Nj\u00eb grua 30 vje\u00e7are, e martuar ka rr\u00ebfyer p\u00ebr The Sun se ka filluar afer\u00ebn me kolegun e pun\u00ebs i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar por q\u00eb m\u00eb pas \u00ebsht\u00eb ndar\u00eb nga gruaja p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb ata bashk\u00eb, p\u00ebrcjell Bota sot.<\/p>\n
Ajo tregon se gruaja e t\u00eb dashurit t\u00eb saj ka kontaktuar n\u00eb Facebook me burrin e saj duke i treguar p\u00ebr afer\u00ebn dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar.<\/p>\n
Lexojeni rr\u00ebfimin e saj:<\/strong><\/p>\n Kolegu i pun\u00ebs m\u00eb ftoi n\u00eb dasm\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb se donte t\u00eb ishte me mua dhe tani ne duam t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.<\/p>\n I kam th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb mos b\u00ebhet i marr\u00eb dhe t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb p\u00ebrpara e t\u00eb martohet me t\u00eb fejuar\u00ebn e tij dhe ka vepruar ashtu.<\/p>\n Ajo i ktheu bot\u00ebt tona p\u00ebrmbys. Un\u00eb jam 30 vjet dhe burri im \u00ebsht\u00eb 34 vjet. Un\u00eb punoj n\u00eb nj\u00eb kompani p\u00ebr kompjuter\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i ri erdhi tek ne n\u00eb pun\u00eb para 18 vjet\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb 29 vjet dhe mes nesh pati t\u00ebrheqje. Kishte shum\u00eb flirt mes nesh dhe edhe pse ai ishte i fejuar, tensioni seksual ishte elektrik.<\/p>\n N\u00eb dit\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb martes\u00ebs un\u00eb q\u00ebndrova n\u00eb shtrat dhe qava. E ndjeva sikur nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e imja po vdiste por m\u00eb pas ai m\u00eb telefonoi dhe m\u00eb tha se m\u00eb donte me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n I thash\u00eb se e doja edhe un\u00eb por se mes nesh nuk mund t\u00eb kishte asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se sa kishte.<\/p>\n Iu shmanga atij kur u kthye n\u00eb pun\u00eb pas muajit t\u00eb mjaltit.<\/p>\n M\u00eb pas nj\u00eb kolege m\u00eb tregoi se ai do t\u00eb b\u00ebhej baba. Ishte edhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese p\u00ebr mua.<\/p>\n E takova n\u00eb korridor para disa jav\u00ebsh dhe e urova. Ai dukej keq dhe m\u00eb tha se nuk e do gruan e tij dhe se do t\u00eb ndahet nga ajo sapo t\u00eb lind\u00eb f\u00ebmija.<\/p>\n Ai erdhi tek un\u00eb kur burri im ishte n\u00eb nj\u00eb trajnim. E pashmangshmja ndodhi. Ne u puth\u00ebm, e zhvesh\u00ebm nj\u00ebri tjetrin dhe b\u00ebm\u00eb seks. Ishte di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk e kisha p\u00ebrjetuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb.<\/p>\n Dhe k\u00ebshtu filloi afera jon\u00eb, por un\u00eb nuk doja ta l\u00ebndoj ask\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n Kur vajza e tyre u b\u00eb gjasht\u00ebmuajshe, ai i tregoi gruas s\u00eb tij se po i linte at\u00eb. Ajo dyshoi dhe i gjeti mesazhet e tij q\u00eb m\u00eb kishte d\u00ebrguar mua.<\/p>\n Ajo u regjistrua n\u00eb pun\u00ebn ton\u00eb si nj\u00eb kompani q\u00eb donte t\u00eb m\u00eb shkruante mua dhe k\u00ebshtu ma zbuloi edhe mbiemrin.<\/p>\n M\u00eb pas ajo kontaktoi burrin tim p\u00ebrmes Facebook-ut dhe i tregoi p\u00ebr afer\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n Ne pat\u00ebm nj\u00eb grindje dhe ai shkoi tek n\u00ebna e tij. Burri im dhe familja e tij mendojn\u00eb se un\u00eb jam nj\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruese familje.<\/p>\n Un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ndalem s\u00eb menduari p\u00ebr gruan dhe vajz\u00ebn e t\u00eb dashurit tim.<\/p>\n Ndihem shum\u00eb fajtor. Nuk dua t\u00eb jem ajo q\u00eb e ndan at\u00eb nga f\u00ebmija. Jam duke luftuar.<\/p>\n A nuk do t\u00eb na pranojn\u00eb kurr\u00eb familjet tona kurr\u00eb ne si \u00e7ift? \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rr\u00ebmuj\u00eb.<\/p>\n P\u00ebrgjigja e psikologes:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00cbsht\u00eb. Kur njer\u00ebzit flasin p\u00ebr \u2018tu p\u00ebrpjekur n\u00eb martes\u00eb\u201d, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n Edhe n\u00ebse je nga \u00e7iftet m\u00eb t\u00eb forta t\u2019i mund ta mbash kok\u00ebn t\u00eb kthyer. Unaza n\u00eb gishtin t\u00ebnd nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb fantazosh t\u00eb tjer\u00eb por gjith\u00e7ka ndryshon kur fillon t\u00eb veprosh.<\/p>\n Ndaju nga i dashuri yt nga puna dhe zgjidhni t\u00eb dy martesat e juaja.<\/p>\n Thuaj burrit t\u00ebnd q\u00eb t\u00eb shkoni tek nj\u00eb k\u00ebshilltar p\u00ebr martesa dhe t\u00eb shihni se si mund ta shp\u00ebtoni martes\u00eb.<\/p>\n N\u00ebse ndarja \u00ebsht\u00eb e pashmangshme, dhe kjo ndodh edhe me kolegun tuaj, le t\u00eb vendoset pluhuri para se t\u00eb vendosni n\u00ebse jeni bashk\u00eb s\u00eb bashku.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Nj\u00eb grua 30 vje\u00e7are, e martuar ka rr\u00ebfyer p\u00ebr The Sun se ka filluar afer\u00ebn me kolegun e pun\u00ebs i cili \u00ebsht\u00eb martuar por q\u00eb m\u00eb pas \u00ebsht\u00eb ndar\u00eb nga gruaja p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb ata bashk\u00eb, p\u00ebrcjell Bota sot. 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