{"id":67023,"date":"2019-02-03T17:54:08","date_gmt":"2019-02-03T16:54:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=67023"},"modified":"2019-02-03T17:54:08","modified_gmt":"2019-02-03T16:54:08","slug":"nga-terrori-i-dhunes-ne-familje-ne-kampione-bote","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/nga-terrori-i-dhunes-ne-familje-ne-kampione-bote\/","title":{"rendered":"Nga terrori i dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje n\u00eb kampione bote"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ai m\u00eb rrihte, gjuante, m\u00eb mbyste derisa ngelja pa ndjenja, m\u00eb mbulonte fytyr\u00ebn me jast\u00ebk\u00eb, m\u00eb dhunonte p\u00ebr or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb, m\u00eb q\u00ebllonte me thik\u00eb dhe m\u00eb thoshte se do m\u00eb vriste mua dhe djemt\u00eb, pastaj veten.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Bec Rawlings, e konsideruar “Mbret\u00ebresha e boksit\u201d, kujtoi momentet e terrorrit nd\u00ebrsa jetonte me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb ushtronte dhun\u00eb ndaj saj.<\/p>\n

Megjith\u00ebse australianja 29-vje\u00e7are nuk qan m\u00eb kur flet p\u00ebr martes\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb mjer\u00eb, disa plag\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohen p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Rreth gjasht\u00eb vite m\u00eb par\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb flinte pa frik\u00ebn se bashk\u00ebshorti do ta vriste.<\/p>\n

\u201cJam gjall\u00eb, mbijetova,\u201d-<\/em>shprehet ajo.<\/p>\n

Ish-luft\u00ebtarja e UFC, n\u00ebn\u00eb e dy djemve, kampione e boksit, ka folur hapur p\u00ebr dhimbjen e saj pasi d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha femrat q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb ashtu si\u00e7 ka vuajtur ajo dikur.<\/p>\n

Ajo d\u00ebshiron ti tregoj\u00eb viktimave t\u00eb abuzimit se nuk duhet t\u00eb faj\u00ebsojn\u00eb veten dhe se nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb dobta.<\/p>\n

\u201cUn\u00eb jam p\u00ebrkufizimi i nj\u00eb gruaje t\u00eb fuqishme. N\u00ebse kjo ndodhi me mua, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se mund t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb me k\u00ebdo,”<\/em>-tha Bec.<\/p>\n

Rawlings nuk ngriti padi kund\u00ebr ish-bashk\u00ebshortit Dan Hyatt, babait t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebs s\u00eb saj m\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl.<\/p>\n

Q\u00eb kur lidhja e tyre p\u00ebrfundoi, ish-boksieri i MMA, Hyatt \u00ebsht\u00eb shpallur fajtor p\u00ebr abuzimin fizik dhe emocional t\u00eb t\u00eb dashurave t\u00eb tij. Dhe Rawlings i vjen keq q\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtja e saj nuk kaloi n\u00eb gjyq.<\/p>\n

\u201cMund ti kisha shp\u00ebtuar vajzat e tjera n\u00ebse do e kisha akuzuar,\u201d-<\/em>shtoi ajo, me d\u00ebshp\u00ebrim.\u00a0\u201cM\u00ebnyra e vetme q\u00eb m\u00eb ka ngelur p\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb tregoj historin\u00eb time. Shpresoj se n\u00ebse dikush q\u00eb e lexon dhe e kupton se kjo m\u00eb ka ndodhur mua, q\u00eb dukem nj\u00eb grua e fort\u00eb dhe e patrembur, at\u00ebher\u00eb mund ti ndodh\u00eb kujtdo. Nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se je i dob\u00ebt, nuk jeni patetik\u00eb sepse k\u00ebshtu u ndjeva un\u00eb.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Me shum\u00eb guxim, Rawlings vendosi q\u00eb t\u00eb merrte dy djemt\u00eb e saj Enson dhe Zake, e t\u00eb largohej nga sht\u00ebpia e saj n\u00eb vitin 2013. Por po t\u00eb mos kishte qen\u00eb p\u00ebr dy djemt\u00eb e saj, australianja shprehet se ndodhta do kishte q\u00ebndruar n\u00eb at\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie abuzive fizike dhe emocionale.<\/p>\n

\u201cU largova p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebt,\u201d<\/em>-tha ajo. \u201cSapo m\u00eb k\u00ebrc\u00ebnoi se do ti l\u00ebndonte, ika. N\u00ebse s\u2019do ishte p\u00ebr djemt\u00eb, nuk do isha larguar kurr\u00eb.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n

Ra\u00eblings u takua me Hyatt n\u00eb 2010 dhe brenda tre muajsh, bosierja thot\u00eb se ai filloi ti ulte vlerat. AI luante me mendjen e saj dhe e torturonte. Kjo tortur\u00eb u kthye fizike kur Ra\u00eblings mbeti shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb me Enson. Dhuna ishte e pam\u00ebshirshme, \u00a0ishte e pranishme \u00e7do dit\u00eb dhe si nj\u00eb ferr p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Por nga frika ajo q\u00ebndoi me ish-bashk\u00ebshortin.<\/p>\n

\u201cAi ishte vet\u00eb boksier, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb edhe n\u00ebse p\u00ebrpiqesha nuk do e mundja dot. Ishte e pamundur p\u00ebr mua t\u00eb mbroja veten. Ai m\u00eb digjte rrobat. M\u00eb thoshte gjithmon\u00eb se n\u00ebse ika do m\u00eb gjente dhe vriste s\u00eb bashku me familjen time.”<\/em><\/p>\n

Hyatt u lirua nga burgu tet\u00eb muaj m\u00eb par\u00eb dhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb email p\u00ebr CNN, australiani e p\u00ebrshkroi marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tij me Ra\u00eblings si “toksike” dhe “t\u00eb paq\u00ebndrueshme”.<\/p>\n

Por hodhi posht\u00eb pretendimet e dhun\u00ebs t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb nga ajo dhe i p\u00ebrshkroi pretendimet e saj se i k\u00ebrconi t\u00eb vriste djemt\u00eb si t\u00eb \u2018p\u00ebshtira\u2019.<\/p>\n

“Bec \u00ebsht\u00eb po aq viktim\u00eb e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies son\u00eb, ashtu si\u00e7 isha vet\u00eb,”<\/em>-shkroi ai.<\/p>\n

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Ai m\u00eb rrihte, gjuante, m\u00eb mbyste derisa ngelja pa ndjenja, m\u00eb mbulonte fytyr\u00ebn me jast\u00ebk\u00eb, m\u00eb dhunonte p\u00ebr or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb, m\u00eb q\u00ebllonte me thik\u00eb dhe m\u00eb thoshte se do m\u00eb vriste mua dhe djemt\u00eb, pastaj veten.\u201d Bec Rawlings, e konsideruar “Mbret\u00ebresha e boksit\u201d, kujtoi momentet e terrorrit nd\u00ebrsa jetonte me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb ushtronte […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2013,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,191],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-67023","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-aktualitet","7":"category-bota"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67023","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2013"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=67023"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/67023\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=67023"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=67023"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=67023"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}