{"id":66534,"date":"2019-02-01T12:01:21","date_gmt":"2019-02-01T11:01:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=66534"},"modified":"2019-02-01T12:01:21","modified_gmt":"2019-02-01T11:01:21","slug":"cfare-duan-grate-nga-burrat","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/cfare-duan-grate-nga-burrat\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7far\u00eb duan grat\u00eb nga burrat?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00ebse i zbatoni k\u00ebto pes\u00eb k\u00ebshilla, ka shanse q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua t\u2019ju respektoj\u00eb dhe t\u2019ju doj\u00eb<\/p>\n<p>Tregohuni i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm me fjal\u00ebt:<\/p>\n<p>Nuk mundet t\u2019i thoni t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs se e doni n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment dhe pastaj ta quani \u201cku*v\u00eb\u201d kur jeni i inatosur, dhe n\u00eb fund t\u00eb prisni prej saj q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet e sigurt me ju.<\/p>\n<p>Fjal\u00ebt tuaja kan\u00eb fuqi ta ulin at\u00eb moralisht ose ta ngren\u00eb n\u00eb qiell.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb vazhdim\u00ebsi duhet t\u00eb komunikoni me t\u00eb duke i b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ditur sa e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme \u00ebsht\u00eb, se \u00ebsht\u00eb e vetmja p\u00ebr ju dhe q\u00eb nuk ju intereson askush tjet\u00ebr por dashuroni vet\u00ebm at\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Ndihmojeni t\u00eb ndihet e qet\u00eb dhe e mbrojtur me fjal\u00ebt tuaja, tregohuni i sjellsh\u00ebm dhe tregojini ngroht\u00ebsi, edhe kur jeni i nevrikosur.<\/p>\n<p>Tregohuni i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm n\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar:<\/p>\n<p>Komunikimi shkon n\u00eb dy krah\u00eb; e folur dhe e d\u00ebgjuar. N\u00ebse partnerja juaj kupton se ju nuk e d\u00ebgjoni, at\u00ebher\u00eb ajo do t\u00eb ndihet e pasigurt.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb akt q\u00eb tregon dashuri. Prandaj, t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh, t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh v\u00ebrtet, pa gjykuar dhe pa vet\u00ebmbrojtje k\u00ebrkon kuraj\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Winston Churchill ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: \u201cKuraj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ngrihesh dhe t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh; por edhe t\u00eb ulesh dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh.<\/p>\n<p>\u201dTregohuni i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm n\u00eb veprimet tuaja<\/p>\n<p>Po, fjal\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme, por n\u00ebse ato nuk shoq\u00ebrohen me vepra, at\u00ebher\u00eb ju do ta helmoni besimin.<\/p>\n<p>Besimi \u00ebsht\u00eb baza p\u00ebr siguri. Siguria krijohet kur ajo q\u00eb thoni dhe ajo q\u00eb veproni jan\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn linj\u00eb.<br \/>\nDhe kur premtimet ndiqen nga veprimet!<\/p>\n<p>Nuk mundet, p\u00ebr shembull, t\u00eb thoni se do t\u00eb jeni n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi n\u00eb 6:00 dhe t\u00eb vini n\u00eb 8:30, duke pritur q\u00eb ajo t\u00eb ket\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb hidhet n\u00eb shtrat me ju.<\/p>\n<p>Q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebria me t\u00eb, tregon gjithashtu se nuk po i fshihni asgj\u00eb. Mos i fshihni SMS, email-et apo detaje nga dita juaj.<\/p>\n<p>Edhe n\u00ebse e dini q\u00eb do inatoset kur t\u2019ia tregoni!<\/p>\n<p>Tregohuni i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn<\/p>\n<p>E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb virtyti dhe vlera juaj. N\u00ebse ju ndryshoni versionin e t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs, rrezikoni t\u00eb thyeni besimin e saj p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse ajo sheh q\u00eb i thoni nj\u00eb g\u00ebnjesht\u00ebr t\u00eb bardh\u00eb mamas\u00eb suaj, ajo do t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb se nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do ta g\u00ebnjeni edhe at\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn m\u00ebnyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00ebse ajo sheh se po tregoheni i lig\u00eb me punonj\u00ebsin e check-in-t, do t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb se t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebni edhe me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>E v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se fjala juaj \u00ebsht\u00eb thelbi i gjith\u00eb vlerave tuaja.<br \/>\nTregohuni i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn tuaj, dhe ajo do ju shoh\u00eb si nj\u00eb njeri tek i cili mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetet.<\/p>\n<p>Tregohuni i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm me angazhimin tuaj me t\u00eb<\/p>\n<p>Edhe n\u00ebse ky angazhim p\u00ebrkon me nevojat e saj, ajo do t\u2019ju respektoj\u00eb n\u00ebse jeni konsistent me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>P\u00ebr shembull; n\u00ebse keni marr\u00eb nj\u00eb angazhim q\u00eb shkon kund\u00ebr nevojave t\u00eb saj, gjithsesi mos ndryshoni planet: do t\u00eb humbni respektin e saj!<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb nd\u00ebrtosh besim dhe siguri emocionale p\u00ebrmes q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebris\u00eb s\u00eb fjal\u00ebve, d\u00ebgjimit, veprave dhe t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebs do ta p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoj\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm cil\u00ebsin\u00eb e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies dhe t\u00eb jet\u00ebs tuaj seksuale.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00ebse i zbatoni k\u00ebto pes\u00eb k\u00ebshilla, ka shanse q\u00eb nj\u00eb grua t\u2019ju respektoj\u00eb dhe t\u2019ju doj\u00eb Tregohuni i q\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm me fjal\u00ebt: Nuk mundet t\u2019i thoni t\u00eb dashur\u00ebs se e doni n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment dhe pastaj ta quani \u201cku*v\u00eb\u201d kur jeni i inatosur, dhe n\u00eb fund t\u00eb prisni prej saj q\u00eb t\u00eb ndihet e sigurt me [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":66535,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[337,234,194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-66534","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-kulture","8":"category-kuriozitete","9":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66534","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=66534"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66534\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/66535"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=66534"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=66534"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=66534"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}