Ngjyrat ngacmojn\u00eb mendjet tona n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme dhe si reagojm\u00eb ndaj disa prej tyre mund t\u00eb zbuloj\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me personalitetin ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb studim thot\u00eb se ngjyra e zez\u00eb shpesh shihet si \u201cserioze\u201d dhe \u201ce besueshme\u201d, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb me besim n\u00eb vetvete. Sondazhi shqyrtoi rreth 1000 njer\u00ebz.<\/p>\n
Autor\u00ebt hulumtuan se si ngjyrat e veshjeve ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si na shohin t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Rezultoi se e zeza doli n\u00eb krye. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb hulumtuesit thon\u00eb p\u00ebr rezultatet:<\/p>\n
\u201cE zeza \u00ebsht\u00eb ngjyra q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb vesh\u00ebsh kur p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb b\u00ebsh p\u00ebrshtypje, t\u00eb bind\u00ebsh ose kur p\u00ebrpiqesh t\u00eb fitosh zemrat e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve. Ka nj\u00eb far\u00eb sigurie t\u00eb caktuar p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb tek nj\u00eb person q\u00eb do t\u2019ju b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb dor\u00ebzoni kursimet e jet\u00ebs tuaj dhe ta fal\u00ebnderoni p\u00ebr privilegjin\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n Gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb anket\u00ebs son\u00eb, ngjyra e zez\u00eb doli e para ose e dyta n\u00eb tiparet m\u00eb t\u00eb mira (p\u00ebr shembull, besimi, inteligjenca dhe sensualiteti) dhe mezi u shfaq n\u00eb tiparet e \u2018k\u00ebqija\u2019 (arroganca).<\/em><\/p>\n E zeza n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tregues i \u201cseriozitetit\u201d dhe \u201cbesueshm\u00ebris\u00eb\u201d, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb q\u00ebndron n\u00eb krye t\u00eb list\u00ebs s\u00eb ngjyrave q\u00eb t\u00eb dy gjinit\u00eb e listojn\u00eb si t\u00eb bukur.<\/p>\n Pse?<\/em><\/p>\n P\u00ebrgjigjja \u00ebsht\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb: Besimi!<\/p>\n Pothuajse gjysma e grave dhe 64% e burrave q\u00eb mor\u00ebn pjes\u00eb n\u00eb studim mendojn\u00eb se e zeza rrezatoj vet\u00eb-mjaftueshm\u00ebri. \u00cbsht\u00eb ngjyrimi m\u00eb i bukur, i guximsh\u00ebm, i rritjes s\u00eb besimit dhe qet\u00ebsimit q\u00eb ekziston.<\/p>\n Por njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb veshin ngjyr\u00ebn e zez\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm kaq. N\u00eb fakt, s\u00eb bashku me vet\u00ebbesimin e tyre, p\u00ebrmes preferencave t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb ngjyrave, ato manifestojn\u00eb, nj\u00eb an\u00eb t\u00eb prekshme t\u00eb karakterit t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n Ata q\u00eb vishen t\u00eb gjitha n\u00eb t\u00eb zeza jan\u00eb zakonisht shum\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm, pak t\u00eb paq\u00ebndruesh\u00ebm dhe d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrheqin v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve me at\u00eb se kush jan\u00eb ata dhe \u00e7far\u00eb po p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb, sesa me pamjen e tyre.<\/p>\n K\u00ebta njer\u00ebz pa dashje po p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb mbrojn\u00eb veten ndaj emocioneve q\u00eb jan\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb forta. Ata mund t\u00eb hutohen leht\u00ebsisht ose t\u00eb reagojn\u00eb tep\u00ebr emocionalisht. Dhe shpesh p\u00ebrpiqen t\u00eb shmangin ankthin dhe t\u00eb q\u00ebndrojn\u00eb t\u00eb fokusuar.<\/p>\n Megjithat\u00eb, ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb interesante \u00ebsht\u00eb se njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb vishen n\u00eb t\u00eb zeza zakonisht nuk duan t\u2019ia din\u00eb n\u00ebse t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kan\u00eb ngjyra t\u00eb ndryshme. Nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00eb ngjyrat q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb pak\u00ebndshme p\u00ebr ta kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr veshjen e tyre; \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra se si i vendosin k\u00ebto ngjyra tek vetja.<\/p>\n Ngjyrat p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsojn\u00eb identitetin e tyre dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ata jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuar.