Elton Ilirjani ka qen\u00eb i ftuar n\u00eb rubrik\u00ebn \u201cGaleri\u201d n\u00eb E Diell, ku si rrall\u00eb her\u00eb ka folur p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e tij private dhe at\u00eb profesionale.<\/p>\n
I pyetur se si e mori vesh babai preferencat e tij seksuale, Eltoni shprehet se i tregoi vet\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 1991. Ai i tregoi t\u00eb atit se p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb shok n\u00eb klas\u00eb dhe kjo fillimisht e tronditi pa mas\u00eb. Sipas Elton Ilirjanit babai i tij i ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb vlefsh\u00eb q\u00eb i ka sh\u00ebrbyer dhe e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb ai q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sot.<\/p>\n
Elton Ilirjani: Babai ka nd\u00ebrruar jet\u00eb n\u00eb 2010. Me t\u00eb kam pasur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie sa t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, edhe emocionuese edhe t\u00eb bukur, por edhe shum\u00eb k\u00ebrkuese nga ana e tij. N\u00ebse mamaja m\u00eb thoshte \u201cshelegu\u201d gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn, babai ishte ai i cili m\u00eb p\u00ebrgatiste p\u00ebr nj\u00eb hap tjet\u00ebr n\u00eb jet\u00eb. N\u00eb \u201991-shin shkova i thash\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqen shoku i klas\u00ebs, m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb \u00e7unat. E pash\u00eb q\u00eb u trondit, sado q\u00eb ai ishte nj\u00eb burr\u00eb shum\u00eb i kontrolluar dhe m\u00eb thot\u00eb me biseda t\u00eb gjata disa ditore, m\u00eb uli dhe me fliste e m\u00eb thoshte: Nuk ka asnj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb keqe, thjesht \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb. Ty t\u00eb duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh m\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh shum\u00eb i pasur q\u00eb t\u00eb blesh lirin\u00eb t\u00ebnde sepse nuk do t\u00eb t\u00eb doj\u00eb asnj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, as nga motrat, as nga v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit, as nga kush\u00ebrinjt\u00eb, t\u00eb duam ne dhe ty do t\u00eb t\u00eb keqp\u00ebrdorin, do t\u00eb t\u00eb hedhin, do t\u00eb t\u00eb shajn\u00eb, do s\u00ebmuresh dhe do vdes\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n
E vetmja m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ti t\u00eb shp\u00ebtosh nga ky diskriminim, urrejtje, p\u00ebrjashtim, \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh i pasur dhe t\u00eb blesh lirin\u00eb t\u00ebnde. Kur kan\u00eb qen\u00eb diskutimet n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn time t\u00eb adoleshenc\u00ebs q\u00eb ky \u00ebsht\u00eb as mashkull, as fem\u00ebr, \u201c le t\u00eb b\u00ebhet fem\u00ebr\u201d, thoshin disa kodosh\u00eb t\u00eb familjes sime. Kodoshll\u00ebku vjen nga injoranca. Babai m\u00eb pyet, \u201cti do t\u00eb jesh mashkull, apo do t\u00eb jesh fem\u00ebr\u201d? Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb dua t\u00eb jem \u00e7un, e m\u00eb tha \u201cn\u00ebse do t\u00eb jesh \u00e7un, duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh se \u00e7unat si ti do blejn\u00eb lirin\u00eb\u201d. Tani e kuptoj \u00e7far\u00eb ka th\u00ebn\u00eb, kur vdiq n\u00eb arkivol i kam b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb foto t\u00eb syve dhe ishin syt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb bukur dhe trondit\u00ebs sepse ishin sy q\u00eb m\u00eb flisnin dhe kishin nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje. Isha i fundit q\u00eb e preka. Babai im ishte nj\u00eb burr\u00eb shum\u00eb i \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm dhe i fort\u00eb, ka p\u00ebrtypur shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb si un\u00eb n\u00eb ato vite. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Elton Ilirjani ka qen\u00eb i ftuar n\u00eb rubrik\u00ebn \u201cGaleri\u201d n\u00eb E Diell, ku si rrall\u00eb her\u00eb ka folur p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn e tij private dhe at\u00eb profesionale. I pyetur se si e mori vesh babai preferencat e tij seksuale, Eltoni shprehet se i tregoi vet\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 1991. Ai i tregoi t\u00eb atit se p\u00eblqen nj\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":403670,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,364,5380,231,193,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-403669","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment-opinion","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-showbiz","12":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/403669","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=403669"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/403669\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":403672,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/403669\/revisions\/403672"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/403670"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=403669"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=403669"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=403669"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}