{"id":3322,"date":"2015-08-02T21:10:34","date_gmt":"2015-08-02T19:10:34","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=3322"},"modified":"2015-08-02T20:53:34","modified_gmt":"2015-08-02T18:53:34","slug":"si-ta-ruani-miqesine-me-shoqen-e-ngushte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/si-ta-ruani-miqesine-me-shoqen-e-ngushte\/","title":{"rendered":"Si ta ruani miq\u00ebsin\u00eb me shoqen e ngusht\u00eb?"},"content":{"rendered":"
Miqt\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm. Por, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 faktit q\u00eb femrat jan\u00eb tep\u00ebr komunikatave me shoqet e tyre, disa momente n\u00eb miq\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre mund t\u00eb na l\u00ebn\u00eb pa fjal\u00eb.<\/div>\n
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K\u00ebtu, do t\u2019i gjeni disa skena t\u00eb bazuara n\u00eb histori t\u00eb jet\u00ebs reale dhe do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni si t\u2019i menaxhoni ato me kujdesin q\u00eb miqt\u00eb tuaj e meritojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Skena e par\u00eb: \u201cUn\u00eb jam rritur, ajo jo.\u201d<\/strong>
\nKeni qen\u00eb shoqe t\u00eb ngushta q\u00eb nga vitet e hershme t\u00eb rinis\u00eb. Keni kaluar koh\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme s\u00eb bashku dhe keni mb\u00ebshtetur nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme. M\u00eb pas jeni martuar dhe keni b\u00ebr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, por jeta e saj nuk ka ndryshuar shum\u00eb. N\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb ku keni qen\u00eb s\u00eb bashku, ajo kishte pir\u00eb pak dhe kishte rr\u00ebzuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebn tuaj 2-vje\u00e7 n\u00eb tok\u00eb. Dhe m\u00eb pas jeni nervozuar me t\u00eb dhe ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb hidh\u00ebruar.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb shkoi gabim:<\/strong> T\u00eb martohesh dhe t\u00eb kesh f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja m\u00eb e madhe q\u00eb femrat pushojn\u00eb s\u00eb qeni \u2018mike\u2019. Ju mund t\u00eb mendoni se gj\u00ebrat nuk kan\u00eb ndryshuar, por me koh\u00ebn, do ta shihni se vet\u00ebm bashk\u00ebshorti dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb prioriteti juaj kryesor.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni:<\/strong>\u00a0 N\u00ebse miq\u00ebsia juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb rr\u00ebnuar p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka t\u00eb till\u00eb si rr\u00ebzimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs pa q\u00ebllim n\u00eb nj\u00eb fest\u00eb, shanset jan\u00eb q\u00eb miq\u00ebsin\u00eb e keni mbajtur vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr interes. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb miq\u00ebsia t\u00eb prishet p\u00ebr nj\u00eb aksident. Pyeteni veten: Ajo m\u00eb ka d\u00ebgjuar gjithmon\u00eb p\u00ebr \u00e7do problem n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe tani un\u00eb t\u00eb hidh\u00ebrohem p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rast t\u00eb till\u00eb? \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u2019i thoni q\u00eb vet\u00ebm jeni brengosur p\u00ebr at\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb ka ndodhur dhe se duhet t\u00eb pushoj\u00eb s\u00eb piri alkool.<\/p>\n

