Sociologu G\u00ebzim Tushi, ka folur mbi ngjarjen e r\u00ebnd\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhi pak dit\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb Itali, ku u vra me arm\u00eb zjarri nga bashk\u00ebshoti i saj e reja shqiptare, Klodiana Vefa.<\/p>\n
I ftuar n\u00eb Panorama TV, sociologu \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehur se xhelozia \u00ebsht\u00eb shkaktari kryesor i krimeve brenda familjeve shqiptare.<\/p>\n
Ai tha se nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e madhe e meshkujve shqiptar\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb mentalitet t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr raportet n\u00eb \u00e7ift, duke e konsideruar gruan pron\u00eb t\u00eb tyren.<\/p>\n
\u201cImagjinoni ai i thoshte ti do jesh p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsisht e imja. Imagjinoni sikur t\u00eb mendonte p\u00ebr nj\u00eb rimartes\u00eb t\u00eb saj n\u00eb ato kushte. Ai ishte tamam nj\u00eb bish\u00eb. K\u00ebta bishat njer\u00ebzore, k\u00ebta meshkuj q\u00eb me gjak t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb q\u00eb e konsiderojn\u00eb femr\u00ebn e tyre pron\u00eb private dhe mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me to \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb duan, kjo ve\u00e7se si tragjiz\u00ebm, tregon edhe egoiz\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Djemt\u00eb dhe vajzat e reja ajn\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb hapur, b\u00ebjn\u00eb edhe divorce konseksuale. Un\u00eb mendoj se nj\u00eb martes\u00eb q\u00eb nuk funksionon\u2026 P\u00ebr t\u00eb mbyllur k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb divorcit, duhet t\u00eb theksojm\u00eb se divorci \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb humane. Kur ndjenja e dashuris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb normale, e kuptueshme, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb e mban lidhjen, por kur ajo merr karakter q\u00eb b\u00ebhet delirante, obsessive, ajo b\u00ebhet kriminale. Shfaqja e xhelozis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb i \u00e7on femrat dhe meshkujt n\u00eb ngjarje kriminale. Kjo ide maskiliste, q\u00eb femra \u00ebsht\u00eb e dyt\u00eb n\u00eb familje, etj, etj, ka nisur t\u00eb tronditet. Ne jetojm\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri t\u00eb hapur, bashk\u00ebshort\u00ebt n\u00eb \u00e7ift jan\u00eb t\u00eb lidhur me nj\u00eb kontrat\u00eb emocionale.<\/p>\n
Ne kemi djem q\u00eb kan\u00eb ikur nga fshati, jan\u00eb martuar andej. Un\u00eb mendoj q\u00eb t\u00eb shkosh n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend europian q\u00eb t\u00eb marr\u00ebsh me vete valixhen e dyshimeve patologjike, \u00ebsht\u00eb e papranueshme. N\u00ebse ne pas \u00e7dolloj femre q\u00eb e kemi t\u00eb dashur, apo bashk\u00ebshorte, at\u00ebher\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se k\u00ebto konflikte ekzagj\u00ebrohen. Un\u00eb mendoj q\u00eb ne sasin\u00eb e krimeve n\u00eb familje dhe n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet bashk\u00ebshortore, e kan\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. Ai ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb krim me gjak t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb. Ai ka vrar\u00eb bashk\u00ebshorten p\u00ebr ato arsye q\u00eb ai i di, q\u00eb i ka marr\u00eb me vete dhe m\u00eb pas vrau veten. Po f\u00ebmij\u00ebt? Po realitetet e tjera? Fakti q\u00eb ai e b\u00ebri k\u00ebt\u00eb akt, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ai nuk i do f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tij, i ka l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb kufijt\u00eb e adoleshenc\u00ebs\u201d, u shpreh Tushi.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Sociologu G\u00ebzim Tushi, ka folur mbi ngjarjen e r\u00ebnd\u00eb q\u00eb ndodhi pak dit\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb Itali, ku u vra me arm\u00eb zjarri nga bashk\u00ebshoti i saj e reja shqiptare, Klodiana Vefa. I ftuar n\u00eb Panorama TV, sociologu \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehur se xhelozia \u00ebsht\u00eb shkaktari kryesor i krimeve brenda familjeve shqiptare. Ai tha se nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":332284,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,364,5380,231,2123,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-332282","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment-opinion","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-sociale","12":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/332282","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=332282"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/332282\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":332285,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/332282\/revisions\/332285"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/332284"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=332282"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=332282"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=332282"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}