Nj\u00eb grua 32 vje\u00e7ar, e divorcuar dhe n\u00ebn\u00eb e nj\u00eb djali, ka rr\u00ebfyer p\u00ebr The Sun se b\u00ebn seks me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7ar, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebllai i shoqes s\u00eb saj, por q\u00eb ai do vet\u00ebm seks dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.Ajo ka treguar se ai i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb me fillim se nuk do lidhje dhe k\u00ebshtu kan\u00eb vazhduar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vit, por ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb lodhur duke qen\u00eb k\u00ebshtu dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga, e madje ka b\u00ebr\u00eb seks dhe me shokun e tij vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ai t\u00eb largohet, por nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb nuk ka ndodhur, pasi djali vazhdimisht kthehet. Ajo nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb, pasi nuk mund t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb k\u00ebshtu me t\u00eb .M\u00eb posht\u00eb mund ta lexoni rr\u00ebfimin e saj t\u00eb plot\u00eb: Ju mund t\u00eb mendoni se un\u00eb duhet t\u00eb di m\u00eb shum\u00eb, por un\u00eb jam e fiksuar pas t\u00eb dashurit tim m\u00eb t\u00eb ri se un\u00eb. <\/p>\n
Ne kemi seks t\u00eb nxeht\u00eb dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7ar, derisa un\u00eb jam 32 vje\u00e7are, e divorcuar dhe kam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Kam pasur frik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jem me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr pas ndarjes, por m\u00eb pas e njoha v\u00ebllain e vog\u00ebl t\u00eb shoqes time kur ajo na ftoi p\u00ebr kafe n\u00eb lokalin e saj p\u00ebr dit\u00eblindje. Un\u00eb u takova s\u00ebrish me t\u00eb dhe ai ishte i sinqert\u00eb me mua q\u00eb nga fillimi. Ai m\u00eb tha se nuk ishte i interesuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Ai d\u00ebshironte vet\u00ebm seksi. Seksi ishte i mir\u00eb dhe un\u00eb vazhdova dhe kjo filloi e b\u00ebhej m\u00eb mir\u00eb por m\u00eb pas gj\u00ebrat u ftoh\u00ebn. M\u00eb pas un\u00eb e pash\u00eb at\u00eb pas disa muajsh dhe filluam s\u00ebrish nga fillimi. Ne vet\u00ebm e b\u00ebnim aktin dhe nuk flisnim p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. <\/p>\n
Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dashnor pasionant por ai kurr\u00eb nuk shfaq ndonj\u00eb emocion, as me mua por as me familjen e tij apo miqt\u00eb. Pas nj\u00eb viti un\u00eb u lodha t\u00eb jem vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr seks dhe ta lija jet\u00ebn time anash. Un\u00eb ata dhe nj\u00eb flirt me shokun e tij. P\u00ebr befasin\u00eb time, ai u nervozua shum\u00eb. Ai nuk tha asgj\u00eb por e un\u00eb e shihja tek ai. \u00c7ka un\u00eb nuk e kuptoj un\u00eb pse ai gjithmon\u00eb kthehet tek un\u00eb, edhe pse un\u00eb nuk e di n\u00ebse i p\u00eblqej atij. Mendova se n\u00ebse un\u00eb b\u00ebj seks me shokun e tij ai ndoshta nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb kthehet por kjo nuk ndodhi. Ai kurr\u00eb nuk tha asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Motra e tij e di p\u00ebr gjendjen dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e lumtur me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb po ndodh.<\/p>\n
Ajo d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ne t\u00eb jemi n\u00eb nj\u00eb faz\u00eb m\u00eb serioze apo t\u00eb ndahemi krejt\u00ebsisht. Un\u00eb mendoj se ajo beson q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk po e lejoj at\u00eb q\u00eb ta gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb duhur apo t\u00eb jem si\u00e7 duhet n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Ai nuk punon, nuk b\u00ebn asgj\u00eb. E di q\u00eb un\u00eb jam si e droguar p\u00ebr t\u00eb por un\u00eb nuk e kuptoj pse ai gjithmon\u00eb kthehet tek un\u00eb. A duhet un\u00eb t\u00eb largohem nga ai? Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigja e psikologes p\u00ebr gruan: Ti duket se je duke u brengosur q\u00eb shoqja jote mendon se ti po e mban v\u00ebllain e saj me forc\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, kur n\u00eb fakt jeta jote \u00ebsht\u00eb duke u shkat\u00ebrruar. Si\u00e7 jan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat, kjo lidhje nuk po shkon askund. Ndoshta ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb po t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor, por thell\u00ebsisht ti i intereson por q\u00eb nuk do ta dish asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Thuaj atij se kjo lidhje vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr seks nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ty dhe se duhet ta pranoj\u00eb se ti i intereson apo do t\u00eb largohesh nga ai. Dhe m\u00eb pas ti duhet ta b\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb, p\u00ebr sigurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde dhe jo vet\u00ebm. Nd\u00ebrsa, n\u00ebse atij i intereson, at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kesh guximin t\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh me \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb del para, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb dhe hendekun n\u00eb mosh\u00eb q\u00eb ke me t\u00eb.<\/p>", "protected": false }, "excerpt": { "rendered": "
Nj\u00eb grua 32 vje\u00e7ar, e divorcuar dhe n\u00ebn\u00eb e nj\u00eb djali, ka rr\u00ebfyer p\u00ebr The Sun se b\u00ebn seks me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7ar, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebllai i shoqes s\u00eb saj, por q\u00eb ai do vet\u00ebm seks dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.Ajo ka treguar se ai i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb me fillim se nuk do lidhje dhe […]<\/p>", "protected": false }, "author": 2044, "featured_media": 50492, "comment_status": "open", "ping_status": "closed", "sticky": false, "template": "", "format": "standard", "meta": { "footnotes": "" }, "categories": [ 241, 243 ], "tags": [ 331, 333, 332 ], "class_list": { "0": "post-50491", "1": "post", "2": "type-post", "3": "status-publish", "4": "format-standard", "5": "has-post-thumbnail", "7": "category-aktualitet", "8": "category-skandale-lajme", "9": "tag-histori", "10": "tag-rrefim", "11": "tag-skandale" }, "_links": { "self": [ { "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50491", "targetHints": { "allow": [ "GET" ] } } ], "collection": [ { "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts" } ], "about": [ { "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post" } ], "author": [ { "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044" } ], "replies": [ { "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50491" } ], "version-history": [ { "count": 0, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50491\/revisions" } ], "wp:featuredmedia": [ { "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50492" } ], "wp:attachment": [ { "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50491" } ], "wp:term": [ { "taxonomy": "category", "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50491" }, { "taxonomy": "post_tag", "embeddable": true, "href": "https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50491" } ], "curies": [ { "name": "wp", "href": "https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}", "templated": true } ] } }