\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se udh\u00ebzimet p\u00ebr rritjen e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm nuk ekzistojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Megjithat\u00eb, Ericka G. Rascon Ramirez, nj\u00eb profesor n\u00eb Universitetin e Essex, ka kryer nj\u00eb studim q\u00eb ka treguar se n\u00ebnat e nevrike jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb rriten me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb vajza t\u00eb suksesshme.<\/p>\n
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse vajzat e suksesshme kan\u00eb n\u00ebnat shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira.”Bright Side” ka studiuar k\u00ebto teori dhe na tregon avantazhet e t\u00eb pasurit t\u00eb nj\u00eb n\u00ebna “t\u00eb inatosur “.<\/p>\n
Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb adoleshent\u00ebt ndjehen t\u00eb zem\u00ebruar me n\u00ebnat e tyre duke u ankuar se nuk i lejojn\u00eb ata t\u00eb dalin me miqt\u00eb e tyre, duke i detyruar ata t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ata madje ndiejn\u00eb xhelozi ndaj \u00a0miqve t\u00eb tyre, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt n\u00eb syt\u00eb e tyre duken t\u00eb lumtur. Por b\u00ebhuni gati t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoni falje p\u00ebr n\u00ebn\u00ebn tuaj, pasi ajo ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nga disa hulumtime t\u00eb kryera me 15,000 nx\u00ebn\u00ebs t\u00eb moshave 13-14 vje\u00e7, u konkludua se n\u00ebnat k\u00ebrkuese dhe t\u00eb ashpra ngren\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebrkues se ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Kjo quhet edhe m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e shkurt\u00ebr p\u00ebr sukses: nj\u00eb prind i k\u00ebrkuar \u00ebsht\u00eb zgjidhja.<\/p>\n
Ky studim nuk u fokusua n\u00eb n\u00ebnat q\u00eb i mbyllin vajzat e tyre n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, kontrollojn\u00eb \u00e7do l\u00ebvizje t\u00eb tyre, ndalojn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka, ose p\u00ebrdorin abuzime fizike ose mendore p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb “n\u00ebn\u00eb e padurueshme” \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb n\u00ebn\u00eb q\u00eb vazhdimisht jep udh\u00ebzime p\u00ebr vendimmarrjen e ardhshme, paralajm\u00ebron p\u00ebr shtatz\u00ebnin\u00eb dhe martes\u00ebn e hershme, jep detyra dhe k\u00ebrkon ndihm\u00eb p\u00ebr pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb; kontrollon koh\u00ebn e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre dhe ka shpresa t\u00eb m\u00ebdha p\u00ebr t\u00eb ardhmen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, k\u00ebto mama b\u00ebjn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb shumica e adoleshent\u00ebve urrejn\u00eb. Profesori shpjegoi se n\u00ebnat e rrepta k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr edukimin e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, insistojn\u00eb n\u00eb marrjen e notave m\u00eb t\u00eb larta dhe n\u00eb vendosjen e pritjeve t\u00eb m\u00ebdha.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb se udh\u00ebzimet p\u00ebr rritjen e nj\u00eb f\u00ebmije t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm nuk ekzistojn\u00eb. Megjithat\u00eb, Ericka G. Rascon Ramirez, nj\u00eb profesor n\u00eb Universitetin e Essex, ka kryer nj\u00eb studim q\u00eb ka treguar se n\u00ebnat e nevrike jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb rriten me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb vajza t\u00eb suksesshme. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse vajzat e suksesshme kan\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2013,"featured_media":53225,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-53224","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53224","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2013"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=53224"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/53224\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/53225"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=53224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=53224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=53224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}