Let\u00ebr p\u00ebr nj\u00eb mik. I dashur mik, E mora vesh q\u00eb je zhg\u00ebnjyer. Por mos u d\u00ebshp\u00ebro e as mos u p\u00ebrpiq t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh ndonj\u00eb leksion, i nxitur nga zhg\u00ebnjimi! Mos u ngut, as mos u \u00e7udit. Gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla ndodhin kudo, \u00e7do dit\u00eb, ndaj s\u2019mund t\u00eb pretendoje q\u00eb t\u00eb ta kursente jeta edhe ty k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb. Nuk besoj se marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet nd\u00ebrnjer\u00ebzore duhen par\u00eb vet\u00ebm n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim. Sigurisht, e di, n\u00eb shum\u00eb raste edhe kjo na ndodh!<\/p>\n
Pra, q\u00eb t\u00eb marrim nj\u00eb leksion t\u00eb vyer. E kam fjal\u00ebn sidomos p\u00ebr rastet kur di\u00e7ka p\u00ebsojm\u00eb nga raporti dhe transformimet e tij zhg\u00ebnjyese me persona t\u00eb caktuar! Dua t\u00eb them se njeriu nd\u00ebrton edhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie krejt t\u00eb tjera, t\u00eb cilat mund t\u00eb mos vlejn\u00eb p\u00ebr leksionmarrje apo leksiondh\u00ebnie! Jeta ka nj\u00eb shum\u00ebllojshm\u00ebri ndijimesh, ndjenjash, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniesh, p\u00ebrjetimesh , veprimtarish, veprimesh, ng\u00ebr\u00e7esh, sh\u00ebrbimesh, vendnum\u00ebrimesh, kot\u00ebsish, angazhimesh t\u00eb cilat na mb\u00ebrthejn\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm, pa ndonj\u00eb vendimmarrje t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb paraprake! Sidomos n\u00eb rastin e ndjenjave vendimi mbetet jasht\u00eb loje. E t\u00eb kuptohemi q\u00eb ndjenja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm ajo e dashuris\u00eb p\u00ebr partner!<\/p>\n
Gjykoj q\u00eb shpresa p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur vetveten dhe ngopjen e ndjenj\u00ebs n\u00eb bot\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb nj\u00eb alibi p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbuluar paaft\u00ebsin\u00eb relative, q\u00eb e posedojn\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb vdekshmit e bot\u00ebs s\u00eb gjall\u00eb! Gjithmon\u00eb kam menduar k\u00ebshtu: bota tjet\u00ebr u ofron t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve nj\u00eb jet\u00eb atomesh, molekulash, por kurr\u00eb ndjenjash. Dhe po ashtu gjithmon\u00eb kam th\u00ebn\u00eb se ngopja vjen vet\u00ebm n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ast, n\u00eb at\u00eb t\u00eb shuarjes s\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Sepse jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebrkim pafund drejt k\u00ebtij kulmi. N\u00eb \u00e7astin q\u00eb ia mb\u00ebrrin, vdes.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb bot\u00ebn e k\u00ebsaj ane ka ndjenja, prandaj ka edhe zhg\u00ebnjime! Por ndjenja kan\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb; madje edhe kriminel\u00ebt e d\u00ebnuar psh! Vet\u00ebm t\u00eb kesh rast t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh si u japin dhembshuri f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre! Bota e k\u00ebsaj ane \u00ebsht\u00eb kontradiktore: ka k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi por edhe pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi! Por, njer\u00ebzit duhet t\u00eb kuptojn\u00eb nj\u00ebher\u00eb e mir\u00eb se i sh\u00ebrbejn\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb s\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit. N\u00eb shum\u00eb raste, ndoshta, pa qen\u00eb reciproke, ose vet\u00ebm pjes\u00ebrisht reciproke! E nganj\u00ebher\u00eb pritja e reciprocitetit i bllokon shanset e shijimit apo p\u00ebrjetimit t\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsis\u00eb! Prandaj njeriu duhet ta shmang\u00eb egoizmin e arsyes dhe t\u00eb lejoj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e tjetrit! Sigurisht, jo n\u00eb kurriz t\u00eb rr\u00ebzimit apo zhb\u00ebrjes s\u00eb dinjitetit. K\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e zgjedhim. Pak\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia na zgjedh! Altruizem i nevojsh\u00ebm ! Shkruhemi . Petro.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Let\u00ebr p\u00ebr nj\u00eb mik. I dashur mik, E mora vesh q\u00eb je zhg\u00ebnjyer. Por mos u d\u00ebshp\u00ebro e as mos u p\u00ebrpiq t\u00eb jap\u00ebsh ndonj\u00eb leksion, i nxitur nga zhg\u00ebnjimi! Mos u ngut, as mos u \u00e7udit. Gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tilla ndodhin kudo, \u00e7do dit\u00eb, ndaj s\u2019mund t\u00eb pretendoje q\u00eb t\u00eb ta kursente jeta edhe ty […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2030,"featured_media":264054,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,3366,5380,231,1454],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-264053","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-politike"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/264053","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2030"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=264053"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/264053\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/264054"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=264053"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=264053"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=264053"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}