Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e vdekjes. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb dicka e pamundur. \u00a0Ajo nuk duhet t\u00eb ishte, por \u00ebsht\u00eb. M\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr \u201cTu ndar\u00eb\u201d nga jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mbash q\u00ebndrim ndaj saj. \u00a0Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb mister. Misteri (jeta, ky mister) lind n\u00eb castin kur ne vijm\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb; n\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebn. Pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb at\u00eb cast, jeta fillon; ajo s do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb po ajo. Sapo lindim ne qajm\u00eb. T\u00eb qarit ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me instiktin; kur instikti bashkohet me ekzistencialen n\u00eb at\u00eb moment jeta jon\u00eb merr ngjyra.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb prej ngjyrave kryesore t\u00eb jet\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria. Sapo ne lindim t\u00eb gjith\u00eb na duan; pra dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb e t\u00eb ushqyerit, fitimi I rr\u00ebnj\u00ebve n\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebn. T\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne \u201ct\u00eb jetueshmit\u201d (njer\u00ebzor\u00ebt) jemi t\u00eb bindur q\u00eb pa dashuri \u2026s ka g\u00ebzim, s ka jet\u00eb, pa dashuri ne jemi t\u00eb etur p\u00ebr dicka t\u00eb panjohur, ne jemi t\u00eb pambushur, t\u00eb zbraz\u00ebt, jemi vras\u00ebs t\u00eb vetvetes, thjesht en\u00eb pa brendi. Pa at\u00eb (dashurin\u00eb) ne ndiejm\u00eb sesi trupat tan\u00eb I pushton paplotshm\u00ebria zbras\u00ebtira, varf\u00ebria. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb aq e shenjt\u00eb sa duhet ruajtur nga gjithfar\u00eb helmesh, f\u00eblliq\u00ebsirash \u201cprishjesh\u201d t\u00eb cilat e helmojn\u00eb at\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Shpesh her\u00eb ne njer\u00ebzit e ndiejm\u00eb t\u00eb nevojshme t\u00eb zhdukemi; thjesht t\u00eb ikim diku gjetk\u00eb, diku larg\u2026 Fatkeq\u00ebmir\u00ebsisht vet\u00eb ideja \u00ebsht\u00eb fantastike; s do t\u00eb kishte as shqet\u00ebsime, as alarmime, as p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. Por, vet\u00eb dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. \u00c7far\u00eb ndodh vall\u00eb n\u00ebse kjo p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi (dashuria) bie n\u00eb duart e nj\u00eb t\u00eb pap\u00ebrgjegjshmi? Dashuria rr\u00ebshqet\u2026<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb mendoj se rr\u00ebshqet p\u00ebr shkak se ne shpesh her\u00eb veprojm\u00eb me instiktet dhe jo intuit\u00ebn. Fundja un\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktoj se \u00e7\u2019 \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria pasi s ka p\u00ebrcaktim t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, por e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ajo gjendet Brenda secilit prej nesh; ajo gjendet si marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dhe si gjendje, si p\u00ebrsosm\u00ebri dhe si unikale. Kur dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendje ne s mund t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb asgj\u00eb me t\u00eb. Ajo do t\u00eb rrezatoj\u00eb, por nuk do t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb burgje p\u00ebr ask\u00ebnd dhe nuk do t\u2019ju lejoj\u00eb t\u00eb gjendeni t\u00eb prangosur nga dikush.<\/p>\n
Dashuria vjen si era, thjesht mos bini n\u00eb dashuri, por dashuroni \u2026 Dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb gruaje dhe nj\u00eb episode n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e nje mashkulli..!<\/p>\n
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Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e vdekjes. Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb dicka e pamundur. \u00a0Ajo nuk duhet t\u00eb ishte, por \u00ebsht\u00eb. M\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr \u201cTu ndar\u00eb\u201d nga jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb mbash q\u00ebndrim ndaj saj. \u00a0Jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb mister. Misteri (jeta, ky mister) lind n\u00eb castin kur ne vijm\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb; n\u00eb ekzistenc\u00ebn. Pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb at\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":52770,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[319],"tags":[336],"class_list":{"0":"post-52769","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-letersi","8":"tag-altedo-myteveli"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52769","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52769"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52769\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52770"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52769"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52769"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52769"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}