{"id":292845,"date":"2022-10-14T14:31:55","date_gmt":"2022-10-14T12:31:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=292845"},"modified":"2022-10-14T14:31:55","modified_gmt":"2022-10-14T12:31:55","slug":"te-martosh-vajzen-me-dhunuesin-e-saj-ina-kollcaku-per-ngjarjen-ne-klos-baballaret-e-vajzave-heshtin-perballe-cdo-gjeje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/te-martosh-vajzen-me-dhunuesin-e-saj-ina-kollcaku-per-ngjarjen-ne-klos-baballaret-e-vajzave-heshtin-perballe-cdo-gjeje\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cT\u00eb martosh vajz\u00ebn me dhunuesin e saj\u201d, Ina Koll\u00e7aku p\u00ebr ngjarjen n\u00eb Klos: Baballar\u00ebt e vajzave heshtin p\u00ebrball\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00ebje"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tragjedia e ndodhur mesdit\u00ebn e t\u00eb m\u00ebrkur\u00ebs n\u00eb Klos p\u00ebr \u201cnderin e vajz\u00ebs\u201d, ku mbet\u00ebn t\u00eb vrar\u00eb tre persona si dhe u plagos\u00ebn dy t\u00eb tjer\u00eb tronditi mbar\u00eb opinionin publik.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb ngjarje ka folur dhe\u00a0 Ina Koll\u00e7aku, e cila u shpreh se prind\u00ebrit e kan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb q\u00eb vajza\u00a0 t\u2019u hedh valium dhe t\u00eb hidhet nga dritarja, se sa t\u00eb marr\u00eb leje p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia, mjafton q\u00eb ata t\u00eb mos ken\u00eb dijeni se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh.<\/p>\n<p>Koll\u00e7aku m\u00eb tej tha se dit\u00ebt e sotme baballar\u00ebt e vajzave heshtin p\u00ebrball\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00ebje, mjafton q\u00eb vajza t\u00eb fejohet e t\u00eb martohet.<\/p>\n<p>\u201c<em>Ajo q\u00eb mua m\u00eb bezdisi m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe m\u00eb b\u00ebri p\u00ebrshtypje ishte fjalia e t\u00eb v\u00ebllait\u00a0 t\u00eb personit q\u00eb kreu vrasjen, i cili tha se i ati kishte th\u00ebn\u00eb \u201co merre p\u00ebr nuse\u2026\u201d. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo? Ne kishim nj\u00eb problem shantazhi, ai realisht mendonte se kishte nj\u00eb shantazh. \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb kjo? Ti je dakord t\u00eb martosh vajz\u00ebn t\u00ebnde me nj\u00eb dhunues psikologjik, emocional, vet\u00ebm se foli. N\u00ebse martohet \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull dhe do ishte n\u00eb rregull n\u00ebse do ishte vazhduesh\u00ebm n\u00eb at\u00eb shantazh emocional dhe psikologjik. Kjo do t\u00eb ishte gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e ndershme q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebnte personi n\u00eb at\u00eb rast?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Kjo nuk m\u00eb \u201cndejti\u201d mir\u00eb dhe mendoj se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb problematika reale, t\u00eb parit e nderit n\u00eb form\u00eb seksuale. Kur vjen puna te tema q\u00eb\u00a0 kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me seksin, personazhet q\u00eb e b\u00ebjn\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb sulm t\u00eb p\u00ebrditsh\u00ebm dhe nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb komode t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh n\u00eb\u00a0 televizion. \u00c7far\u00eb kam v\u00ebn\u00eb re n\u00eb rrethe, prind\u00ebrit e kan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb q\u00eb vajza edhe t\u2019u ket\u00eb hedhur valium e t\u00eb jet\u00eb hedhur nga dritarja, se sa vajza t\u00eb marr\u00eb leje p\u00ebr t\u00eb dal\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia. Mjafton q\u00eb ata t\u00eb mos ken\u00eb dijeni se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Fakti q\u00eb n\u00ebse nj\u00eb dhunues, q\u00eb dhunon vajz\u00ebn t\u00ebnde \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull dhe nuk \u201ce vrasim\u201d, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e trishtueshme se e gjith\u00eb ngjarja, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e papranueshme. Sot e k\u00ebsaj dite, baballar\u00ebt e vajzave heshtin p\u00ebrball\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00ebje, mjafton q\u00eb vajza t\u00eb fejohet e t\u00eb martohet. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb dram\u00eb e madhe\u201d<\/em>, tha ajo.<\/p>\n<p>Kujtojm\u00eb se ngjarja e r\u00ebnd\u00eb ndodhi dit\u00ebn e m\u00ebrkur\u00eb ku pas nj\u00eb konflikti mes familjesh mbet\u00ebn t\u00eb vrar\u00eb 17-vje\u00e7ari Kenado Shira dhe babai i tij Liri Shira i cili nd\u00ebrroi jet\u00eb rrug\u00ebs p\u00ebr n\u00eb spital. Nd\u00ebrsa, autori i masakr\u00ebs Fiqiri Mjeshtri\u00a0 vrau veten pas tragjedis\u00eb. T\u00eb plagosur n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb masak\u00ebr mbet\u00ebn bab\u00eb e bir, Eglantin dhe Renato Hasula. E gjith\u00eb ngjarja ndodhi pasi dy adoleshent\u00ebt ngacmonin dhe shantazhonin vajz\u00ebn e Fiqiri Mjeshtrit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tragjedia e ndodhur mesdit\u00ebn e t\u00eb m\u00ebrkur\u00ebs n\u00eb Klos p\u00ebr \u201cnderin e vajz\u00ebs\u201d, ku mbet\u00ebn t\u00eb vrar\u00eb tre persona si dhe u plagos\u00ebn dy t\u00eb tjer\u00eb tronditi mbar\u00eb opinionin publik. N\u00eb lidhje me k\u00ebt\u00eb ngjarje ka folur dhe\u00a0 Ina Koll\u00e7aku, e cila u shpreh se prind\u00ebrit e kan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb pranojn\u00eb q\u00eb vajza\u00a0 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":292846,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,364,323,231,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-292845","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment-opinion","9":"category-kronika-e-zeze","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/292845","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=292845"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/292845\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/292846"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=292845"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=292845"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=292845"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}