Asgj\u00eb nuk duket m\u00eb keq se t\u00eb t\u00eb mashtrojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh g\u00ebnjeshtrat e dikujt q\u00eb ti dashuron shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb jan\u00eb tradh\u00ebtuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb nxehur, t\u00eb frustruar, t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjyer dhe zem\u00ebr thyer.<\/p>\n
Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb grat\u00eb dhe burrat mashtrojn\u00eb partner\u00ebt e tyre n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb caktuar t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, statistikat tregojn\u00eb se burrat jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb prirut t\u00eb tradh\u00ebtojn\u00eb, se partneret e tyre.<\/p>\n
Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb tjeshta p\u00ebr t\u2019u trajtuar, kushdo mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb i thyesh\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dhe e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e meshkuve q\u00eb tradh\u00ebtojn\u00eb \u00a0partneret \u00a0e tyre, i dashurojn\u00eb ende.<\/p>\n
At\u00ebher\u00eb, p\u00ebrse e b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb? Sigruisht, \u00e7do situat\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb unike, por ka disa motive t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithshme q\u00eb t\u00ebrheqin shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen:<\/p>\n
1. Ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb papjekur<\/strong><\/p>\n Mund t\u00eb duket si nj\u00eb justifikim pretekst idjot p\u00ebr t\u00eb justifikuar nj\u00eb gabim, por e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se rrall\u00eb her\u00eb burrat kan\u00eb pjekurin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ditur me siguri se tradh\u00ebtia her\u00ebt apo von\u00eb do zbulojet. Ata thjesht nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb se marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia e tyre jasht\u00ebmartesore mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb pasoja shkat\u00ebrruese p\u00ebr partnered e tyre, p\u00ebr familjet e tyre, apo mund t\u00eb humbasin edhe njer\u00ebzit e af\u00ebrt q\u00eb duan shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n Sigurisht, jot \u00eb gjith\u00eb burrat jan\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, por nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e madhe e tyre e b\u00ebjn\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb.<\/p>\n 2. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb pasigurt\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n Po, edhe pse mund t\u00eb ngjaj\u00eb e pabesueshme, ka shum\u00eb burra q\u00eb mund t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb vjet\u00ebr apo shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj, shum\u00eb inteligjent\u00eb apo jo aq t\u00eb bukur sa p\u00ebr t\u2019u dashur nga nj\u00eb grua. Ndaj zgjedhin t\u00eb tradh\u00ebtojn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb patur nj\u00eb konfirmim nga gra t\u00eb tjera dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb, ndihen mir\u00eb me vetveten, duke menduar se k\u00ebshtu jan\u00eb t\u00eb denj\u00eb, t\u00eb d\u00ebshiruesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs p\u00ebr grat\u00eb e tjera.<\/p>\n 3. Duan t\u00eb shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb martes\u00ebn e tyre<\/strong><\/p>\n Si ka mund\u00ebsi? N\u00ebse do t\u00eb shp\u00ebtosh nj\u00eb martes\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb normale t\u00eb mos tradh\u00ebtosh apo jo? Por ja q\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se shum\u00eb burra nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb zot\u00eb n\u00eb komunikim. Kur nisin t\u00eb ken\u00eb problem me partnered e tyre nuk din\u00eb si t\u2019i zgjidhin dhe mendojn\u00eb se do jet\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb ngush\u00ebllim n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr vend.<\/p>\n Mund t\u00eb ndihen si t\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb kurth dhe t\u00eb palumtur n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tyre, por nuk duan t\u00eb fyejn\u00eb parnteret e tyre duke u ndar\u00eb. Ata thjesht presin q\u00eb grat\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohen dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb.<\/p>\n 4. Kan\u00eb pritshm\u00ebri jo shum\u00eb realiste<\/strong><\/p>\n Disa burra mendojn\u00eb se pas martese do ken\u00eb nj\u00eb jet\u00eb seksuale shum\u00eb t\u00eb bukur dhe t\u00eb mrekullueshme. Shum\u00eb prej tyre zhg\u00ebnjehen kur shohin se nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak ashtu, por duhet t\u00eb marrin p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi, t\u00eb kujdesen p\u00ebr njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqin nevojat e tyre.