T\u00eb mira dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, t\u00eb thjeshta dhe t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, komplekse dhe t\u00eb thjeshta dhe m\u00ebnyra si vendosim t\u00eb reagojm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehi\u2019 e karakterit ton\u00eb, i cili na ndihmon t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktojm\u00eb llojin e jet\u00ebs q\u00eb zgjedhim t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Historia e dy ujq\u00ebrve, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ju rr\u00ebfejm\u00eb m\u00eb posht\u00eb, n\u00eb fton t\u00eb reflektojm\u00eb mbi nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme: gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb zgjedhim t\u00eb ushqejm\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebt tona.<\/p>\n
Lexoje me v\u00ebmendje, dedikoji pak koh\u00eb analiz\u00ebs s\u00eb realitetit t\u00ebnd, t\u00eb mendosh p\u00ebr zgjedhjet e tua dhe sit \u00eb ec\u00ebsh n\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur dhe sjell prosperitet p\u00ebr ty.<\/p>\n
Historia e dy ujq\u00ebrve<\/strong><\/p>\n Kjo histori transmeton men\u00e7urin\u00eb e indian\u00ebve dhe ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me ndodhin\u00eb e nj\u00eb plaku, i cili i m\u00ebsoi nipit t\u00eb tij nj\u00eb leksion t\u00eb \u00e7muar q\u00eb do e shoq\u00ebronte m\u00eb pas gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n N\u00eb nj\u00eb nat\u00eb me shum\u00eb yje, plakushi u ul jasht\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe ftoi nipin e tij t\u00eb ulej pran\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n I rr\u00ebfeu disa histori nga jeta e tij, histori q\u00eb tregonin se ishte nj\u00eb nd\u00ebr burrat m\u00eb t\u00eb men\u00e7ur t\u00eb fshatit dhe id ha k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn.<\/p>\n Por leksioni m\u00eb i vlefsh\u00ebm q\u00eb do i vinte \u2018vul\u00ebn\u2019 jet\u00ebs s\u00eb nipit t\u00eb tij ishte kjo:<\/p>\n “E di nipi im, brenda nesh gjith\u00ebsecili ka dy ujq\u00ebr. K\u00ebta ujq\u00ebr luftojn\u00eb vazhdimisht me nj\u00ebri tjetrin, nj\u00eb luft\u00eb e tmerrshme, q\u00eb jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb mund ta p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb me leht\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n – Dy ujq\u00ebr? Si ka mund\u00ebsi? \u2013 pyeti nipi naiv.<\/p>\n “Kemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dy ujq\u00ebr t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht t\u00eb ndrysh\u00ebm brenda nesh. Nj\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb e keqja, jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha ndjenjat e k\u00ebqija q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ekzistojn\u00eb brenda qenies njer\u00ebzore: zem\u00ebrimi, zilia, xhelozia, lajmia, krenaria, pendimi, frika dhe meskiniteti, ndjenja e fajita, egoja dhe arrogance.<\/p>\n P\u00ebrsa i p\u00ebrket ujkut tjet\u00ebr, \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt e kund\u00ebrta. Ai p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb brenda njeriut: mir\u00ebsjellja, dashuria, shpesa, bujaria, g\u00ebzimi, paqja, besimi de e v\u00ebrteta.\u201d- shpjegoi plaku.<\/p>\n At\u00ebher\u00eb nipi pyeti<\/p>\n “Cili nga ujq\u00ebrit \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i fort\u00eb? Cili fiton luft\u00ebn?”<\/p>\n “Kjo biri im, varet nga secili nga ne. Cilin do ushqeje? ”<\/p>\n Nj\u00eb reflektim v\u00ebrtet i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm. T\u00eb dim\u00eb se cilin nga ujq\u00ebrit po ushqejm\u00eb, mund t\u00eb na ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb kuptojm\u00eb p\u00ebrse jet\u00ebt tona ndjekin nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb t\u00eb caktuar dhe na ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb jetojm\u00eb me m\u00eb shum\u00eb q\u00ebllime dhe dometh\u00ebnie.<\/p>\n Po ti, cilin nga dy ujq\u00ebrit po ushqen? Mendohu!<\/p>\n <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" T\u00eb mira dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebqija, t\u00eb thjeshta dhe t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, komplekse dhe t\u00eb thjeshta dhe m\u00ebnyra si vendosim t\u00eb reagojm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shprehi\u2019 e karakterit ton\u00eb, i cili na ndihmon t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktojm\u00eb llojin e jet\u00ebs q\u00eb zgjedhim t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb. Historia e dy ujq\u00ebrve, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ju rr\u00ebfejm\u00eb m\u00eb posht\u00eb, n\u00eb fton t\u00eb reflektojm\u00eb mbi nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2013,"featured_media":92166,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-92165","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92165","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2013"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=92165"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/92165\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/92166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=92165"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=92165"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=92165"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}