Gjasht\u00eb arsyet p\u00ebrse burrat refuzojn\u00eb seksin
\nAutori: Lajmi.net Lifestyle, LoveSex 22:33, 19 Korrik 2015<\/p>\n
N\u00ebse ai po ju refuzon n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit, ka gjasa q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji juaj. K\u00ebtu jan\u00eb gjasht\u00eb arsyet m\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshta q\u00eb e shtyjn\u00eb nj\u00eb partner t\u00eb jap\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje negative ndaj ofert\u00ebs suaj.
\nN\u00ebse lidhja fizike mes jush dhe partnerit tuaj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb aq e af\u00ebrt, duhet t\u00eb mbani parasysh se edhe meshkujt e refuzojn\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kontaktin seksual, p\u00ebr arsyet e tyre q\u00eb vijojn\u00eb si m\u00eb posht\u00eb.
\nArsyeja 1: Ai vuan nga depresioni
\n\u201cDepresioni klinik \u00ebsht\u00eb shkaktari m\u00eb i madh i largimit t\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebs seksuale te meshkujt\u201d, thot\u00eb terapisti i seksit, David McKenzie. Burrat e t\u00eb gjitha moshave, edhe adoleshent\u00ebt, mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebt seksuale kur po hasen me k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7rregullim t\u00eb humorit.
\n\u201cKini parasysh se depresioni klinik \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebmundje fizike dhe jo nj\u00eb dob\u00ebsi e karakterit\u201d, thot\u00eb McKenzie. \u00c7el\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb durimi, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht kur ai po merr trajtim me antidepresant\u00eb, ila\u00e7e q\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb uljen e interesit seksual. Partneri juaj duhet t\u00eb konsultohet me nj\u00eb doktor n\u00ebse v\u00eb re se interferenca e mjekimeve \u00ebsht\u00eb e madhe krahasuar me jet\u00ebn seksuale.
\nArsyeja 2: Ai ka probleme me qarkullimin e gjakut
\nMegjith\u00ebse problemet me erektimin dhe ejakulimi i parakohsh\u00ebm jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrhapura te meshkujt, nj\u00eb burr\u00eb q\u00eb i p\u00ebrjeton k\u00ebto v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi mund t\u00eb t\u00ebrhiqet prej partneres s\u00eb tij nga frika se ajo do t\u00eb zhg\u00ebnjehet dhe t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb se ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i dob\u00ebt.
\nKy problem nuk mund t\u00eb shmanget. \u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb diskutohet, por nj\u00eb problem q\u00eb lihet pa trajtuar mund t\u00eb rezultoj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb problem edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb madh. M\u00eb e mira q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebhet n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb partnerja t\u2019i shpreh\u00eb dashurin\u00eb mashkullit q\u00eb ka n\u00eb krah duke i theksuar se \u00e7far\u00ebdo q\u00eb t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb do ta ket\u00eb n\u00eb krah.
\nArsyeja 3: Niveli i testosteroneve t\u00eb tij \u00ebsht\u00eb i ul\u00ebt
\n\u201cKur nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i kalon t\u00eb 40-tat, nivelet e testosteroneve tek ai fillojn\u00eb t\u00eb bien\u201d, thot\u00eb McKenzie. N\u00ebse kjo ndodh ngadal\u00eb at\u00ebher\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb problem p\u00ebr sjelljen seksuale t\u00eb nj\u00eb mashkulli. Por ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb meshkujt i humbin nivelet e testosteroneve shum\u00eb shpejt. Kjo gjendje merr emrin andropauz\u00eb dhe vjen me simptoma q\u00eb p\u00ebrfshijn\u00eb humbjen e energjis\u00eb, simptoma depresive dhe d\u00ebshir\u00eb e ul\u00ebt seksuale. M\u00eb e mira q\u00eb mund t\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb konsultoheni me nj\u00eb doktor p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontrolluar nivelin e testosteroneve tek ai.
