Nga Sonila Me\u00e7o <\/p>\n
Vet\u00ebm tragjedit\u00eb na zgjojn\u00eb, na mbajn\u00eb sy\u00e7el\u00ebt p\u00ebr tre dit\u00eb dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt\u00ebn nisim s\u00ebrish \u201ct\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojm\u00eb\u201d humner\u00ebn e tjetrit. Gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00eb shohin pun\u00ebn e tyre, gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00eb pasurojn\u00eb dit\u00ebn p\u00ebrtej \u201creels\u201d-ave t\u00eb rrjeteve sociale, edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00eb gjejn\u00eb motivimin tek aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre kur leku nuk respekton m\u00eb merit\u00ebn a talentin dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00ebt fare, nj\u00eb grusht arrijn\u00eb t\u00eb ushqejn\u00eb or\u00ebt e panginjura t\u00eb jet\u00ebs me k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi shpirt\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n
Konsum, konsum, konsum, komercializim i ekzistenc\u00ebs deri n\u00eb detajet m\u00eb private, ekzibicioniz\u00ebm i nj\u00eb luksi t\u00eb shfrenuar, sensacionalizim i banales, t\u00eb gjitha i kemi pasur meny ditore bashk\u00eb me t\u00eb mirat e rrjetit, por t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb virale m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti nga skandalozja, p\u00ebr\u00e7udnimi, dhunimi.<\/p>\n
Ndjek\u00ebs t\u00eb pafundm\u00eb, si konsumator\u00eb t\u00eb dalldisur e dehur pas virales, pa nj\u00eb gll\u00ebnjk\u00eb empatie, pa shpirt, pa zem\u00ebr, por vet\u00ebm me \u201cstomak\u201d t\u00eb uritur p\u00ebr zhurm\u00eb, reklam\u00eb, fam\u00eb, par\u00e0, idhuj. Por m\u00eb t\u00eb zellsh\u00ebm jan\u00eb \u201chaters\u201d, urryesit, ata, q\u00eb edhe n\u00ebse kan\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb teksa kritikojn\u00eb e nuk bien dakord me dik\u00eb, nuk mjaftohen. Duan ta shp\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb, shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb, mallkojn\u00eb, fyejn\u00eb, denigrojn\u00eb, ta njollosin, murosin, gurosin, ta shkelin, rrjepin, shqyejn\u00eb tjetrin me \u201clirin\u00eb\u201d e pafundme, q\u00eb garanton rrjeti, anonimati, mjeti shp\u00ebrndar\u00ebs, gjurulldia e pakontrollueshme e nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie me institucione t\u00eb lodhura, t\u00eb shembura. Dhe k\u00ebtu nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7 \u201cliria e pafundme\u201d e rrjetit, q\u00eb shkakton viktima, por thelbi i ndyr\u00eb njer\u00ebzor, q\u00eb keqp\u00ebrdor lirin\u00eb edhe sikur me pikatore ta ket\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb 41-vje\u00e7are e kat\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebve vret veten, e bullizuar n\u00eb TikTok nga adresa anonime. Tmerr!<\/p>\n
Por nuk ka si t\u00eb jet\u00eb tjet\u00ebr shoq\u00ebri ajo e para vet\u00ebvrasjes s\u00eb Bedries dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr pas.<\/p>\n
Kush skandalizohet tani nga ngjarja (dhe me t\u00eb drejt\u00eb) kishte motive t\u00eb forta p\u00ebr t\u2019u skandalizuar edhe para saj. Me po t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin mllef, me po t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin kut moral, me po t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin pasion.<\/p>\n
Sepse aty, nga i nj\u00ebjti \u201cmejdan\u201d, q\u00eb kryq\u00ebzoi Bedrien ushqehet p\u00ebrdit\u00eb e m\u00eb e pangopur nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri e t\u00ebr\u00eb, pleq pa pensione; f\u00ebmij\u00eb pa kontroll prind\u00ebror; adoleshent\u00eb n\u00ebn presione hormonesh; bashk\u00ebshort\u00eb, q\u00eb shtrihen me kurriz e flirtojn\u00eb secili n\u00eb llogarin\u00eb e vet deri ndaj t\u00eb gdhir\u00eb; n\u00ebna t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruara nga suksesi me temina i t\u00eb tjerave; baballar\u00eb t\u00eb demoralizuar nga \u201cburra\u201d t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb shijojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn (n\u00eb TikTok); t\u00eb