Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 34 vje\u00e7ar ka treguar t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn e hidhur se ccfar\u00eb e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb tradh\u00ebtoj\u00eb gruan dhe se si gjendet n\u00ebn presion p\u00ebr ta l\u00ebn\u00eb at\u00eb.
\n\u201cE dashura ime \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb makin\u00eb e eg\u00ebr seksi dhe un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ngopem me t\u00eb, por tani ajo ka zhvilluar ndjenja p\u00ebr mua dhe d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00eb gruan time.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb jam n\u00eb nj\u00eb udh\u00ebkryq t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, pasi nuk dua t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj asnj\u00ebr\u00ebn prej tyre.
\nUn\u00eb jam 34 vje\u00e7, gruaja ime e bukur \u00ebsht\u00eb 32 vje\u00e7e. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb e mahnitshme q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnte gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr mua dhe gjithmon\u00eb e kam pasur mb\u00ebshtetje.
\nNe u takuam gjasht\u00eb vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb, ra kok\u00ebn me k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri dhe u martuam brenda nj\u00eb viti.
\nAjo ka ndryshuar gjat\u00eb dy viteve t\u00eb fundit, ka humbur shk\u00ebndij\u00ebn e saj me stres mbi gj\u00ebrat e familjes (v\u00ebllai i saj ka probleme me drog\u00ebn) dhe ajo e urren pun\u00ebn e saj.
\nMjerisht pasioni seksual q\u00eb dikur ndanim, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb. Ne kemi folur dhe ajo pajtohet q\u00eb ne duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb ndryshime, por ato nuk ndodhin kurr\u00eb.
\nKjo vajz\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebmb\u00eblsir\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe filluam t\u00eb flasim disa muaj m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ajo m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb qesh dhe nuk mund ta mbaja mend se kur kisha qeshur p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb fundit. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb 26 vjecc. Ajo filloi t\u00eb dilte me mua p\u00ebr nj\u00eb pije pas pun\u00ebs dhe nj\u00eb nat\u00eb p\u00ebrfunduam n\u00eb nj\u00eb puthje t\u00eb mahnitshme.
\nNe t\u00eb dy tham\u00eb, \u201cUau, \u00e7far\u00eb ishte kjo?\u201d U ktheva n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e saj dhe kishim marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale.
\nNe ram\u00eb n\u00eb gjum\u00eb dhe kur u zgjova, ne b\u00ebm\u00eb seks p\u00ebrs\u00ebri.
\nAjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e hapur p\u00ebr t\u00eb provuar gjith\u00e7ka dhe gjith\u00e7ka. \u00cbsht\u00eb kaq emocionuese.
\nAjo e dinte dhe kuptonte p\u00ebr gruan time dhe un\u00eb mendova se ishte n\u00eb rregull me k\u00ebt\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie.
\nNat\u00ebn e kaluar ajo ishte e qet\u00eb dhe e pyeta at\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb nuk shkonte. Ajo tha se po fillonte t\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00eblqente shum\u00eb dhe donte t\u00eb jetonim bashk\u00eb.
\nI thash\u00eb asaj se do ta l\u00eb gruan time, por nuk e di n\u00ebse mundem. Ajo nuk ka b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta merituar k\u00ebt\u00eb\u201d, shkruan ai per \u201cThe Sun\u201d
\nDEIDRE thot\u00eb: Seksi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb rrall\u00eb i izoluar n\u00eb nj\u00eb kuti \u2013 ndjenjat kan\u00eb tendenc\u00eb ta ndjekin. \u00c7\u00ebshtja juaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nevoja seksuale, edhe e dashura juaj ka nevoja emocionale.
\nKy trek\u00ebnd\u00ebsh nuk mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb statik dhe me siguri ju i detyroheni bashk\u00ebshortes tuaj q\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb ringjallni jet\u00ebn tuaj seksuale n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos jeni t\u00eb pambrojtur ndaj mashtrimit q\u00eb i keni b\u00ebr\u00eb
\nTregojini t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs suaj q\u00eb ju nuk keni dashur ta l\u00ebndoni, por d\u00ebshironi t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb shp\u00ebtoni martes\u00ebn tuaj dhe k\u00ebshtu duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoni \u00e7\u00ebshtjen tuaj.
\nTregojuni gruas suaj q\u00eb e kuptoni se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsuar, por s\u00eb bashku ju duhet t\u00eb punoni p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyrat m\u00eb t\u00eb mira p\u00ebr ta ringjallur, para se martesa juaj t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb.
\nAjo ka patur probleme n\u00eb t\u00eb kaluar\u00ebn tani ajo ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetjen tuaj p\u00ebr ta ndihmuar at\u00eb me koh\u00ebn e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb ajo po kalon.\/lajmifundit<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 34 vje\u00e7ar ka treguar t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn e hidhur se ccfar\u00eb e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb tradh\u00ebtoj\u00eb gruan dhe se si gjendet n\u00ebn presion p\u00ebr ta l\u00ebn\u00eb at\u00eb. \u201cE dashura ime \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb makin\u00eb e eg\u00ebr seksi dhe un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ngopem me t\u00eb, por tani ajo ka zhvilluar ndjenja p\u00ebr mua dhe d\u00ebshiron […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2013,"featured_media":48614,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-48613","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48613","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2013"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48613"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48613\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/48614"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48613"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48613"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48613"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}