Dit\u00ebn e djeshme, u arrestua nga policia 67-vje\u00e7arja Natasha Rombula dhe Armando Kumarakun, 44- vje\u00e7, nj\u00eb rast ky shum\u00eb i pazakont\u00eb, pasi ata shfryt\u00ebzonin nj\u00eb 10-vje\u00e7ar (nipi dhe djali i t\u00eb arrestuarve), me q\u00ebllim p\u00ebrfitimin nga rrjeti social TikTok.<\/p>\n
Sociologu G\u00ebzim Tushi, gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb interviste televizive, ka folur rreth k\u00ebsaj ngjarje dhe k\u00ebtij fenomeni shum\u00eb shqet\u00ebsues.<\/p>\n
Sipas tij, shoq\u00ebria shqiptare ndodhet n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre situatave.<\/p>\n
Ai gjithashtu, tha se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt sot jan\u00eb t\u00eb mpir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb dr*guar nga TikTok-u e mediumet e tjera q\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin, duke krijuar k\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb anestezi sociale.<\/p>\n
G\u00ebzim Tushi: \u201cUn\u00eb gjykoj q\u00eb fenomeni \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb shqet\u00ebsues. Shoq\u00ebria shqiptare po ndodhet n\u00eb nj\u00eb situat\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonisht t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, shum\u00eb delikate, ndoshta si kurr\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. Kjo ka dy arsye dhe un\u00eb mendoj q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb nj\u00eb diagnostikim t\u00eb shkaqeve q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo situat\u00eb. Jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb rasteve individuale, se kam p\u00ebrshtypjen, ky helmi i interpretimit ose i shp\u00ebrdorimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, p\u00ebr q\u00ebllime t\u00eb caktuara, tanim\u00eb ka filluar ta kap\u00eb gjer\u00ebsisht trupin e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb. Nj\u00eb gj\u00eb duhet kuptuar, duket qart\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi kur familja \u00ebsht\u00eb e destabilizuar, do t\u00eb kemi f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7oroditur.<\/p>\n
Shum\u00eb rrall\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndodh q\u00eb nj\u00eb familje e destabilizuar, t\u00eb ket\u00eb mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb parime prind\u00ebrimi, ose kuota prind\u00ebrimi, p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb normal, p\u00ebr ta ruajtur at\u00eb nga k\u00ebto h*lmet, p\u00ebr ta ruajtur at\u00eb nga kjo anestezia sociale e rrjeteve sociale, q\u00eb po b\u00ebhet dominonte dhe e frikshme p\u00ebr f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Po t\u00eb them \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb anestezi sociale! F\u00ebmij\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb mpir\u00eb nga TikTok-u dhe nga rrjetet sociale, e nuk arrijn\u00eb dot m\u00eb t\u00eb perceptojn\u00eb as intervenimet e familjes, as intervenimet edukativ t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs, as nd\u00ebrhyrjet, por jan\u00eb tamam, do thosha t\u00eb dr*guar nga kjo gj\u00eb. Ky fenomen \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb shum\u00eb masiv, shum\u00eb i p\u00ebrhapur.<\/p>\n
Arsyeja kryesore sipas gjykimit tim \u00ebsht\u00eb s\u00eb pari, nj\u00ebher\u00eb, familja shqiptare. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb po i rritet destabiliteti i brendsh\u00ebm dhe sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb po i zgjerohen niveli i shtimit t\u00eb numrit t\u00eb divorceve, po rrit gjithmon\u00eb pasojat q\u00eb po shkaktohen mbi f\u00ebmij\u00ebt. Pasoja, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i kthejn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb jetim social dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e sh\u00ebmtuar, \u00ebsht\u00eb fakti q\u00eb ne nuk b\u00ebjm\u00eb divorce miq\u00ebsore.<\/p>\n
Ne harrojm\u00eb q\u00eb jemi prind\u00ebr, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tmerr i kultur\u00ebs shqiptare. E kemi ne ballkanasit, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se e gjith\u00eb Evropa. Kudo divorcohen, bile ka dhe nivele m\u00eb t\u00eb larta t\u00eb divorcit se n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, por ata divorcohen si bashk\u00ebshort, por nuk divorcohen si prind\u00ebr, pra mbajn\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb prind\u00ebrore.<\/p>\n
Dy pal\u00ebt ndikojn\u00eb pozitivisht n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn edukative. Nuk mund t\u2019i thot\u00eb babai ose n\u00ebna: \u201cN\u00ebna jote \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrbind\u00ebsh\u201d, vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngjallur urrejtje e saj. Imagjinoni, \u00e7far\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndodh me nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb q\u00eb ka nj\u00eb dekotomi t\u00eb till\u00eb agresive nga t\u00eb dy pal\u00ebt q\u00eb godasin f\u00ebmij\u00ebn, tek i cili ngjalli urrejtjen p\u00ebr nj\u00ebrin apo p\u00ebr tjetrin? Dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebto rrethana, nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb im till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i gjassh\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u00eb kthehet n\u00eb viktim\u00eb: n\u00eb viktim\u00eb sociale apo individuale. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Dit\u00ebn e djeshme, u arrestua nga policia 67-vje\u00e7arja Natasha Rombula dhe Armando Kumarakun, 44- vje\u00e7, nj\u00eb rast ky shum\u00eb i pazakont\u00eb, pasi ata shfryt\u00ebzonin nj\u00eb 10-vje\u00e7ar (nipi dhe djali i t\u00eb arrestuarve), me q\u00ebllim p\u00ebrfitimin nga rrjeti social TikTok. Sociologu G\u00ebzim Tushi, gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb interviste televizive, ka folur rreth k\u00ebsaj ngjarje dhe k\u00ebtij fenomeni shum\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":332284,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,364,5380,231,2123,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-402313","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment-opinion","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-sociale","12":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/402313","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=402313"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/402313\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":402314,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/402313\/revisions\/402314"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/332284"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=402313"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=402313"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=402313"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}