Ndihma e yjeve \u00ebsht\u00eb e \u00e7muar p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar n\u00eb harmoni me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
DASHI\u00a0<\/strong>\u2013 Nga natyra, Dashi zem\u00ebrohet p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Madje, mund t\u00eb nervozohet edhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb t\u00eb ngr\u00ebnit apo frym\u00ebmarrjes. E megjithat\u00eb, zem\u00ebrimi i nj\u00eb Dashi zgjat maksimumi 5 minuta. Me t\u00eb mbaruar k\u00ebto minuta, Dashit i rikthehet buz\u00ebqeshja. Kur zem\u00ebrohet \u00ebsht\u00eb \u2018i tmerrsh\u00ebm\u2019 e madje mund t\u00eb mendosh edhe se \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri i \u00e7mendur. Duhet absolutisht t\u00eb evitosh replikat: nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb mbrohesh, por k\u00ebrkon aleanc\u00ebn t\u00ebnde dhe urren g\u00ebnjeshtrat. Mos i thuaj t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohet.<\/p>\n DEMI<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Qet\u00ebsia e Demit mund t\u00eb t\u00eb mashtroj\u00eb, pasi do mendoje se \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb ashtu, pavar\u00ebsisht asaj q\u00eb b\u00ebn ti. Por, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aspak k\u00ebshtu, ndaj evito t\u2019i \u2018t\u00ebrheq\u00ebsh bishtin\u2019. Respekto fjal\u00ebn e dh\u00ebn\u00eb, mos anulo nj\u00eb takim n\u00eb minut\u00ebn e fundit, mos i ndrysho zakonet e tij\/saj dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, mos i thuaj kurr\u00eb gruas s\u00eb Demit q\u00eb mamaja jote gatuan m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ajo. N\u00ebse nj\u00eb dem humbet durimin, transformohu n\u00eb toreador, sepse nga vet\u00eb emri i shenj\u00ebs, t\u00eb thot\u00eb qart\u00eb se cili do jet\u00eb reagimi.<\/p>\n BINJAK\u00cbT<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Nj\u00eb Binjak \u00ebsht\u00eb njeri q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb shaka, t\u00eb qesh\u00eb, t\u00eb provokoj\u00eb, t\u00eb luaj\u00eb me ironi dhe sarkaz\u00ebm , deri sa, n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb, nxehet dhe nis t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb lig\u00ebsi edhe m\u00eb mizore se \u00e7\u2019mund t\u2019i shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb mendje nj\u00eb Akrepi. \u00cbsht\u00eb i paparashikuesh\u00ebm dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos e zem\u00ebruar, duhet t\u00eb qesh\u00ebsh me t\u00eb gjitha batutat e tij\/saj (edhe kur t\u00eb ofendojn\u00eb) dhe t\u00eb tregosh entuziaz\u00ebm dhe miratim p\u00ebr \u00e7do ide apo propozim t\u00eb nj\u00eb Binjaku. Preferon nj\u00eb ofendim t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb \u00a0(\u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsuar me k\u00ebt\u00eb) n\u00eb vend t\u00eb nj\u00eb reagimi shum\u00eb serioz.<\/p>\n GAFORRJA<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Gaforrja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb q\u00eb \u00a0dashuron p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelit\u00eb, paqen dhe qet\u00ebsin\u00eb familjare. Trishtohet shum\u00eb shpejt, e ka n\u00eb natyr\u00eb. \u00a0Nuk zem\u00ebrohet shpejt dhe kur kjo ndodh, t\u00eb \u2018p\u00ebrplas n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb\u2019 t\u00eb gjitha emocionet e veta negative, i\/e nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm\/e se mund t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndoj\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar zem\u00ebrimin e Gaforres, ki respekt p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e shtrenjt\u00eb t\u00eb tij\/saj, mos keqtrajto kafsh\u00ebt dhe mos e detyro t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb dy net\u00eb rresht n\u00eb diskoteka t\u00eb tejmbushura dhe t\u00eb zhurmshme. \u00cbsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb.<\/p>\n LUANI<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Duke qen\u00eb shenj\u00eb zjarri, Luani ka nj\u00eb natyr\u00eb impulsive dhe aggressive. Por, di t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe zem\u00ebr gjer\u00eb dhe t\u00eb fal\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar zem\u00ebrimin e Luanit, mbulojeni me komplimente para se t\u2019i thoni \u2018gabimin\u2019 q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe kujtojani sa i\/e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm\/e \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr ju\/.<\/p>\n VIRGJ\u00cbRESHA<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Dihet se shenja e Virgj\u00ebresh\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e p\u00ebrpikt\u00eb. Ndaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb t\u00eb kuptosh se cilat jan\u00eb sjelljet q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb shmangni, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos zem\u00ebruar nj\u00eb Virgj\u00ebresh\u00eb. Evitoni rr\u00ebmuj\u00ebn n\u00ebse bashk\u00ebjetoni me nj\u00eb Virgj\u00ebresh\u00eb, mos harroni t\u2019i ktheni borxhin q\u00eb i keni marr\u00eb (edhe kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr 20 cent), lani duart para se t\u00eb prekni t\u00eb tijat\/sajat dhe lani dh\u00ebmb\u00ebt para se ta puthni. K\u00ebshilla e fundit, por jo p\u00ebr nga r\u00ebnd\u00ebsia: m\u00ebsoni se \u00e7do shkak, ka pasoj\u00ebn.