Nj\u00eb grua 32 vje\u00e7ar, e divorcuar dhe n\u00ebn\u00eb e nj\u00eb djali, ka rr\u00ebfyer p\u00ebr The Sun se b\u00ebn seks me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7ar, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebllai i shoqes s\u00eb saj, por q\u00eb ai do vet\u00ebm seks dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.Ajo ka treguar se ai i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb me fillim se nuk do lidhje dhe k\u00ebshtu kan\u00eb vazhduar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb vit, por ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb lodhur duke qen\u00eb k\u00ebshtu dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga, e madje ka b\u00ebr\u00eb seks dhe me shokun e tij vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ai t\u00eb largohet, por nj\u00eb gj\u00eb e till\u00eb nuk ka ndodhur, pasi djali vazhdimisht kthehet. Ajo nuk e di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb, pasi nuk mund t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb k\u00ebshtu me t\u00eb .M\u00eb posht\u00eb mund ta lexoni rr\u00ebfimin e saj t\u00eb plot\u00eb: Ju mund t\u00eb mendoni se un\u00eb duhet t\u00eb di m\u00eb shum\u00eb, por un\u00eb jam e fiksuar pas t\u00eb dashurit tim m\u00eb t\u00eb ri se un\u00eb. <\/p>\n
Ne kemi seks t\u00eb nxeht\u00eb dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7ar, derisa un\u00eb jam 32 vje\u00e7are, e divorcuar dhe kam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Kam pasur frik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jem me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr pas ndarjes, por m\u00eb pas e njoha v\u00ebllain e vog\u00ebl t\u00eb shoqes time kur ajo na ftoi p\u00ebr kafe n\u00eb lokalin e saj p\u00ebr dit\u00eblindje. Un\u00eb u takova s\u00ebrish me t\u00eb dhe ai ishte i sinqert\u00eb me mua q\u00eb nga fillimi. Ai m\u00eb tha se nuk ishte i interesuar p\u00ebr nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie. Ai d\u00ebshironte vet\u00ebm seksi. Seksi ishte i mir\u00eb dhe un\u00eb vazhdova dhe kjo filloi e b\u00ebhej m\u00eb mir\u00eb por m\u00eb pas gj\u00ebrat u ftoh\u00ebn. M\u00eb pas un\u00eb e pash\u00eb at\u00eb pas disa muajsh dhe filluam s\u00ebrish nga fillimi. Ne vet\u00ebm e b\u00ebnim aktin dhe nuk flisnim p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr. <\/p>\n
Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dashnor pasionant por ai kurr\u00eb nuk shfaq ndonj\u00eb emocion, as me mua por as me familjen e tij apo miqt\u00eb. Pas nj\u00eb viti un\u00eb u lodha t\u00eb jem vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr seks dhe ta lija jet\u00ebn time anash. Un\u00eb ata dhe nj\u00eb flirt me shokun e tij. P\u00ebr befasin\u00eb time, ai u nervozua shum\u00eb. Ai nuk tha asgj\u00eb por e un\u00eb e shihja tek ai. \u00c7ka un\u00eb nuk e kuptoj un\u00eb pse ai gjithmon\u00eb kthehet tek un\u00eb, edhe pse un\u00eb nuk e di n\u00ebse i p\u00eblqej atij. Mendova se n\u00ebse un\u00eb b\u00ebj seks me shokun e tij ai ndoshta nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb kthehet por kjo nuk ndodhi. Ai kurr\u00eb nuk tha asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. Motra e tij e di p\u00ebr gjendjen dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e lumtur me gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb q\u00eb po ndodh.<\/p>\n
Ajo d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ne t\u00eb jemi n\u00eb nj\u00eb faz\u00eb m\u00eb serioze apo t\u00eb ndahemi krejt\u00ebsisht. Un\u00eb mendoj se ajo beson q\u00eb un\u00eb nuk po e lejoj at\u00eb q\u00eb ta gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur t\u00eb duhur apo t\u00eb jem si\u00e7 duhet n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij. Ai nuk punon, nuk b\u00ebn asgj\u00eb. E di q\u00eb un\u00eb jam si e droguar p\u00ebr t\u00eb por un\u00eb nuk e kuptoj pse ai gjithmon\u00eb kthehet tek un\u00eb. A duhet un\u00eb t\u00eb largohem nga ai? Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigja e psikologes p\u00ebr gruan: Ti duket se je duke u brengosur q\u00eb shoqja jote mendon se ti po e mban v\u00ebllain e saj me forc\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, kur n\u00eb fakt jeta jote \u00ebsht\u00eb duke u shkat\u00ebrruar. Si\u00e7 jan\u00eb gj\u00ebrat, kjo lidhje nuk po shkon askund. Ndoshta ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb po t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor, por thell\u00ebsisht ti i intereson por q\u00eb nuk do ta dish asnj\u00ebher\u00eb, derisa t\u00eb b\u00ebsh nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Thuaj atij se kjo lidhje vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr seks nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ty dhe se duhet ta pranoj\u00eb se ti i intereson apo do t\u00eb largohesh nga ai. Dhe m\u00eb pas ti duhet ta b\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb, p\u00ebr sigurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde dhe jo vet\u00ebm. Nd\u00ebrsa, n\u00ebse atij i intereson, at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb kesh guximin t\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh me \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb del para, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb dhe hendekun n\u00eb mosh\u00eb q\u00eb ke me t\u00eb.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nj\u00eb grua 32 vje\u00e7ar, e divorcuar dhe n\u00ebn\u00eb e nj\u00eb djali, ka rr\u00ebfyer p\u00ebr The Sun se b\u00ebn seks me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb 20 vje\u00e7ar, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebllai i shoqes s\u00eb saj, por q\u00eb ai do vet\u00ebm seks dhe asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.Ajo ka treguar se ai i ka th\u00ebn\u00eb me fillim se nuk do lidhje dhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":50492,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,243],"tags":[331,333,332],"class_list":{"0":"post-50491","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-skandale-lajme","9":"tag-histori","10":"tag-rrefim","11":"tag-skandale"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50491","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=50491"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/50491\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/50492"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=50491"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=50491"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=50491"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}