\nArsyeja 4: Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i stresuar p\u00ebr karrier\u00ebn e tij
\nShqet\u00ebsimi rreth pun\u00ebs mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb vras\u00ebs i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb humori p\u00ebr burrat, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht n\u00ebse ata kan\u00eb nj\u00eb sukses t\u00eb caktuar profesional dhe vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim t\u00eb madh. N\u00ebse kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja p\u00ebrse partneri po ju mban distanc\u00eb n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit, at\u00ebher\u00eb duhet t\u00eb bisedoni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje.
\nVet\u00ebm fal\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00ebnguljes suaj do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb riktheni tek ai gjendjen e m\u00ebparshme dhe do t\u00eb arrini t\u2019ia largoni mendjen nga shqet\u00ebsimet e karrier\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se familja \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme dhe se vet\u00ebm me mendje t\u00eb qet\u00eb mund t\u00eb zgjidhen disa nga problemet m\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese.
\nArsyeja 5: Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb i rraskapitur
\nKa mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb, n\u00ebse partneri \u00ebsht\u00eb ftohur ndaj jet\u00ebs suaj seksuale, ai d\u00ebshiron t\u2019ju thot\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb i rraskapitur fizikisht. Mos e merrni personale. Sipas McKenzie, rreth 98 p\u00ebr qind e burrave t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ai ka konsultuar jan\u00eb shprehur se mungesa e interesit seksual nuk ka t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me at\u00eb q\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb p\u00ebr partneren e tyre.
\nN\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndoheni ose t\u00eb m\u00ebrziteni, filloni t\u00eb hidhni bazat p\u00ebr nj\u00eb bised\u00eb t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr ato gj\u00ebra n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb cilat po e pengojn\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht me ju. N\u00ebse problemi vazhdon p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb se gjasht\u00eb jav\u00eb, k\u00ebrkoni ndihm\u00ebn e nj\u00eb terapisti.
\nArsyeja 6: Gj\u00ebrat po ecin shum\u00eb shpejt
\nN\u00ebse po dilni me nj\u00eb mashkull q\u00eb nuk keni shum\u00eb q\u00eb e keni njohur dhe ai ju refuzon ftes\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u2019u ngjitur lart n\u00eb apartamentin tuaj, kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se ai nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gati t\u00eb jet\u00eb me ju n\u00eb shtrat.
\nNdonj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe meshkujt e gjejn\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb kryejn\u00eb seks pa pasur nj\u00eb p\u00ebrfshirje emocionale me at\u00eb person. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb pik\u00eb t\u00eb refuzimit, duhet t\u00eb ngadal\u00ebsoni vrullin dhe t\u2019i jepni personit tjet\u00ebr koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019ju njoh\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb derisa t\u00eb arrini n\u00eb kontaktin fizik. Merreni refuzimin e ftes\u00ebs si di\u00e7ka q\u00eb mund t\u00eb pres\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb von\u00eb.
\nK\u00ebto ishin gjasht\u00eb nga arsyet p\u00ebrse meshkujt mund t\u2019ju refuzojn\u00eb n\u00eb shtrat. N\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha rastet nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb lidhet personalisht me ju, por ju duhet t\u00eb luftoni q\u00eb t\u2019i jepni mashkullit q\u00eb keni n\u00eb krah hap\u00ebsir\u00ebn e duhur p\u00ebr t\u2019u treguar i sinqert\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Gjasht\u00eb arsyet p\u00ebrse burrat refuzojn\u00eb seksin Autori: Lajmi.net Lifestyle, LoveSex 22:33, 19 Korrik 2015 N\u00ebse ai po ju refuzon n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e gjumit, ka gjasa q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb faji juaj. K\u00ebtu jan\u00eb gjasht\u00eb arsyet m\u00eb t\u00eb shpeshta q\u00eb e shtyjn\u00eb nj\u00eb partner t\u00eb jap\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigje negative ndaj ofert\u00ebs suaj. N\u00ebse lidhja fizike mes jush dhe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[233],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-3754","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-shendeti"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3754","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3754"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3754\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}