Nga Lutfi Dervishi <\/p>\n
Gjykata, ndryshe nga sa k\u00ebrkoi mbrojtja, vendosi sot q\u00eb i riu 35-vje\u00e7ar q\u00eb kishte mbyllur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi n\u00ebn survejim bashk\u00ebshorten, f\u00ebmij\u00ebn dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn, t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb n\u00eb qeli.<\/p>\n
Rasti n\u00eb fjal\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht alarmant, jo aq p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendjen mediatike sesa p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u2018pa mendueshmen\u2019: vendosjen e kamerave n\u00eb tualet dhe instalimin e pajisjeve kundra val\u00ebve n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi!<\/p>\n
Veprimet e 35 vje\u00e7arit q\u00eb c\u00ebnojn\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb lirin\u00eb dhe privacin\u00eb e familjar\u00ebve jan\u00eb sinjal i qart\u00eb i nj\u00eb problemi t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb nj\u00eb stigme ende t\u00eb pranishme, problemet e sh\u00ebndetit mendor jan\u00eb t\u00eb neglizhuara. N\u00ebse, sot, nuk kemi problem (dhe kemi mjek\u00eb mjaft t\u00eb mir\u00eb) p\u00ebr zemr\u00ebn, stomakun apo \u00e7do organ tjet\u00ebr, kur vjen puna te truri- ka nj\u00eb deficit t\u00eb krijuar n\u00eb dekada si n\u00eb t\u00eb kuptuarit t\u00eb s\u00ebmundjes ashtu edhe n\u00eb trajtimin e saj.<\/p>\n
Fshehja dhe mos adresimi i shqet\u00ebsimeve, spektakolarizimi i rasteve publike nga media b\u00ebhen n\u00eb kurriz t\u00eb adresimit dhe kurimit t\u00eb \u00e7rregullimeve psikike.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb vend q\u00eb rasti n\u00eb fjal\u00eb (dhe jo vet\u00ebm) t\u00eb trajtohet me ndjeshm\u00ebri dhe me fokus te sh\u00ebndeti mendor, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb prioritet t\u00eb merrte kujdesi psikiatrik gjykata i ra shkurt dhe veprimet e 35 vje\u00e7arit i trajtoi si vep\u00ebr penale!<\/p>\n
Megjith\u00eb 30 vitet n\u00eb nj\u00eb tranzicion shpesh traumatik, ende nuk ka nj\u00eb ndryshim rr\u00ebnj\u00ebsor n\u00eb qasjen ndaj \u00e7\u00ebshtjeve t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor. Stigma ndaj k\u00ebsaj s\u00ebmundje shfaqet n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme, q\u00eb nga mungesa e t\u00eb kuptuarit deri te paragjykimet q\u00eb i pengojn\u00eb dhe familjar\u00ebt t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb ndihm\u00ebn e nevojshme.<\/p>\n
Ankthi dhe depresioni shpesh kalojn\u00eb ose \u2018me aspirin\u00eb\u2019, ose mbeten t\u00eb pazbuluar e t\u00eb patrajtuar p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb stigm\u00ebs, t\u00eb munges\u00ebs s\u00eb vet\u00ebdijes dhe burimeve t\u00eb kufizuara mjek\u00ebsore.<\/p>\n
.Rasti i 35-vje\u00e7arit, ndon\u00ebse ekstrem, dhe \u2018spektakolar\u2019 hedh drit\u00eb mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e hapjes s\u00eb debatit p\u00ebr problemet e sh\u00ebndetit mendor.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit me probleme t\u00eb shendetit mendor jan\u00eb mes nesh, jemi ne, por sot \u00ebsht\u00eb fakt se kush ka nevoj\u00eb ose nuk ka akses ose nuk merr n\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe si duhet trajtimin e duhur.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrtej adresimit t\u00eb rasteve ul\u00ebrit\u00ebse, \u00ebsht\u00eb urgjent nd\u00ebrtimi i nj\u00eb sistemi q\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm i p\u00ebrgjigjet krizave, por q\u00eb trajton n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb proaktive spektrin m\u00eb t\u00eb gjer\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjeve t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb ankthin dhe depresionin. <\/p>\n
Lufta ndaj miteve dhe stigm\u00ebs, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i leht\u00eb kurimi i s\u00ebmundjeve q\u00eb lidhen me sh\u00ebndetin mendor, por nevoja p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndryshuar qasje, p\u00ebr t\u00eb investuar dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb evidente. Jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb rastit t\u00eb 35 vje\u00e7arit, por sepse njer\u00ebzit me probleme t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetit mendor po i shohim n\u00eb rrug\u00eb, n\u00eb studio televizive dhe kudo.<\/p>\n
Sa m\u00eb shpejt t\u00eb nd\u00ebrhyhet p\u00ebr kurim dhe parandalim aq m\u00eb t\u00eb pakta do t\u2019i kemi dramat dhe vendimet shum\u00eb t\u00eb diskutueshme si ky i sotmi i gjykat\u00ebs kur n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb d\u00ebrgohet p\u00ebr trajtim n\u00eb spital, individi d\u00ebrgohet n\u00eb qeli.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nga Lutfi Dervishi Gjykata, ndryshe nga sa k\u00ebrkoi mbrojtja, vendosi sot q\u00eb i riu 35-vje\u00e7ar q\u00eb kishte mbyllur n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi n\u00ebn survejim bashk\u00ebshorten, f\u00ebmij\u00ebn dhe n\u00ebn\u00ebn, t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb n\u00eb qeli. Rasti n\u00eb fjal\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht alarmant, jo aq p\u00ebr v\u00ebmendjen mediatike sesa p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u2018pa mendueshmen\u2019: vendosjen e kamerave n\u00eb tualet dhe instalimin e pajisjeve […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2037,"featured_media":324117,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,364,5380,231,1454,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-400766","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-koment-opinion","9":"category-kryesore","10":"category-lajme","11":"category-politike","12":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/400766","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2037"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=400766"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/400766\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":400767,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/400766\/revisions\/400767"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/324117"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=400766"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=400766"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=400766"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}