{"id":116485,"date":"2019-11-30T23:00:44","date_gmt":"2019-11-30T22:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=116485"},"modified":"2019-11-30T17:08:40","modified_gmt":"2019-11-30T16:08:40","slug":"si-duhet-te-bisedojme-me-femijet-pas-termetit","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/si-duhet-te-bisedojme-me-femijet-pas-termetit\/","title":{"rendered":"Si duhet t\u00eb bisedojm\u00eb me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt pas t\u00ebrmetit"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mjekja pediatre Lira Gjika, n\u00eb emisionin &#8220;Rudina&#8221; ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb disa k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit se si t\u00eb sillen me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre pas t\u00ebrmetit. \u00a0Ajo thot\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit, por gjeja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmes loj\u00ebs, duke folur dhe duke i treguar f\u00ebmij\u00ebs sa frik\u00eb ka vet\u00eb i rrituri.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmes loj\u00ebs, duke folur dhe duke i treguar f\u00ebmij\u00ebs sa frik\u00eb ka vet\u00eb i rrituri&#8221;.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>T\u00eb fut\u00ebsh n\u00eb veprim harres\u00ebn n\u00eb moshat e brishta, \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u00eb l\u00ebsh nj\u00eb t\u00eb rritur gati t\u00eb paaft\u00eb t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb. Prandaj duhet t\u00eb flasin, t\u00eb luajn\u00eb, t\u00eb mos ken\u00eb frik\u00eb.\u00a0<\/em><em>Natyrisht ta ken\u00eb frik\u00ebn, se frika e ka shp\u00ebtuar njeriun dhe ajo do na shp\u00ebtoj\u00eb, se do na v\u00ebr\u00eb mendjen n\u00eb pun\u00eb, por jo ajo frika q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00eb t\u00eb hutuar, jo ajo frika q\u00eb sillesh s\u2019di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebsh, s\u2019di k\u00eb t\u00eb shash, s\u2019di ku t\u00eb mbrohesh&#8221;.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Bised\u00eb me An\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00ebrmetin nga Lira Gjika e publikuar n\u00eb facebook-un e saj.<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Ana \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb tet\u00eb vje\u00e7e dhe un\u00eb e kam mikesh\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Ajo m\u00eb th\u00ebrret n\u00eb em\u00ebr, pasi m\u00eb konsideron shoqen e saj\u00eb. Me lejen e mamit, kemi edhe ndonj\u00eb sekret si\u00e7 kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha shoqet e mira.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Sa m\u00eb pa sot n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, erdhi me vrap dhe pasi m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoi, m\u00eb pyeti: U trembe nga t\u00ebrmeti?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8211; Po Ana, shum\u00eb, po ti?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ana duke qeshur mu p\u00ebrgjigj: Un\u00eb fare Lira, po babi me mamin dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn, jan\u00eb trembur shum\u00eb. Kur ra t\u00ebrmeti babi m\u00eb rr\u00ebmbeu nga krevati dhe m\u00eb mbante n\u00eb krah duke ndenjur te dera. Mami b\u00ebnte \u201cobobo\u201d me z\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt, nd\u00ebrsa n\u00ebna lutej. Kemi dy dit\u00eb q\u00eb rrim\u00eb n\u00eb makin\u00eb. Sa shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb marrin di\u00e7ka dhe dalin me vrap.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8211; Po kan\u00eb frik\u00eb Ana dhe frika nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb turp.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8211; Mund t\u00eb bjer\u00eb prap\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00ebrmet, po jo n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb &#8211; nd\u00ebrhyri Ana &#8211; se e tha dhe ai xhaxhi shkenc\u00ebtari, q\u00eb studion t\u00ebrmetet, po babi dhe mami nuk besojn\u00eb. Po ti Lira, beson te xhaxhi shkenc\u00ebtari?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u2013 Po xhan, besoj.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8211; Mua m\u00eb thon\u00eb mos ki frik\u00eb dhe vet\u00eb dridhen.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8211; Po edhe ne t\u00eb rriturit nuk i b\u00ebjm\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb gj\u00ebrat si\u00e7 d\u00ebshirojm\u00eb. Mami dhe babi nuk kan\u00eb par\u00eb e ndjer\u00eb t\u00ebrmet m\u00eb par\u00eb edhe ata si ty, po e provojn\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, prandaj jan\u00eb k\u00ebshtu konfuz\u00eb.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8211; Po e kuptoj, po un\u00eb u lodha dhe dua t\u00eb shkoj n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. Sot ishte edhe dita e Pavar\u00ebsis\u00eb por nuk b\u00ebm\u00eb asgj\u00eb, si\u00e7 b\u00ebnim her\u00ebt e tjera.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8211; Ana do t\u00eb na fal\u00ebsh ne t\u00eb rriturve, q\u00eb edhe ne, si ju f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, nuk i b\u00ebjm\u00eb mir\u00eb detyrat tona.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ana m\u00eb p\u00ebrqafoi edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb fort dhe iku me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e saj.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mjekja pediatre Lira Gjika, n\u00eb emisionin &#8220;Rudina&#8221; ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb disa k\u00ebshilla p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit se si t\u00eb sillen me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre pas t\u00ebrmetit. \u00a0Ajo thot\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr prind\u00ebrit, por gjeja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmes loj\u00ebs, duke folur dhe duke i treguar f\u00ebmij\u00ebs sa frik\u00eb ka vet\u00eb i rrituri. &#8220;Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2013,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,233,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-116485","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-aktualitet","7":"category-shendeti","8":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116485","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2013"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=116485"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/116485\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=116485"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=116485"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=116485"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}