rinj n\u00eb kriza identiteti nga boll\u00ebku prej \u201cpun\u00ebve\u201d me bereqet t\u00eb moshatar\u00ebve n\u00eb rrjet; t\u00eb divorcuar t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjyer nga paaft\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbajtur familje t\u00eb sheqerosura Instagrami; profesionist\u00eb t\u00eb shkurajuar nga monetarizimet e sfidave t\u00eb t\u00eb papun\u00ebve n\u00eb TikTok; prind\u00ebr t\u00eb dor\u00ebzuar ndaj modeleve \u201ct\u00eb suksesit\u201d prej nga frym\u00ebzohen bijt\u00eb e bijat; nx\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb inkurajuar t\u00eb diskreditojn\u00eb m\u00ebsuesit, q\u00eb ende k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb detyra sht\u00ebpie; gra e burra t\u00eb zhytur n\u00eb p\u00ebrroin psiqik t\u00eb \u201cchallenge\u201d-ve, rutinave dhe videove selfie; manjak\u00eb t\u00eb eksituar nga \u201cbujare\u201d e \u201cbujar\u00eb\u201d imazhesh n\u00eb kufij pornografik\u00eb pa asnj\u00eb kufizim; xheloz\u00eb e inat\u00e7or\u00eb t\u00eb stimuluar nga \u00e7do form\u00eb anonimati dhe n\u00eb fund, por jo e fundit, inteligjenca artificiale e gatshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7montuar e p\u00ebrdhosur imazhet e atyre, q\u00eb \u201cu han\u00eb shpirtin\u201d p\u00ebrdoruesve t\u00eb rrjetit me e pa t\u00eb drejt\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n
T\u00eb gjitha ishin edhe dje, edhe nj\u00eb or\u00eb pas vet\u00ebvrasjes s\u00eb Bedries dhe do t\u00eb jen\u00eb aty.<\/p>\n
Ndaj t\u2019i k\u00ebrkosh sot qeveris\u00eb t\u00eb ndal\u00eb tik-tok-un si fajtorin e vet\u00ebvrasjes s\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebne t\u00eb bullizuar \u00ebsht\u00eb si historia e Ksanthit t\u00eb lasht\u00ebsis\u00eb greke, q\u00eb premtoi t\u00eb pinte detin teksa i dehur vinte bast me kapitenin e rojeve. Por kur i doli pija e kuptoi \u00e7\u2019kish b\u00ebr\u00eb i k\u00ebrkoi ndihm\u00eb Ezopit t\u00eb shp\u00ebtonte nga zotimi se do t\u00eb pinte detin n\u00ebse humbte. Dhe Ezopi i sugjeroi t\u00eb deklaronte se v\u00ebrtet\u00eb pati premtuar, se do t\u00eb pinte detin, por jo dhe ujin e lumenjve, shiut, a uj\u00ebvarave, q\u00eb derdhen n\u00eb t\u00eb. \u201cNdajini dhe ndalini ato dhe un\u00eb do ta pi detin\u201d, deklaroi m\u00eb n\u00eb fund Ksanthi.<\/p>\n
Si ta ndash detin (tik-tok-un) nga ushqyesit e tij, q\u00eb nga \u201cshit\u00ebsit\u201d e gjith\u00e7kaje ve\u00e7 p\u00ebr fam\u00eb tek mediat, q\u00eb venerojn\u00eb llumin. Se k\u00ebtu \u201cpas hekurave\u201d nuk duhet t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb<\/p>\n
tik-tok-u, por i gjith\u00eb sistemi, q\u00eb mban gjall\u00eb pjes\u00ebn k\u00ebrc\u00ebnuese, vrastare, p\u00ebrdhunuese t\u00eb tij. Tik-tok-u ka edhe gj\u00ebra t\u00eb bukura, k\u00ebshilla t\u00eb vyera, reagim politik, zell anti-censurues, si\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00ebkohsh\u00ebm mjeti e sheshi favorizues edhe i shkat\u00ebrrimit shpirt\u00ebror, moral e njer\u00ebzor p\u00ebr miliona gra e burra t\u00eb tjer\u00eb viktima potenciale. Ama \u201climfa\u201d, q\u00eb e ushqen k\u00ebt\u00eb rreth, ajo, q\u00eb e mban gjall\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb avatari, algoritmi, por shoq\u00ebria, q\u00eb marroset pas mjetit e sheshit p\u00ebr mos t\u2019u ndjer\u00eb e p\u00ebrjashtuar, p\u00ebr t\u2019u konformuar, p\u00ebr t\u00eb plot\u00ebsuar mang\u00ebsit\u00eb e jet\u00ebs reale, p\u00ebr t\u2019u konfirmuar edhe pa talent, p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar edhe pa merit\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb triumfuar edhe pa djers\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u2019u respektuar edhe pa vlera, p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u201cvrar\u00eb\u201d k\u00ebdo urren me dhe pa arsye pa u d\u00ebnuar kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ky skandalizim, q\u00eb i paraprin ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb nevoje p\u00ebr protagoniz\u00ebm, k\u00ebto protesta, q\u00eb i paraprijn\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb nevoje p\u00ebr \u201ct\u00eb lar\u00eb\u201d nd\u00ebrgjegjen kishin po kaq arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb ekzistuar edhe para vet\u00ebvrasjes s\u00eb Bedries, por pas tri dit\u00ebsh do t\u00eb treten s\u00ebrish mes p\u00ebrpjekjes p\u00ebr \u201cmonetarizim\u201d dhe v\u00ebmendje.<\/p>\n
