\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Filozof\u00ebt dhe mistik\u00ebt me shekuj t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb na kan\u00eb treguar se na nevojiten vet\u00ebm tre dashnor\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Secili prej tyre sh\u00ebrben p\u00ebr nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe asgj\u00eb nuk na garanton se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u2019i p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb t\u00eb tre. Por, me siguri jeni duke e menduar nj\u00eb gj\u00eb: \u00e7far\u00eb jan\u00eb k\u00ebta tre lloj dashnor\u00ebsh?<\/p>\n
Epo,\u00a0dashuria e par\u00eb\u00a0fillon kur jemi t\u00eb rinj. Ndryshe njihet si \u201cdashuria idealistike\u201d. \u00cbsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka sikur n\u00eb p\u00ebrralla. Ne besojm\u00eb se jemi duke e b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr familjen dhe shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb. E dini ndjenj\u00ebn-\u00a0 mendoni se e keni gjetur personin q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i\/e p\u00ebrsosur. \u00c7do person ndihet xheloz pran\u00eb jush sepse jeni \u201c\u00e7ifti i p\u00ebrsosur\u201d.<\/p>\n
Problemi i vet\u00ebm me k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj dashurie? Kryesisht mb\u00ebshtetet n\u00eb at\u00eb se si ju shohin tjer\u00ebt, e jo n\u00eb at\u00eb se si ju v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ndiheni. Lloji i dyt\u00eb i dashuris\u00eb\u00a0ndodh kur gj\u00ebrat v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsohen. Ndryshe njihet edhe si \u201cdashuria e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb\u201d. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria ku zhytemi thell\u00eb n\u00eb seksualitetin ton\u00eb, n\u00eb d\u00ebshirat tona dhe fillojm\u00eb t\u2019iu p\u00ebrgjigjemi nj\u00eb pyetje: Kush jam un\u00eb? Her\u00eb pas here mendoni se keni lindur p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Her\u00ebve tjera d\u00ebshironi t\u2019ia hiqni kok\u00ebn nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. \u00cbsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka me pasion, e gabuar dhe q\u00eb ju l\u00ebndon. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb ndaheni, riktheheni prap\u00eb bashk\u00eb, ndaheni prap\u00eb, etj.<\/p>\n
Secil\u00ebn her\u00eb e kuptoni se thjesht nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb funksionon. Lloji i tret\u00eb i dashuris\u00eb\u00a0vjen nga asgj\u00eb. Kur e takoni k\u00ebt\u00eb person, asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk e keni konsideruar se do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoni me t\u00eb. Ndoshta nuk keni qen\u00eb fare duke k\u00ebrkuar nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb re, ose mendoni se personalitetet i keni krejt\u00ebsisht t\u00eb kund\u00ebrta, por kur filloni t\u00eb lidheni, at\u00ebher\u00eb fillon di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn asnj\u00ebri prej jush nuk jeni p\u00ebrgatitur. Kur e filloni lidhjen, e shihni se \u00e7do gj\u00eb rrjedh si uji. Edhe personalitetet tuaja p\u00ebrshtaten jasht\u00ebzakonisht shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ju i kompletoni forcat dhe dob\u00ebsit\u00eb e nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, andaj q\u00eb t\u00eb dy ndiheni se mund ta pushtoni t\u00ebr\u00eb bot\u00ebn. Keni kaluar shum\u00eb\u00e7ka, munde e ndarjet \u00eb shumta, por tani e dini se keni lindur p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb person sepse e p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoni nj\u00ebri-tjetrin n\u00eb \u00e7do aspekt. Kur ta gjeni k\u00ebt\u00eb lloj t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb, b\u00ebni \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e humbni \u2013 edhe n\u00ebse duhet t\u00eb dilni nga vetja.<\/p>\n
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\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Filozof\u00ebt dhe mistik\u00ebt me shekuj t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb na kan\u00eb treguar se na nevojiten vet\u00ebm tre dashnor\u00eb. Secili prej tyre sh\u00ebrben p\u00ebr nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb dhe asgj\u00eb nuk na garanton se t\u00eb gjith\u00eb do t\u2019i p\u00ebrjetojm\u00eb t\u00eb tre. Por, me siguri jeni duke e menduar nj\u00eb gj\u00eb: \u00e7far\u00eb jan\u00eb k\u00ebta tre lloj […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-58051","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58051","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=58051"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/58051\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=58051"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=58051"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=58051"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}