Skena e dyt\u00eb: \u201cAjo m\u00eb ka tradhtuar!\u201d<\/strong>
\nPasi i keni ndihmuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur pun\u00eb n\u00eb zon\u00ebn ku ju jetoni, tani jeni b\u00ebr\u00eb shoqe edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb ngushta. Pas tre muajve, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb vendosur n\u00eb nj\u00eb banes\u00eb af\u00ebr t\u00ebndes dhe ka filluar t\u00eb vij\u00eb m\u00eb shpesh tek ti. Ajo m\u00eb pas ka filluar t\u00eb dal\u00eb me miqt\u00eb e burrit tuaj dhe ti e ke humbur pun\u00ebn. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pozit\u00eb, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shfaqur si nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr person. Nuk t\u00eb ka mb\u00ebshtetur dhe ka shikuar vet\u00ebm interesin e\u00a0 vet. Kur jeni konfrontuar me t\u00eb, ajo ju ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se tani brengoset vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr veten.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb shkoi gabim:<\/strong> \u00cbsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb t\u2019ia vendos\u00ebsh fajin nj\u00eb miku, por e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019ia hedh\u00ebsh fajin vetes. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kur ju duket se jeni shpirtra binjak, problemi q\u00ebndron tek personi tjet\u00ebr i cili nuk ndjehet m\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00eb. Egoja q\u00eb kaplon m\u00eb pas mund t\u00eb ndjehet mir\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, por \u00ebsht\u00eb e rrezikshme, transmeton Lajmi.net.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni:<\/strong> Largohuni nga ajo. Kur dikush nuk ju mb\u00ebshtet\u00eb n\u00eb situata t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, kjo sjellje \u00ebsht\u00eb e papranueshme. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ju vet\u00ebm jeni p\u00ebrdorur nga ajo dhe asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. N\u00eb an\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, duhet t\u00eb mendoni pse jeni afruar aq shum\u00eb me t\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb metod\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur n\u00eb mend k\u00ebt\u00eb kur t\u00eb krijoni miq\u00ebsi t\u00eb reja me dik\u00eb. Mbani syt\u00eb hapur!<\/p>\n

Skena tre: Ju po ndaheni<\/strong>
\nJu keni qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb shoqe e ngusht\u00eb me t\u00eb, por tani ajo ka takuar nj\u00eb grup t\u00eb ri t\u00eb shoqeve n\u00eb universitet apo pun\u00eb. Ajo tani del vet\u00ebm me ta dhe kur takohet me juve ju flet vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr ta. Ju ndjeheni e thyer dhe e d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb ju d\u00ebshironi ta ktheni miken tuaj dhe nuk d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb d\u00ebgjoni m\u00eb asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr grupin e saj t\u00eb ri t\u00eb shoqeve.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb shkoi gabim:<\/strong> Mund t\u00eb ju duket sikur miq\u00ebsia juaj po rr\u00ebnohet, por b\u00ebjeni k\u00ebt\u00eb pyetje: A jeni duke u ndar\u00eb me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb? Mund t\u00eb duket si nj\u00eb ofendim personal kur ju dhe mikja juaj m\u00eb e ngusht\u00eb nuk i ndani m\u00eb interesat e nj\u00ebjta. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb ju p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, sapo t\u00eb keni dal\u00eb nga ajo.<\/p>\n

\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni:<\/strong> A i keni treguar asaj se si po ndjeheni? \u201cM\u00eb mungon\u201d \u00ebsht\u00eb fjala q\u00eb duhet t\u2019ia thoni, p\u00ebr shkak q\u00eb nuk v\u00eb faj dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. B\u00ebni plane me t\u00eb dhe merruni me gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb t\u00eb dyja i p\u00eblqeni shum\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb ende mikja juaj e ngusht\u00eb dhe nuk duhet ta lini t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, p\u00ebrdoreni k\u00ebt\u00eb si nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u2019u fokusuar n\u00eb rritjen tuaj personale.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Miqt\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se jan\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm. Por, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 faktit q\u00eb femrat jan\u00eb tep\u00ebr komunikatave me shoqet e tyre, disa momente n\u00eb miq\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre mund t\u00eb na l\u00ebn\u00eb pa fjal\u00eb. K\u00ebtu, do t\u2019i gjeni disa skena t\u00eb bazuara n\u00eb histori t\u00eb jet\u00ebs reale dhe do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni si t\u2019i menaxhoni […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3322","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3322","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3322"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3322\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3322"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3322"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3322"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}