Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e vajze q\u00eb mbeti shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb nga nj\u00eb nat\u00eb me nj\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur dhe nuk di se i kujt \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmija. Ajo i shkruan psikologes.
\n\u201cKam q\u00ebndruar nj\u00eb nat\u00eb me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe tani jam shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Kam nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, por ky djali tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb babai dhe nuk kam asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb kontakt.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb jam 26 vje\u00e7 dhe isha n\u00eb nj\u00eb konferenc\u00eb pune n\u00eb fundjav\u00eb t\u00eb mbajtur n\u00eb nj\u00eb hotel t\u00eb vendit.
\nKishte qen\u00eb nj\u00eb muaj i keq kur mami im ishte i s\u00ebmur\u00eb dhe zihesha me t\u00eb dashurin tim, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ishte id\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u larguar.
\nKoleg\u00ebt e mi dhe un\u00eb shjuam pishin\u00ebn gjat\u00eb mbr\u00ebmjes.
\nN\u00eb nat\u00ebn e par\u00eb e vura re nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb rrinte n\u00eb bar, m\u00eb shikoi dhe qeshi.
\nN\u00eb nat\u00ebn e dyt\u00eb ai m\u00eb foli dhe biseduam p\u00ebr pak pasi shok\u00ebt e mi t\u00eb pun\u00ebs u deh\u00ebn.
\nDhoma e tij ishte n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn korridor si imi dhe m\u00eb ftoi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb kafe.
\nAi ishte i bukur, un\u00eb isha e dehur. Ne p\u00ebrfunduam duke b\u00ebr\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale.
\nM\u00eb p\u00eblqeu n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb dhe u ktheva n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn time rreth or\u00ebs 4 t\u00eb m\u00ebngjesit. Ne duhet t\u00eb iknim her\u00ebt dhe un\u00eb nuk mora kontakt, ishte vet\u00ebm q\u00ebndrim nj\u00eb nat\u00eb.
\nJav\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr u ktheva me t\u00eb dashurin tim dhe gj\u00ebrat po shkojn\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ne.
\nUn\u00eb jam kat\u00ebr muaj shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb por e kam zbuluar vet\u00ebm dhjet\u00eb dit\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb.
\nNdihem kaq fajtore dhe nuk kam asnj\u00eb ide se \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj. Dashuria ime \u00ebsht\u00eb e mrekullueshme, ai thot\u00eb se do t\u00eb m\u00eb mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb dhe po ngrohet me iden\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb baba. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb 29 vje\u00e7.
\nUn\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrballoj duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb atij p\u00ebr dyshimet e mia dhe mund\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb foshnja nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e tij. Do t\u00eb ishte e tmerrshme t\u00eb jesh nj\u00eb prind i vet\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk e di kush \u00ebsht\u00eb babai i f\u00ebmij\u00ebs t\u00ebnde.
\nDEIDRE thot\u00eb: Ju duhet t\u00eb merrni nj\u00eb vendim t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb urgjentisht.
\nA doni me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb ta keni k\u00ebt\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb? N\u00ebse po, at\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb e mira \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb pranoni se shanset jan\u00eb q\u00eb ky f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb i dashuri juaj \u2013 duke supozuar se keni pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale n\u00eb koh\u00ebn e duhur.
\nKujdesi i prind\u00ebrve q\u00eb sigurojn\u00eb nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi t\u00eb dashur ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb sesa p\u00ebr biologjin\u00eb, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 n\u00eb raste shum\u00eb t\u00eb rralla t\u00eb problemeve trash\u00ebgimore.
\nPor kjo do t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb q\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia juaj t\u00eb jet\u00eb e fort\u00eb dhe ju mund ta mbani sekretin<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e vajze q\u00eb mbeti shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb nga nj\u00eb nat\u00eb me nj\u00eb t\u00eb panjohur dhe nuk di se i kujt \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmija. Ajo i shkruan psikologes. \u201cKam q\u00ebndruar nj\u00eb nat\u00eb me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb dhe tani jam shtatz\u00ebn\u00eb. Kam nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, por ky djali tjet\u00ebr mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb babai dhe nuk kam asnj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2013,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-48371","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","6":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48371","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2013"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=48371"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/48371\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=48371"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=48371"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=48371"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}