Martesa e 14 vje\u00e7ares me nj\u00eb 34-vje\u00e7ares shokoi opinionin publik dhe nxori edhe nj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb pah problemet sociale t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Sociologu G\u00ebzim Tushi, n\u00eb emisionin \u201c7pa5\u201d analizoi ngjarjen dhe fenomenin, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs b\u00ebn familjen si dhe institucionet.<\/p>\n
\u201cVajza \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00eb pari viktim\u00eb e familjes e s\u00eb dyti viktim\u00eb e institucioneve t\u00eb autoritetit social shqiptare q\u00eb nuk e luajn\u00eb si\u00e7 duhet rolin e tyre\u201d, tha ai duke iu referuar s\u00eb pari shkoll\u00ebs. \u201cAkoma shoq\u00ebria shqiptare me t\u00eb gjitha zhvillimet e ka gjuh\u00ebn e prer\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb fshatra p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar edukimin mbi martes\u00ebs. V\u00ebrtet b\u00ebhemi sikur jemi shoq\u00ebri e turpshme, por nga ana tjet\u00ebr po kalb\u00ebzohemi nga fenomene t\u00eb tilla q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me degradimin e sistemit t\u00eb disiplin\u00ebs t\u00eb jet\u00ebs seksuale dhe ne duhet t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u201d, tha ai duke shtuar se t\u00eb tilla fenomene vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrhapen p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa nuk trajtohen.<\/p>\n
Ai theksoi se vajzat e shohin shpesh her\u00eb martes\u00ebn si \u2018shp\u00ebtim\u2019 nga problemet e shumta sociale q\u00eb p\u00ebrballen n\u00eb familjet e tyre.<\/p>\n
\u201cVajza \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00eb pari viktim\u00eb e familjes e s\u00eb dyti viktim\u00eb e institucioneve t\u00eb autoritetit social shqiptare q\u00eb nuk e luajn\u00eb si\u00e7 duhet rolin e tyre\u201d, tha ai duke iu referuar s\u00eb pari shkoll\u00ebs. \u201cAkoma shoq\u00ebria shqiptare me t\u00eb gjitha zhvillimet e ka gjuh\u00ebn e prer\u00eb, sidomos n\u00eb fshatra p\u00ebr t\u00eb komunikuar me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt p\u00ebr t\u00eb krijuar edukimin mbi martes\u00ebs. V\u00ebrtet b\u00ebhemi sikur jemi shoq\u00ebri e turpshme, por nga ana tjet\u00ebr po kalb\u00ebzohemi nga fenomene t\u00eb tilla q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me degradimin e sistemit t\u00eb disiplin\u00ebs t\u00eb jet\u00ebs seksuale dhe ne duhet t\u00eb jemi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u201d, tha ai duke shtuar se t\u00eb tilla fenomene vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrhapen p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa nuk trajtohen.<\/p>\n
Ai shtoi se zonat rurale kan\u00eb ende tabu sa i p\u00ebrket trajtimit dhe edukimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve mbi martes\u00ebn apo seksualitetin.<\/p>\n
\u201cN\u00eb zonat rurale ekziston mendimi se koha e pjekuris\u00eb seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe koha e martes\u00ebs, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb gabim fatal, i papranuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb e sotme moderne. Mosha e pjekuris\u00eb seksuale nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mosha e martes\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e tyre [martesave] realizohen jo p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, nj\u00eb dashuri me diferenca kaq t\u00eb thella moshore \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dashuri paradoksale. Nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje e q\u00ebndrueshme\u201d, tha ai.<\/p>\n
Megjithat\u00eb ai theksoi se vajzat n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri jan\u00eb emancipuar, duke shtyr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu edhe kufirin moshor t\u00eb martes\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
\u201cN\u00ebse do t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb t\u00eb thelluar t\u00eb k\u00ebtij fenomeni nga pik\u00ebpamja sociologjike kemi nj\u00eb dukuri t\u00eb dyfisht\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn. Nga nj\u00ebra an\u00eb kemi p\u00ebr shkak t emancipimit t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, zhvillimeve demografike, sociologjike dhe sidomos emancipimit shoq\u00ebror t\u00eb femr\u00ebs shqiptare, kemi nj\u00eb prirje q\u00eb ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me rritjen e mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb martesave t\u00eb femr\u00ebs\u201d, tha ai duke e krahasuar me 30 vite m\u00eb par\u00eb. \u201cFemrat e sotme nuk e kan\u00eb dit\u00ebs e sotme martes\u00ebn prioritetin e vet\u00ebm e t\u00eb madh t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre\u201d, theksoi ai duke n\u00ebnvizuar se rritja e kufirit t\u00eb mosh\u00ebs s\u00eb martes\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka pozitive.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Martesa e 14 vje\u00e7ares me nj\u00eb 34-vje\u00e7ares shokoi opinionin publik dhe nxori edhe nj\u00ebher\u00eb n\u00eb pah problemet sociale t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Sociologu G\u00ebzim Tushi, n\u00eb emisionin \u201c7pa5\u201d analizoi ngjarjen dhe fenomenin, p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs b\u00ebn familjen si dhe institucionet. \u201cVajza \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00eb pari viktim\u00eb e familjes e s\u00eb dyti viktim\u00eb e institucioneve t\u00eb autoritetit social […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":332284,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,364,337,231,2123,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-399581","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment-opinion","9":"category-kulture","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-sociale","12":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/399581","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=399581"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/399581\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":399582,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/399581\/revisions\/399582"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/332284"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=399581"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=399581"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=399581"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}