Juristi i njohur Kreshnik Spahiu ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb t\u00eb thelluar lidhur me konceptin e bes\u00ebs n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, teksa e ka krahasuar me shtet e tjera. “Ndoshta dikur mund t\u00eb kemi pasur bes\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjerman\u00ebt, austriak\u00ebt, anglez\u00ebt, suedez\u00ebt apo kinez\u00ebt, por sot nuk kemi asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nga besa e tyre ka mbetur pjesa m\u00eb e neveritshme: Besa p\u00ebr partin\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Gruan, shokun apo mikun e tradhtojn\u00eb pa problem. Nd\u00ebrsa Kryetarin e partis\u00eb jo.<\/p>\n
Besa-Bes\u00eb me partin\u00eb deri n\u00eb vdekje”, shkruan Spahiu.<\/p>\n
Koment nga Kreshnik Spahiu<\/p>\n
A jan\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt njer\u00ebz t\u00eb \u201cbes\u00ebs\u201d m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kombet e tjera?<\/p>\n
A jan\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt njer\u00ebz t\u00eb bes\u00ebs m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjerman\u00ebt, suedez\u00ebt, anglez\u00ebt, francez\u00ebt, kroat\u00ebt, kinez\u00ebt, japonez\u00ebt apo indian\u00ebt?<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb jepni nj\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje duhet t\u00eb keni eksperienca jet\u00ebsore apo profesionale me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb komb\u00ebsive t\u00eb ndryshme q\u00eb ti krahasoni.<\/p>\n
Nga filmat apo media nuk mund t\u00eb zbuloni nivelin e bes\u00ebs t\u00eb nj\u00eb kombi.<\/p>\n
Referuar qindra e qindra \u00e7\u00ebshtjesh juridike q\u00eb kam asistuar n\u00eb 30 vite eksperienc\u00eb brenda dhe jasht\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, mund t\u2019ju them se shum\u00eb t\u00eb huaj nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb pak korrekt se shqiptar\u00ebt n\u00eb fjal\u00ebn e dh\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb:<\/p>\n
– biznes<\/p>\n
– shoq\u00ebri<\/p>\n
– dashuri<\/p>\n
– marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie pune<\/p>\n
– besnik\u00ebri bashk\u00ebshortore<\/p>\n
– ruajtje sekreti apo informacioni,<\/p>\n
-marr\u00ebveshje apo \u00e7do marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie tjet\u00ebr<\/p>\n
Aq e \u00e7uditshme \u00ebsht\u00eb keqp\u00ebrdorimi q\u00eb Ne si shqiptar\u00eb i kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb konceptit BES\u00cb, sa rr\u00ebnja e saj gjendet n\u00eb dhjet\u00ebra emra njer\u00ebzish:<\/p>\n
Besa<\/p>\n
Besmira<\/p>\n
Besjana<\/p>\n
Besart<\/p>\n
Besmir<\/p>\n
Besnik<\/p>\n
Sipas Krist Maloki publicist shqiptar dhe pedagog n\u00eb Austri n\u00eb vitet 30, BESA s\u00eb bashku me nderin dhe burrnin\u00eb p\u00ebrb\u00ebjn\u00eb bazat e Kanunit n\u00eb rrafshin e s\u00eb drejt\u00ebs zakonore. Sipas tij, kjo rrjedh prej emnit fisnor “Bessa”, nj\u00eb fis trakas me banim n\u00eb qend\u00ebr te gadishullit.<\/p>\n
Besa, ose kulti i fjal\u00ebs s\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb, lidhet n\u00eb burim me mitin biblik t\u00eb fjal\u00ebs: ‘N\u00eb fillim ishte fjala’. Para se t\u00eb ishte shkrimi, kontrata, njeriu, bota ishte vet\u00eb fjala.<\/p>\n
Na ishte nj\u00eb her\u00eb fjala, por kur doli shkresa iku besa.<\/p>\n
Kapitalizmi ka n\u00eb baz\u00eb kontrat\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Problemi \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ne shqiptar\u00ebt kemi mbetur ende te fjala si disa shekuj m\u00eb par\u00eb, dhe ende n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb nuk po p\u00ebrdit\u00ebsohet kontrata apo marr\u00ebveshja me t\u00eb drejta dhe detyrime.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb shekullin e ri, gjeneratat e reja kan\u00eb degraduar dhe denigruar konceptin e Bes\u00ebs si kontrat\u00eb me zhargonet:<\/p>\n
\u201cTi kom lek\u00ebt\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cE kena pazarin\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cKena dhon\u00eb dor\u00ebn njiher\u00eb\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cTa kam dhon\u00eb fjal\u00ebn\u201d<\/p>\n
