Emisioni online \u201cFol me psikologen\u201d\u201dka trajtuar k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb disa histori njer\u00ebzore. \u201c\u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnit ju po t\u00eb ishit n\u00eb vendin tim?\u201d, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb titulli i rubrik\u00ebs m\u00eb t\u00eb re t\u00eb k\u00ebtij programi. K\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb prezantuar shqet\u00ebsimi dhe pyetja e nj\u00eb djaloshi nga Tirana i cili k\u00ebrkon mendimin e psikologes dhe mb\u00ebshtetjen e publikut. Ja \u00e7far\u00eb shkruan ai n\u00eb mesazhin e d\u00ebrguar:<\/p>\n
Jam Miri nga Tirana dhe prej disa koh\u00ebsh kam kuptuar se nuk m\u00eb p\u00eblqejn\u00eb vajzat dhe nuk dua t\u00eb kem raporte me to. Mendoj se jam gay, por kjo m\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb vuaj shum\u00eb. Si mund t\u00eb jetoj un\u00eb n\u00ebse jam i till\u00eb? Pse njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb njoh i urrejn\u00eb homoseksual\u00ebt? \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebnit ju po t\u00eb ishit n\u00eb vendin tim? Psikologia Ervisa Lula, nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht autore e k\u00ebtij programi ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb t\u00eb dy rasteve t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb cilat u trajtuan. S\u00eb bashku me psikologen Af\u00ebrdita Bano iu jan\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjur pyetjeve t\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejta t\u00eb b\u00ebra nga 2 vajza.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb 37-vje\u00e7are ka humbur shpresat se mund t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb njeri t\u00eb hajrit, por d\u00ebshiron shum\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb. Ka menduar si zgjidhje far\u00ebzimin artificial, por nuk di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb, jan\u00eb disa frik\u00ebra e dilema q\u00eb e mundojn\u00eb: Rritet nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb vet\u00ebm? N\u00ebse m\u00eb pyet p\u00ebr babain si t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjem? K\u00ebto jan\u00eb disa nga pyetjet q\u00eb ajo b\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Historia tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo e nj\u00eb vajze e cila pasi prind\u00ebrit e martuan me shkuesi, me nj\u00eb person q\u00eb e dhunonte u largua nga vendi. Ja \u00e7far\u00eb thot\u00eb ajo:<\/p>\n
\u201cN\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 18 vje\u00e7are prind\u00ebrit m\u00eb martuan me shkuesi, m\u00eb martuan me nj\u00eb dhunues. U dhunova barbarisht p\u00ebr 12 vite me radh\u00eb, ku p\u00ebr fatin e keq t\u00eb tyre erdh\u00ebn n\u00eb jet\u00eb dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e mi. Pas 10 viteve arrita t\u00eb arratisem jasht\u00eb shtetit, pas shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekjesh, 4 vite v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb m\u00ebdha rrug\u00ebve t\u00eb Europ\u00ebs, ia dola t\u00eb marr\u00eb letrat n\u00eb nj\u00eb shtet.\u201d<\/p>\n