kam d\u00ebgjuar time m\u00eb duke ia (ri)treguar k\u00ebt\u00eb histori kunatave e motrave t\u00eb veta. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2030,"featured_media":330723,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,5380,231],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-330722","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-kryesore","9":"category-lajme"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2030"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=330722"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330722\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":330724,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/330722\/revisions\/330724"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/330723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=330722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=330722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=330722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}