Konsumimi i hashashit \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur ndjesh\u00ebm, sidomos tek t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, por a ndikon ai n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti?
\nK\u00ebt\u00eb nuk e dim\u00eb me siguri, por p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb re nga Britania, i dashuri i \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb barr\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht nga ky ves. Vajza i ka shkruar psikologes dhe sipas saj, i dashuri ia harxhon t\u00eb gjitha parat\u00eb, ka humbur pun\u00ebn dhe nuk i kushton koh\u00eb.
\nAjo i shkruan psikologes Jean:
\nI dashuri im \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dembel q\u00eb rri si parazit dhe m\u00eb zbraz portofolin me ushqime dhe produkte p\u00ebr dush. Durimi im ka marr\u00eb fund. Ai q\u00ebndron pas meje cdo dit\u00eb. N\u00ebse i them, \u201cLe t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojm\u00eb pak larg nj\u00ebri-tjetrit\u201d, ai refuzon. Periudha m\u00eb e gjat\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ndodhur pa e par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kur e kam d\u00ebrguar tek sht\u00ebpia e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij. M\u00eb pas, ai \u00ebsht\u00eb tkhyer n\u00eb apartamentin tim. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb trajner palestre, por tani \u00ebsht\u00eb pa pun\u00eb. Nuk paguan asgj\u00eb, pi hashash gjith\u00eb dit\u00ebn dhe sa her\u00eb q\u00eb dalim, m\u00eb merr para. Jam e lodhur nga kjo gj\u00eb. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb 30 vjec. E di q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i dashuruar me mua, por nuk mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtes gjithmon\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkull t\u00eb rritur. Ju lutem m\u00eb ndihmoni t\u00eb ndahem me t\u00eb me mir\u00ebsi, pa krijuar inat apo zem\u00ebrim.\u201d
\nP\u00ebrgjigja e ekspertes:
\nNj\u00eb mashkull 30 vje\u00e7 \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrplasur tek ti, t\u00eb zbraz kart\u00ebn e bank\u00ebs dhe ndihesh fajtore? Hiqe qafe! Nuk ekziston nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr tu larguar pa shkaktuar dhimbje, por do t\u00eb t\u00eb jap nj\u00eb ide si t\u00eb ndahesh prej tij.
\n1. Thuaji do dalim p\u00ebr dark\u00eb.
\n2. Telefono nj\u00eb taksi. Zgjidh nj\u00eb restorant t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb dhe porosit ushqime q\u00eb arrijn\u00eb 65 dollar\u00eb.
\n3. Pas \u00ebmb\u00eblsir\u00ebs, kur t\u00eb vij\u00eb fatura thuaji se i d\u00ebshiron nj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb e t\u00eb lumtur, por n\u00ebse ai nuk mund t\u00eb paguaj\u00eb dark\u00ebn, t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb, thuaji se lidhja merr fund. K\u00ebshtu ai do t\u00eb nis\u00eb me justifikimet e tij, por mos u mashtro.
\n4. Rrug\u00ebs p\u00ebr sht\u00ebpi me taksi, do t\u00eb t\u00eb thoj\u00eb se t\u00eb do pafund. Mos i jep r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi k\u00ebsaj pjese. L\u00ebre tek sht\u00ebpia e prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij dhe m\u00eb pas surprizoje duke i \u00e7uar valixhet n\u00eb kopshtin e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb. Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shpjegoni se keni b\u00ebr\u00eb miqt\u00eb t\u00eb paketojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat e tij gjat\u00eb koh\u00ebs q\u00eb ishit n\u00eb restorant.
\n5. Tani \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti q\u00eb t\u00eb shijoni lirin\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Konsumimi i hashashit \u00ebsht\u00eb rritur ndjesh\u00ebm, sidomos tek t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, por a ndikon ai n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e nj\u00eb \u00e7ifti? K\u00ebt\u00eb nuk e dim\u00eb me siguri, por p\u00ebr nj\u00eb t\u00eb re nga Britania, i dashuri i \u00ebsht\u00eb kthyer n\u00eb nj\u00eb barr\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht nga ky ves. Vajza i ka shkruar psikologes dhe sipas saj, i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2013,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-48548","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48548","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2013"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48548"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48548\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48548"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48548"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48548"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}