<\/p>\n PESHORJA<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Shenja e Peshores \u00ebsht\u00eb e famshme p\u00ebr diplomacin\u00eb e saj. \u00cbsht\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebrkim t\u00eb ekuilibrit dhe t\u00eb paqes s\u00eb brendshme , por pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye nervozohet thell\u00ebsisht, kur dikush p\u00ebrpiqet me \u00e7do kusht ta p\u00ebrfshij\u00eb n\u00eb z\u00ebnka me tone t\u00eb larta. Duke qen\u00eb shum\u00eb mendjemadh, mund t\u00eb mos ju fla\u00ebs p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar q\u00eb e gjitha kjo t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb, evitoni m\u00ebnyrat e ashpra t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebrit t\u00eb gj\u00ebrave dhe nis e detyroni t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb zgjedhje q\u00eb nuk ka nd\u00ebrmend t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb.<\/p>\n AKREPI<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Nuk ekzistojn\u00eb m\u00ebnyra q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e nevrikosin nj\u00eb Akrep. Natyra e Akrepit \u00ebsht\u00eb neurotike dhe e ndryshueshme. Mund t\u2019ju p\u00ebrgjigjet me tone agresive edhe po t\u2019i thuash se e do shum\u00eb, apo n\u00ebse p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb b\u00ebsh di\u00e7ka p\u00ebr t\u2019i rikthyer buz\u00ebqeshjen. E megjithat\u00eb, duke qen\u00eb njeri shum\u00eb i ndjesh\u00ebm, do ta kuptoj\u00eb se t\u00eb ka ofenduar dhe do p\u00ebrpiqet ta rregulloj\u00eb me nj\u00eb gjest afeksioni. Harrojeni t\u2019ju k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb falje: fjala \u201cM\u00eb fal\u201d nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb fjalorin e nj\u00eb Akrepi. Do ju duhet durim i pafund!<\/p>\n SHIGJETARI<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 \u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb e g\u00ebzueshme, pozitive dhe ka gjithnj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshjen t\u00eb stampuar n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb. Por, n\u00ebse mendon se do ta kalosh leht\u00eb, pasi jeni z\u00ebn\u00eb, gabohesh. P\u00ebrgatitu t\u00eb diskutosh p\u00ebr or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra dhe nga lodhja, do i jap\u00ebsh t\u00eb drejt\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur zem\u00ebrimin e Shigjetarit, mos v\u00ebr n\u00eb dyshim dijet dhe njohjet e tij. Nuk e ka t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb jet\u00eb sedentare dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebsh tifo p\u00ebr t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn skuad\u00ebr futbolli, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb problem m\u00eb vete.<\/p>\n BRICJAPI<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Dikush thot\u00eb se Bricjapi nuk ka ndjenja as n\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb e as n\u00eb t\u00eb keq. Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebshtu: e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se nuk do t\u2019i manifestoj\u00eb ato. Kur zem\u00ebrohet, bie n\u00eb qet\u00ebsi totale, duke t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ndihesh totalisht n\u00eb siklet. P\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb situat\u00eb, mos c\u00ebnoni privat\u00ebsin\u00eb e Bricjapit, mos e pengo n\u00eb pun\u00eb, mos i k\u00ebrko t\u00eb shpenzoj\u00eb apo t\u00eb t\u00eb ofroj\u00eb dark\u00ebn, mos i k\u00ebrko t\u00eb zgjedh\u00eb mes teje dhe karrier\u00ebs dhe mos e detyro t\u00eb shoh\u00eb nj\u00eb film me dashuri.<\/p>\n UJORI<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Shpesh Ujori shihet si njeri moskok\u00eb\u00e7ar\u00ebs q\u00eb nuk do t\u2019ia dij\u00eb p\u00ebr asgj\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr ask\u00ebnd. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet k\u00ebshtu, por n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste t\u00eb tjera i kushton shum\u00eb v\u00ebmendje \u00e7do gj\u00ebje q\u00eb ndodh rreth tij\/saj. Kur zem\u00ebrohet, mund t\u00eb hedh\u00eb pjata dhe gota nga dritarja apo t\u00eb zgjoj\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb lagjen me ul\u00ebrima. Kjo ndodh kur zbulon se dikush i ka kontrolluar telefonin, apo kur dikush tenton t\u2019i imponoj\u00eb rregulla q\u00eb nuk i shkojn\u00eb p\u00ebrshtat.<\/p>\n PESHQIT<\/strong>\u00a0\u2013 Prepotenca e Peshqve \u00ebsht\u00eb e pakap\u00ebrcyeshme dhe mund t\u00eb fitojn\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7mim p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. B\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr paradhom\u00ebn e sherreve, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn, shpesh, kjo shenj\u00eb e but\u00eb, b\u00ebhet protagoniste. Arg\u00ebtohet duke provokuar njer\u00ebzit me t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ka marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie dhe, p\u00ebr t\u00eb evituar debate t\u00eb ndezura, do ishte mir\u00eb t\u00eb shmangnit kunjat q\u00eb ju hedh. Kur ndjeshm\u00ebria e Peshqve l\u00ebndohet, \u00a0e merr vesh gjith\u00eb bota mbar\u00eb, fal\u00eb ankesave t\u00eb tij\/saj. P\u00ebr ta qet\u00ebsuar do duhen shum\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheli dhe \u00a0v\u00ebmendje.<\/p>\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ndihma e yjeve \u00ebsht\u00eb e \u00e7muar p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar n\u00eb harmoni me t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. DASHI\u00a0\u2013 Nga natyra, Dashi zem\u00ebrohet p\u00ebr \u00e7do gj\u00eb. Madje, mund t\u00eb nervozohet edhe p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn tuaj t\u00eb t\u00eb ngr\u00ebnit apo frym\u00ebmarrjes. E megjithat\u00eb, zem\u00ebrimi i nj\u00eb Dashi zgjat maksimumi 5 minuta. Me t\u00eb mbaruar k\u00ebto minuta, Dashit i rikthehet buz\u00ebqeshja. 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