Jo gjithmon\u00eb arrijm\u00eb t\u2019i identifikojm\u00eb personat, t\u00eb cil\u00ebve mund t\u2019u besojm\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, pasi personat e pabes\u00eb arrijn\u00eb t\u2019i fshehin mir\u00eb q\u00ebllimet e tyre. N\u00eb list\u00ebn e m\u00ebposhtme do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb lexoni pes\u00eb llojet e personav\u00eb q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u2019u besoni asnj\u00ebher\u00eb. Lexojini me v\u00ebmendje edhe cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre:<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin bukurin\u00eb e jashtme p\u00ebr t\u00eb manipuluar ata q\u00eb i rrethojn\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit e mir\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb besojn\u00eb shum\u00eb duke i treguar hapur defektet dhe dob\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre. Njer\u00ebzit fals jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar shprehi t\u00eb ndryshme n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb sigurojn\u00eb adhurimin dhe besnik\u00ebrin\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, sidomos kur b\u00ebjn\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb gabuara. Mos i beso dikujt q\u00eb vler\u00ebzon m\u00eb tep\u00ebr paraqitjen apo aspektin fizik n\u00eb vend t\u00eb ndershm\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb empati.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb empati, nuk jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje ta vendosin veten n\u00eb vend t\u00eb dikujt tjet\u00ebr p\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar se \u00e7far\u00eb po p\u00ebrjeton ai person. Prandaj, ata tentojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb arrogant\u00eb dhe m\u00eb intolerant. Ata p\u00ebrqendrohen vet\u00ebm tek vetja dhe interesat e tyre personale, pa e marr\u00eb parasysh se si do t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb veprimet e tyre tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Tregohu i v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm dhe mos ia jep besimin t\u00ebnd k\u00ebtij lloji personash.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb nuk respektojn\u00eb privat\u00ebsin\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n
Ka mjaft njer\u00ebz q\u00eb nuk e respektojn\u00eb privat\u00ebsin\u00eb e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. K\u00ebtu futen edhe ata q\u00eb u tregojn\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve sekretet e miqve t\u00eb tyre. Duhet t\u00eb jesh i\/e sigurt\u00eb se n\u00ebse dikush t\u00eb tregon sekretet e dikujt, k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb ai person do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb edhe me ty, ndaj mos i beso njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb till\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb kategorike.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit nar\u00e7ist\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nar\u00e7ist\u00ebt duan t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb qend\u00ebr t\u00eb v\u00ebmendjes dhe n\u00eb \u00e7do moment duan t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb vler\u00ebsuar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Ata do t\u00eb t\u00eb afrohen e do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb komplimente p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb t\u00eb tilla komplimente edhe mbrapsht. Por kur gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb shkojn\u00eb keq, do t\u00eb ta vendosin ty fajin p\u00ebr gabimet e tyre, do t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ty t\u2019i mbash gjith\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe do ta nxjerrin veten e tyre si viktima t\u00eb situatave. K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz duan thjesht t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqin egon e tyre dhe nuk jan\u00eb aspak t\u00eb besuesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Njer\u00ebzit e pavendosur ose t\u00eb paqendruesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
Nuk ke p\u00ebr t\u2019i kuptuar asnj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00ebllimet e v\u00ebrteta t\u00eb tyre. Nuk dihet n\u00ebse jan\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn t\u00ebnde, apo n\u00ebse duan t\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb keq. \u00cbsht\u00eb e pamundur t\u00eb mbash nj\u00eb raport t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm me k\u00ebta persona, pasi me ta nuk ke asnj\u00ebher\u00eb siguri, por vet\u00ebm pik\u00ebpyetje dhe dyshime. K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz ndryshojn\u00eb mendim nga dita n\u00eb dit\u00eb dhe mund t\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb balt\u00eb edhe n\u00eb rastet, kur do t\u00eb kesh m\u00eb tep\u00ebr nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta. Nuk ka besim apo reciprocitet n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet me ta, ndaj largohu sa m\u00eb par\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb i\/e sigurt\u00eb. \/ bota<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Jo gjithmon\u00eb arrijm\u00eb t\u2019i identifikojm\u00eb personat, t\u00eb cil\u00ebve mund t\u2019u besojm\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb, pasi personat e pabes\u00eb arrijn\u00eb t\u2019i fshehin mir\u00eb q\u00ebllimet e tyre. N\u00eb list\u00ebn e m\u00ebposhtme do t\u00eb mund t\u00eb lexoni pes\u00eb llojet e personav\u00eb q\u00eb nuk duhet t\u2019u besoni asnj\u00ebher\u00eb. Lexojini me v\u00ebmendje edhe cil\u00ebsit\u00eb e tyre: Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb p\u00ebrdorin bukurin\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-47884","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47884","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=47884"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/47884\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=47884"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=47884"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=47884"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}