{"id":399544,"date":"2024-01-13T17:34:54","date_gmt":"2024-01-13T16:34:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=399544"},"modified":"2024-01-13T17:34:54","modified_gmt":"2024-01-13T16:34:54","slug":"vetevrasja-e-bedrie-lokes-cfare-do-te-ndodhe-me-fatin-e-femijeve-te-saj","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/vetevrasja-e-bedrie-lokes-cfare-do-te-ndodhe-me-fatin-e-femijeve-te-saj\/","title":{"rendered":"Vet\u00ebvrasja e Bedrie Lok\u00ebs, \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb me fatin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb saj?!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Kujdesi p\u00ebr djemt\u00eb e mitur t\u00eb Bedrie Lok\u00ebs nuk do t\u2019u lihet familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb babait t\u00eb arrestuar.<\/p>\n<p>Megjith\u00ebse nuk ka ende nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb zyrtare n\u00eb gjykat\u00ebn e Durr\u00ebsit p\u00ebr caktimin e kujdestaris\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e kan\u00eb shprehur vullnetin p\u00ebr kujdestar\u00ebt ligjor\u00eb. P\u00ebr djalin 10-vje\u00e7ar pritet t\u00eb jet\u00eb motra e madhe, nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr Kledjanin 16 vje\u00e7, nj\u00ebri nga dajat. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb autoritetet vendore kan\u00eb nisur ndihm\u00ebn p\u00ebr ta.<\/p>\n<p>Pas ngjarjes traumatike, motra e madhe, Lina si\u00e7 i  th\u00ebrrasin v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit, ka marr\u00eb rolin e prind\u00ebrve, nd\u00ebrsa v\u00ebllai 18-vje\u00e7ar do t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb t\u00eb punoj\u00eb jasht\u00eb vendit p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar familjen.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSh\u00ebrbimi Social ka nisur t\u00eb veproj\u00eb dhe dihet q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb trajtohen me terapist\u00eb traumash, po dhe kujdestaria q\u00eb do t\u00eb merret duhet t\u00eb v\u00ebzhgohet pasi dihet q\u00eb dhe familjet nga ana e n\u00ebn\u00ebs dhe e babait jan\u00eb n\u00eb traum\u00eb me problemet e tyre jetike\u201d- shprehet Af\u00ebrdita Mehmeti terapiste traumash.<\/p>\n<p> Sipas specialist\u00ebve, trajtimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebve me sh\u00ebrbime psiko-sociale duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i menj\u00ebhersh\u00ebm dhe afatgjat\u00eb, por edhe familjet e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tyre kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb profesionale, p\u00ebr t\u00eb leht\u00ebsuar traum\u00ebn dhe zgjidhur konfliktet mes tyre p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos r\u00ebnduar m\u00eb tej gjendjen. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb dhe siguria merr p\u00ebrpar\u00ebsi, pasi sht\u00ebpia e familjes Loka ka sh\u00ebrbyer vazhdimisht si moll\u00eb sherri mes n\u00ebn\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre dhe familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb babait t\u00eb arrestuar.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cDuhet t\u00eb vler\u00ebsohet mir\u00eb ku rrin\u00eb, komuniteti ku jan\u00eb, me \u00e7far\u00eb p\u00ebrballen n\u00eb familje, pra duhet nj\u00eb vler\u00ebsim shum\u00eb i mir\u00eb dhe i detajuar, pasi f\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb n\u00eb traum\u00eb dhe kalojn\u00eb n\u00eb postrauma q\u00eb duan nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u trajtuar.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb fundin tragjik t\u00eb 41-vje\u00e7ares, rol pati dhe mungesa e mb\u00ebshtetjes psiko-sociale n\u00eb komunitet.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cN\u00ebse ajo do t\u00eb kishte bashk\u00ebpunim, asaj nuk do t\u2019i ishin mbyllur t\u00eb gjitha shtigjet p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar n\u00eb vet\u00ebvrasje. Kemi t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb me nj\u00eb depresion t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb q\u00eb u nxit dhe nga mosp\u00ebrkrahja e komunitetit, familjeve q\u00eb e \u00e7oi n\u00eb vet\u00ebflijim.<\/p>\n<p>Pas tragjedis\u00eb, nj\u00eb grup pune i ngritur nga Sh\u00ebrbimi Social pran\u00eb bashkis\u00eb s\u00eb Durr\u00ebsit ka nisur zbatimin e nj\u00eb plani nd\u00ebrhyrjeje p\u00ebr t\u2019i ardhur n\u00eb ndihm\u00eb 4 f\u00ebmij\u00ebve q\u00eb mbet\u00ebn jetim\u00eb nga n\u00ebna dhe me baba t\u00eb arrestuar n\u00ebn akuz\u00ebn e keqtrajtimit sistematik q\u00eb \u00e7oi drejt fundit tragjik n\u00ebn\u00ebn e tyre. Plani fokusohet n\u00eb sh\u00ebrbime psiko-sociale, ligjore dhe ekonomike, duke vler\u00ebsuar \u00e7do mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb pun\u00ebsim m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr vajz\u00ebn e madhe t\u00eb familjes, si dhe edukimin e djemve t\u00eb mitur.<\/p>\n<p>Nd\u00ebrsa Argjendi, djali i vog\u00ebl i Bedries ndjek arsimin fillor, p\u00ebrpjekje po b\u00ebhen q\u00eb djalit adoleshent t\u00eb familjes Loka t\u2019i ofrohet mund\u00ebsia p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb zanat. I detyruar edhe nga rrethanat familjare, 16-vje\u00e7ari nuk e ka nisur arsimin e mes\u00ebm, po ka hyr\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar familjen, ashtu si dhe motra e v\u00ebllai m\u00eb i rritur.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb pritje t\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00ebs, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb gjykata e Durr\u00ebsit q\u00eb do t\u00eb vler\u00ebsoj\u00eb dhe caktoj\u00eb kujdestar\u00ebt ligjor\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb ofrojn\u00eb kushtet m\u00eb t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr rritjen dhe zhvillimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb familjes.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kujdesi p\u00ebr djemt\u00eb e mitur t\u00eb Bedrie Lok\u00ebs nuk do t\u2019u lihet familjar\u00ebve t\u00eb babait t\u00eb arrestuar. Megjith\u00ebse nuk ka ende nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkes\u00eb zyrtare n\u00eb gjykat\u00ebn e Durr\u00ebsit p\u00ebr caktimin e kujdestaris\u00eb, f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e kan\u00eb shprehur vullnetin p\u00ebr kujdestar\u00ebt ligjor\u00eb. P\u00ebr djalin 10-vje\u00e7ar pritet t\u00eb jet\u00eb motra e madhe, nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebr Kledjanin 16 vje\u00e7, nj\u00ebri [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":398865,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,323,5380,231,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-399544","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-kronika-e-zeze","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/399544","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=399544"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/399544\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":399545,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/399544\/revisions\/399545"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/398865"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=399544"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=399544"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=399544"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}