Nga Spartak Ngjela<\/p>\n
\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria?<\/p>\n
I.
\nKy qytet\u00ebrimi i sot\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb filozofi, let\u00ebrsi, art dhe dashuri, ku n\u00eb q\u00ebndr\u00ebn e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb vajza dhe gruaja e bukur.<\/p>\n
Kurse dashuria ka sjell\u00eb romanin, piktur\u00ebn dhe muzik\u00ebn e bukur.<\/p>\n
Fjodor Dostojevski thot\u00eb”<\/p>\n
“\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ferri? Un\u00eb e pohoj q\u00eb ferri \u00ebsht\u00eb vuajtja e t\u00eb qenit i paaft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb dashuruar.”<\/p>\n
E pra, kjo nuk ka diskutim… se dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendje m\u00eb shum\u00eb se mendim. Dhe Dostojevski e ka kapur me gjenialitetin e tij.<\/p>\n
Dostojevski e vendos dashurin\u00eb n\u00eb parajs\u00eb, se \u00ebsht\u00eb shkrimtar i madh dhe e di q\u00eb i gjith\u00eb talenti q\u00eb ka, si inspirim krijues n\u00eb let\u00ebrsi, atij i ka ardhur nga dashuria.<\/p>\n
A keni lexuar nj\u00eb roman t\u00eb sh\u00ebmtuar? Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i till\u00eb se nuk ka dashuri p\u00ebr gruan e bukur.<\/p>\n
Kurse…<\/p>\n
Merylin Monroe ka th\u00ebn\u00eb: “Nj\u00eb grua e bukur \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb kryevep\u00ebr arti q\u00eb i takon t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzimit.”<\/p>\n
Pse, a nuk na e provoi kinematografia k\u00ebt\u00eb th\u00ebnie t\u00eb theksuar nga Merylin Monroe?<\/p>\n
II.
\nUn\u00eb mendoj se pyetja kryesore \u00ebsht\u00eb kjo:<\/p>\n
Po \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb gjendja e dashuris\u00eb?<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr faktin q\u00eb dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e bukur, shum\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore dhe shum\u00eb inspiruese, por q\u00eb ajo nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktohet sakt\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet, mund t\u00eb themi se dashuria \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb gjendje e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb q\u00eb hyn dhe krijon g\u00ebzimin e jet\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
Sepse:<\/p>\n
dashuria e burrit p\u00ebr gruan, kalon nga bukuria e gruas apo vajz\u00ebs, tek ndjenja e burrit; nga ndjenja e burrit te dashuria e tij; nga dashuria e tij te krijimi artistik p\u00ebr t\u00eb bukur\u00ebn; nga krijimi artistik i t\u00eb bukur\u00ebs, te kryevepra artistike, ku, aty brenda, zhvillohet, me fjal\u00eb, me figura letrare dhe artistikisht, bukuria dhe shpirti i gruas. <\/p>\n
III.
\nRomani i madh i nj\u00eb shkrimtari, \u00ebsht\u00eb inspirimi q\u00eb atij i vjen nga gruaja apo vajza e bukur q\u00eb ai dashuron. Kompozimi i madh n\u00eb muzik\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuri, dashuri e d\u00ebshtuar, hakmarrje p\u00ebr tradhtin\u00eb dhe, m\u00eb n\u00eb fund, dashuri s\u00ebrish… e k\u00ebshtu deri n\u00eb mbarim t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. E till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe tragjedia n\u00eb teatrin dramatik.<\/p>\n
Po dashuria e gruas \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Dashuria e gruas nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrcaktohet nga nj\u00eb burr\u00eb. Kurse, vet\u00eb gruaja, deri tani, nuk e ka treguar. Kompleksiteti i dashuris\u00eb s\u00eb gruas, brenda tij, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb kryevep\u00ebr magjike arti. Por k\u00ebt\u00eb sekret e di vet\u00ebm gruaja. <\/p>\n
Po pse nuk e tregon?<\/p>\n
Gruaja nuk e tregon, sepse ende n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb qytet\u00ebrim, morali ka karakter mashkullor. <\/p>\n
Po morali mashkullor, si \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar?<\/p>\n
Morali mashkullor \u00ebsht\u00eb krijuar thjesht nga xhelozia e burrit p\u00ebr gruan, dhe imponohet prej tij, sepse n\u00eb familje, por edhe n\u00eb dashuri, edhe n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, pushtetin ende e ka burri.<\/p>\n
Por…<\/p>\n
E keni par\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e lir\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn po e sjell moderniteti? <\/p>\n
Kjo e dob\u00ebson n\u00eb dashuri pushtetin e burrit t\u00eb xhelozuar, ve\u00e7se, tani p\u00ebr tani \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm fillimi…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nga Spartak Ngjela \u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria? I. Ky qytet\u00ebrimi i sot\u00ebm \u00ebsht\u00eb filozofi, let\u00ebrsi, art dhe dashuri, ku n\u00eb q\u00ebndr\u00ebn e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb vajza dhe gruaja e bukur. Kurse dashuria ka sjell\u00eb romanin, piktur\u00ebn dhe muzik\u00ebn e bukur. Fjodor Dostojevski thot\u00eb” “\u00c7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ferri? Un\u00eb e pohoj q\u00eb ferri \u00ebsht\u00eb vuajtja e t\u00eb qenit i […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":319572,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,364,231,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-331387","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment-opinion","9":"category-lajme","10":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/331387","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=331387"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/331387\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":331388,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/331387\/revisions\/331388"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/319572"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=331387"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=331387"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=331387"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}