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Nga Erlinda Kasaj<\/p>\n
T\u00eb reagoja apo jo p\u00ebr Martinin, kjo ishte nj\u00eb nga dilemat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre dit\u00ebve edhe pse e ndjeja emocionalisht zhurm\u00ebn q\u00eb m\u00eb ka shkaktuar gjith\u00eb tragjedia e Martinit.
\nSi fillim, n\u00eb rolin e individit social, motr\u00ebs, shoqes, komshijes, p\u00ebrdorueses s\u00eb TIK TOK-ut, dhe pa u zhveshur aspak nga p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia e mediumit dhe thika me dy presa e medias.<\/p>\n
\u00c7far\u00eb paskam b\u00ebr\u00eb un\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb dhe pse m\u00eb ka kapluar nj\u00eb ndjesi shum\u00eb e madhe faji?
\nTentova \u2018t\u00eb shes\u2019 Martinin, ashtu si\u00e7 e shit\u00ebm t\u00eb gjith\u00eb dhe jemi t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb.
\nE rr\u00ebshqita, mora sh\u00ebnjestr\u00ebn dhe BAM me nj\u00eb gjasht\u00eb in\u00e7 t\u00eb mir\u00eb doja ta shisja p\u00ebr interesin tim, interesin mediatik.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb fakt, nuk munda p\u00ebr efekt p\u00ebrdorimesh dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsish t\u00eb mijat personale.
\nE kush nuk do donte t\u00eb dilte fitimtar n\u00eb syt\u00eb e shefit, n\u00eb syt\u00eb e mediumeve. Disa ia arrit\u00ebn, disa t\u00eb tjer\u00eb jo.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb zgjodha q\u00eb n\u00eb mendjen time Martini t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb i suksesshmi imagjinar dhe t\u00eb mbushesha me ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb publike q\u00eb na mungon dit\u00ebt e sotme.<\/p>\n
E p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar te dhimbja, kur njer\u00ebzit e marrin vesh dhimbjen e tjetrit, sidomos at\u00eb t\u00eb vdekjes, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb u lind nj\u00eb turbulenc\u00eb e quajtur \u2018gjynah\u2019, nj\u00eb p\u00ebrplasje ndjesish midis jet\u00ebs dhe vdekjes.<\/p>\n
E k\u00ebt\u00eb turbulenc\u00eb, jam e bindur 100% q\u00eb do e kishte edhe p\u00ebrdoruesi i thik\u00ebs q\u00eb vrau Martinin.<\/p>\n
Shpeshher\u00eb, shkeljet e barrierave t\u00eb vogla n\u00eb p\u00ebrditshm\u00ebri ndodhin q\u00ebllimisht dhe gabimisht, n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb gjendjes, situat\u00ebs, marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies komplekse me veten, tjetrin dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Po barrierat e m\u00ebdha, si ato q\u00eb mori djali i cili vrau Martinin? M\u00eb falni, por p\u00ebr momentin nuk mundem ta quaj vras\u00ebs!<\/p>\n
\u00c7far\u00eb sinjalesh paska marr\u00eb djali q\u00eb e ka goditur? A ka qen\u00eb nj\u00eb sinjal ve\u00e7 i llojit n\u00eb TIK TOK? Nuk e besoj se ky aplikacion ka nj\u00eb aft\u00ebsi kaq p\u00ebrpunuese, kaq t\u00eb fort\u00eb sa t\u00eb vendos\u00eb dik\u00eb n\u00eb p\u00ebrballje me vdekjen e tjetrit\u2026<\/p>\n
Tensionimi i momentit \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjesia m\u00eb tradh\u00ebtare, pjes\u00eb e q\u00ebnies ton\u00eb. E kjo nxitje kaq kontradiktore po vret, po na vret.<\/p>\n
Ngjarja tragjike e Martinit duket sikur ekspozoi pandjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb, disonanc\u00ebn e mendimeve dhe veprimeve pa iu dridhur qerpiku q\u00eb nj\u00eb adoleshent apo q\u00eb fundja- fundit ne kemi.
\nNe i themi shpesh dikujt q\u00eb duam : \u2018P\u00ebr ty, vras veten dhe tjetrin\u2019, kush \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo barriera q\u00eb e lejon dhe e ndalon k\u00ebt\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Kush barrier\u00eb e lejoi djalin q\u00eb t\u00eb ngulte thik\u00ebn?<\/p>\n
E p\u00ebr ta mbyllur, mendoj se k\u00ebt\u00eb nuk e di as terapistja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb, as ekspert\u00ebt e kriminalistik\u00ebs t\u00eb ftuar n\u00ebp\u00ebr panele televizive, as eksperti m\u00eb i mir\u00eb i marr\u00ebdhenieve njer\u00ebzore\u2026 K\u00ebt\u00eb e di ve\u00e7 \u2018vras\u00ebsi\u2019.<\/p>\n
M\u00eb n\u00eb fund e thash\u00eb.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nga Erlinda Kasaj T\u00eb reagoja apo jo p\u00ebr Martinin, kjo ishte nj\u00eb nga dilemat m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha t\u00eb k\u00ebtyre dit\u00ebve edhe pse e ndjeja emocionalisht zhurm\u00ebn q\u00eb m\u00eb ka shkaktuar gjith\u00eb tragjedia e Martinit. Si fillim, n\u00eb rolin e individit social, motr\u00ebs, shoqes, komshijes, p\u00ebrdorueses s\u00eb TIK TOK-ut, dhe pa u zhveshur aspak nga p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsia […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2030,"featured_media":409821,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,3365,3366,323,5380,235],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-409816","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-analize","9":"category-koment","10":"category-kronika-e-zeze","11":"category-kryesore","12":"category-vendi"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/409816","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2030"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=409816"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/409816\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":409826,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/409816\/revisions\/409826"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/409821"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=409816"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=409816"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=409816"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}