<\/p>\n Nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr teori q\u00eb rrjedh nga psikologjia e ngjyrave, thot\u00eb se njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb e duan t\u00eb zez\u00ebn shpesh kan\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb rivendosur fuqin\u00eb e tyre.<\/p>\n Ata e arrijn\u00eb at\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet sjelljeve t\u00eb ndryshme si p\u00ebr shembull duke u p\u00ebrpjekur t\u00eb \u201cmbrohen\u201d nga disa emocione, duke nd\u00ebrtuar distanc\u00ebn nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ose duke treguar nj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri p\u00ebr shfaqje respekti. T\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto ve\u00e7ori t\u00eb karakterit mund t\u00eb zbulohen n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet p\u00eblqimit t\u00eb veshjes s\u00eb zez\u00eb, e cila vjen si nj\u00eb mesazh n\u00ebnnd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsues p\u00ebr veten dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n P\u00ebr ta p\u00ebrmbledhur, nj\u00eb person q\u00eb vishet me t\u00eb zeza e sheh veten si nj\u00eb figur\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb mendojn\u00eb se e zeza i b\u00ebn t\u00eb duken m\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebs, inteligjent\u00eb dhe t\u00eb sigurt\u00eb.<\/p>\n Megjithat\u00eb, ata gjithashtu kan\u00eb nj\u00eb an\u00eb t\u00eb dob\u00ebt t\u00eb karakterit q\u00eb zbulon cenueshm\u00ebrin\u00eb e tyre. Njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb veshin t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb zeza jan\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb vendosur, por t\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n M\u00eb posht\u00eb kemi listuar edhe pes\u00eb tiparet m\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme t\u00eb personalitetit t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb e duan veshjen e zez\u00eb:<\/p>\n P\u00ebrfundimisht, do t\u00eb ishte interesante t\u00eb p\u00ebrmendet se adoleshent\u00ebt shpesh kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb psikologjike t\u00eb veshin ngjyr\u00ebn e zez\u00eb gjat\u00eb periudh\u00ebs s\u00eb tranzicionit q\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria deri n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn e rritur. Ajo sh\u00ebnon fundin e nj\u00eb faze t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre dhe fillimin e nj\u00eb tjetri.<\/p>\n Ata e p\u00eblqejn\u00eb aq shum\u00eb, sepse u lejon atyre t\u00eb mbrohen nga bota derisa t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb individualitetin e tyre t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Esht\u00eb thelb\u00ebsore q\u00eb ata t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb n\u00ebp\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb faz\u00eb, por kjo mund t\u00eb tregoj\u00eb po ashtu se ekziston nj\u00eb problem n\u00ebse vazhdon gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre si t\u00eb rritur n\u00eb rast se ata i p\u00ebrjashtojn\u00eb ngjyrat e tjera.<\/p>\n Sidoqoft\u00eb, pa marr\u00eb parasysh se sa cil\u00ebsime pozitive dhe t\u00eb fuqishme kjo ngjyr\u00eb zbulon p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb preferojn\u00eb ta veshin at\u00eb, shum\u00eb veshje t\u00eb zeza mund t\u2019ju \u00e7oj\u00eb n\u00eb depresion dhe l\u00ebkundje t\u00eb humorit.<\/p>\n Mund t\u00eb krijoj\u00eb nj\u00eb mjedis negativ. Ndaj, m\u00ebnyra m\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb veshur ngjyr\u00ebn e zez\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh disa ngjyra me t\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb leht\u00ebsuar dhe ndri\u00e7uar energjin\u00eb e saj.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Ngjyrat ngacmojn\u00eb mendjet tona n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme dhe si reagojm\u00eb ndaj disa prej tyre mund t\u00eb zbuloj\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00eb lidhje me personalitetin ton\u00eb. Nj\u00eb studim thot\u00eb se ngjyra e zez\u00eb shpesh shihet si \u201cserioze\u201d dhe \u201ce besueshme\u201d, q\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb me besim n\u00eb vetvete. Sondazhi shqyrtoi rreth 1000 njer\u00ebz. 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