Kjo sa i takon reagimit me komand\u00eb dhe ve\u00e7 prej tragjedis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
E sa p\u00ebr Bedrien e gjor\u00eb, q\u00eb la 4 jetim\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb viktimat potenciale t\u00eb rrjetit dua t\u2019u kujtoj se teknologjia po sfidon \u00e7do shpirt njer\u00ebzor, se me Inteligjenc\u00ebn Artificiale, jo video origjinale, por t\u00eb sajuara na kan\u00eb q\u00eb sot viktima.<\/p>\n
Mund t\u00eb gdhiheni nj\u00eb m\u00ebngjes e t\u00eb shihni veten protagonist n\u00eb video t\u00eb ndyra virale, ku s\u2019keni pasur asnj\u00eb lidhje. Mund t\u00eb shfaqeni pervers\u00eb, kriminel\u00eb, manjak\u00eb, aktor\u00eb\/e pornografik\u00eb, hajdut\u00eb, sadomazokist\u00eb e striptist\u00eb\/e pa qen\u00eb kurr\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, por ve\u00e7 n\u00eb fantazin\u00eb e maskarenjve, q\u00eb duan t\u2019u b\u00ebjn\u00eb keq.<\/p>\n
Ndaj nuk ka kufinj kjo betej\u00eb \u00e7njer\u00ebzore e imponuar nga zhvillimi teknologjik. Jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikuar seriozisht nga mendjet diabolike, xheloz\u00ebt, armiqt\u00eb e t\u00eb panjohurit, q\u00eb thjesht s\u2019duan t\u00eb t\u00eb shohin mir\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Por nuk e ndalon dot as mbyllja e tik-tok-ut e as skandalizimi nga i nj\u00ebjti rrjet ku mbillen edhe fitimet e privilegjet.<\/p>\n
Nis e sos me edukimin kjo histori, me nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin, me kultivimin e njer\u00ebzores, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb, me forcimin e shtetit e institucioneve, shtetit t\u00eb s\u00eb drejt\u00ebs, me men\u00e7urimin e maturimin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, rezistenc\u00ebn me mish e shpirt ndaj kaosit vleror e moral prej t\u00eb cilit askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb imun.<\/p>\n
Andaj e p\u00ebrforcoj m\u00eb shum\u00eb s\u00eb kurr\u00eb, kujdes nga skandalizimi me komand\u00eb p\u00ebr arsyet e gabuara, sepse prodhon t\u00eb keqe po aq vrastare sa edhe vet\u00eb krimi, por mendjen tek reagimi i p\u00ebrhersh\u00ebm ndaj modeleve shkat\u00ebrruese t\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie virtuale me vese reale.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nga Sonila Me\u00e7o Vet\u00ebm tragjedit\u00eb na zgjojn\u00eb, na mbajn\u00eb sy\u00e7el\u00ebt p\u00ebr tre dit\u00eb dhe n\u00eb t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt\u00ebn nisim s\u00ebrish \u201ct\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojm\u00eb\u201d humner\u00ebn e tjetrit. Gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00eb shohin pun\u00ebn e tyre, gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00eb pasurojn\u00eb dit\u00ebn p\u00ebrtej \u201creels\u201d-ave t\u00eb rrjeteve sociale, edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb pakt\u00eb gjejn\u00eb motivimin tek aft\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":319650,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,364,5380,231,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-398871","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment-opinion","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398871","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=398871"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398871\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":398872,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/398871\/revisions\/398872"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/319650"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=398871"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=398871"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=398871"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}