\u201cTa jap fjal\u00ebn e burrit\u201d<\/p>\n
E gjitha kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb sjellje dhe stil jete t\u00eb asaj pjese jo korrekte, mashtruese dhe t\u00eb pabes\u00eb t\u00eb shoq\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Dikur lidhja n\u00eb fjal\u00eb (bes\u00eb) p\u00ebrb\u00ebnte kanunin, autoritetin m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb. T\u00eb gjitha marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet n\u00eb gjini, fis, famulli, bajrak dhe n\u00eb nivelin m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb bashk\u00ebsis\u00eb etnike lidheshin n\u00eb fjal\u00eb; p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht n\u00eb bes\u00eb. Besa ishte testament moral i shqiptar\u00ebve qysh prej periudh\u00ebs mitologjike.<\/p>\n
A ka qen\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb Besa nj\u00eb virtyt moral i shqiptar\u00ebve apo thjesht nj\u00eb legjend\u00eb e pav\u00ebrtet\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Ajo \u00e7ka mund t\u00eb themi me bindje \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb kjo BESA e sotme nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb as reale dhe as e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Shqiptar\u00ebt e post-komunizmit dhe brezat e sistemit tranzitor nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb bes\u00ebs se kombet e tjera.<\/p>\n
E gjitha kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb perceptim por statistik\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Referuar proceseve juridike dhe gjyq\u00ebsore, shqiptar\u00ebt sot thyejn\u00eb rekorde t\u00eb:<\/p>\n
– konflikteve t\u00eb pron\u00ebsis\u00eb brenda fisit<\/p>\n
– vrasjeve brenda familjes<\/p>\n
– divorceve p\u00ebr shkak tradh\u00ebtis\u00eb<\/p>\n
– mosp\u00ebrmushjes s\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve kontraktore<\/p>\n
– moskthim borxhi<\/p>\n
– mashtrime etj etj etj<\/p>\n
Fjala e dh\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr shqiptar\u00ebt nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb Besa e dikurshme.<\/p>\n
M\u00eb vjen keq q\u00eb nuk kam jetuar dot kurr\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb e shqiptar\u00ebve, ku jeta e tyre kishte n\u00eb themel BES\u00cbN.<\/p>\n
Ndoshta dikur mund t\u00eb kemi pasur bes\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjerman\u00ebt, austriak\u00ebt, anglez\u00ebt, suedez\u00ebt apo kinez\u00ebt, por sot nuk kemi asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nga besa e tyre ka mbetur pjesa m\u00eb e neveritshme: Besa p\u00ebr partin\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Gruan, shokun apo mikun e tradhtojn\u00eb pa problem. Nd\u00ebrsa Kryetarin e partis\u00eb jo.<\/p>\n
Besa-Bes\u00eb me partin\u00eb deri n\u00eb vdekje!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Juristi i njohur Kreshnik Spahiu ka b\u00ebr\u00eb nj\u00eb analiz\u00eb t\u00eb thelluar lidhur me konceptin e bes\u00ebs n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, teksa e ka krahasuar me shtet e tjera. “Ndoshta dikur mund t\u00eb kemi pasur bes\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjerman\u00ebt, austriak\u00ebt, anglez\u00ebt, suedez\u00ebt apo kinez\u00ebt, por sot nuk kemi asgj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb. Nga besa e tyre ka mbetur […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2030,"featured_media":182499,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,3366,5380,231,1454],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-271216","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-politike"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/271216","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2030"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=271216"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/271216\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/182499"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=271216"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=271216"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=271216"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}