<\/p>\n Ata besojn\u00eb se partnere duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqin kapri\u00e7iot \u00a0e tyre 24 or\u00eb n\u00eb dit\u00eb, 7 dit\u00eb t\u00eb jav\u00ebs dhe nuk kuptojn\u00eb se grat\u00eb e tyre kan\u00eb jet\u00ebt e veta dhe prioritete t\u00eb tjera.<\/p>\n 5. Nuk ndihen t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar<\/strong><\/p>\n Burrat duan t\u2019i lavd\u00ebrosh spontanisht dhe me sinqeritet. Punojn\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetur familjet e tyre dhe n\u00eb k\u00ebmbim k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb mir\u00ebnjohje dhe v\u00ebmendje. N\u00ebse nevojat e tyre emotive nuk plot\u00ebsohen dhe injorohen apo kritikohen, do ndihen t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb pas dore dhe t\u00eb shk\u00ebputur emocionalisht nga partneret e tyre, pa intimitet n\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetes\u00eb.<\/p>\n P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, marrin n\u00eb konsiderat\u00eb nj\u00eb aventur\u00eb, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb admirimin dhe v\u00ebmendjen q\u00eb i b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndihen mir\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr arsyet pse meshkujt tradh\u00ebtojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n 6. Besojn\u00eb se marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia po humbet emocionet<\/strong><\/p>\n Kur nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie b\u00ebhet shum\u00eb monotone, mund t\u00eb duket nj\u00eb tmerr i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb n\u00ebse nuk b\u00ebn asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar situat\u00ebn ose n\u00ebse gruaja nuk do ta zgjidh\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb problem.<\/p>\n N\u00ebse nj\u00eb burr\u00eb m\u00ebrzitet nga jeta e p\u00ebrditshme me bashk\u00ebshorten e tij, \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm \u00e7\u00ebshtje kohe para se nj\u00ebri prej tyre t\u00eb nis\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb jet\u00ebn m\u00eb ekzaltuese (sidomos n\u00ebse askush nuk b\u00ebn gj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta zgjidhur k\u00ebt\u00eb problem).<\/p>\n Burrat zakonisht kan\u00eb argumente p\u00ebr t\u2019i shp\u00ebtuar rutin\u00ebs s\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme dhe t\u00eb ken\u00eb eksperienca apo aventura t\u00eb reja.<\/p>\n 7. Jan\u00eb konfuz\u00eb mbi dashurin\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n Disa burra nuk kuptojn\u00eb evolucionin e dashuris\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetshme dhe afatgjat\u00eb. Ata nuk kuptojn\u00eb se n\u00eb nj\u00eb lidhje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe afatgjat\u00eb, nxitimi i fillimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb romance \u00ebsht\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsuar me ndjenja m\u00eb pak intensive, por shum\u00eb t\u00eb dashura.<\/p>\n Burrat q\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohen mbi romantizmin ideal, humbasin n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb faz\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr dhe intensive dhe d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb pasionin q\u00eb ishte n\u00eb fillim t\u00eb lidhjes.<\/p>\n Mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb miliona motive p\u00ebr se meshkujt tradh\u00ebtojn\u00eb partnereet e tyre, por n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e tyre duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tyre. Ndaj, arsyeja kryesore e tradh\u00ebtis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb se ka di\u00e7ka t\u00eb gabuar n\u00eb bashkimin me partneret.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Asgj\u00eb nuk duket m\u00eb keq se t\u00eb t\u00eb mashtrojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb d\u00ebgjosh g\u00ebnjeshtrat e dikujt q\u00eb ti dashuron shum\u00eb. Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb jan\u00eb tradh\u00ebtuar n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb nxehur, t\u00eb frustruar, t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjyer dhe zem\u00ebr thyer. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb grat\u00eb dhe burrat mashtrojn\u00eb partner\u00ebt e tyre n\u00eb nj\u00eb moment t\u00eb caktuar t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, statistikat […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":66753,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[234,194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-66752","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-kuriozitete","8":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66752","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=66752"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/66752\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/66753"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=66752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=66752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=66752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}