Ndodh \u00e7do dit\u00eb, e shohim n\u00eb \u00e7do ambjent, n\u00eb \u00e7do sektor: t\u00eb varfrit, q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, ‘shkelin’ mbi t\u00eb varfrit e tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb e trishtueshme t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, aty ku pritet q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptim, shpirt bashk\u00ebpunimi, ndjeshm\u00ebri.<\/p>\n
Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb reflektim p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin mendoj shpesh: N\u00ebse njeriu ngjit nj\u00eb ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb shkall\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri, harron shum\u00eb shpejt vitet e kaluara n\u00eb varf\u00ebri.<\/p>\n
Harrojn\u00eb shum\u00eb shpejt q\u00eb vet\u00eb ata, n\u00eb nj\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb larg\u00ebt, kan\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuar t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin p\u00ebr\u00e7mim t\u00eb cilin kan\u00eb sot p\u00ebr t\u00eb varfrit.<\/p>\n
Kam par\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb lagje shum\u00eb t\u00eb varfra dhe t\u00eb kritikojn\u00eb me zell degradimin e personave q\u00eb jetojn\u00eb ende atje.<\/p>\n
I kam d\u00ebgjuar m\u00eb pas t\u00eb flasin keq p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb ishin dikur “fqinj\u00ebt e tyre t\u00eb dashur”.<\/p>\n
Kam par\u00eb nj\u00eb burr\u00eb, i cili pasi kishte bler\u00eb makin\u00ebn e tij t\u00eb par\u00eb me 60 k\u00ebste, qeshte me ata q\u00eb prisnin autobusin n\u00ebn shi.<\/p>\n
At\u00eb autobus, q\u00eb dikur e prisnin edhe ata vet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb shkuar \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Edhe n\u00eb dit\u00ebt me shi. Dhe asokohe nuk qeshnin aspak.<\/p>\n
Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb ankohen nga sjellja autoritare dhe p\u00ebr\u00e7muese e shefit t\u00eb tyre, por q\u00eb nuk hezitojn\u00eb aspak t\u00eb trajtojn\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb pasjellshme ata q\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb pozicion m\u00eb t\u00eb ul\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Ka burra t\u00eb rinj n\u00eb mosh\u00eb, q\u00eb pasi kan\u00eb kursyer ca para’ p\u00ebr t\u00eb nxjerr\u00eb p\u00ebr dark\u00eb t\u00eb dashur\u00ebn e tyre, ndihen t\u00eb pasur p\u00ebr nj\u00eb nat\u00eb, por ndjejn\u00eb se duhet t\u00eb trajtojn\u00eb me arroganc\u00eb kamarierin.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb edhe mjeku me origjin\u00eb nga familjet e thjeshta q\u00eb ka harruar sakrificat q\u00eb kan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb prind\u00ebrit e tij, n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb q\u00eb ai t\u00eb studionte dhe ka harruar edhe sakrificat e veta p\u00ebr t\u00eb \u00e7uar deri n\u00eb fund universitetin. Sot sheh nga koka tek k\u00ebmb\u00ebt t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00ebt e thjesht\u00eb dhe familjar\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb e trishtueshme dhe e pashpjegueshme t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh t\u00eb pasur, q\u00eb kan\u00eb lindur t\u00eb till\u00eb, t\u00eb trajtojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit si persona t\u00eb ‘dor\u00ebs s\u00eb dyt\u00eb’, por t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh njer\u00ebz q\u00eb e kan\u00eb njohur varf\u00ebrin\u00eb, t\u00eb sillen me arroganc\u00eb dhe prepotenc\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk do e kuptoj dot kurr\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Duket sikur varfanjaku duhet t\u00eb sillet si homolog i atij q\u00eb ka arritur t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoj\u00eb pozitat.<\/p>\n
E t\u00eb mendosh q\u00eb kur ishin t\u00eb varf\u00ebr jan\u00eb shfyt\u00ebzuar dhe keqtrajtuar. Kan\u00eb eksperimentuar p\u00ebrjashtimin dhe paragjykimin kund\u00ebr varf\u00ebris\u00eb n\u00eb l\u00ebkur\u00ebn e tyre.<\/p>\n
Me shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi, kan\u00eb menduar gjithmon\u00eb se kushdo q\u00eb ndodhet ‘sip\u00ebr tyre’, duhet t\u00eb shkel\u00eb mbi ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb posht\u00eb dhe n\u00eb momentin q\u00eb arrit\u00ebn t\u00eb ngjisin ndonj\u00eb shkall\u00eb, kan\u00eb nisur t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn gj\u00eb: “t\u00eb shkelin mbi ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb posht\u00eb tyre”.<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb nj\u00eb shpjegim bind\u00ebs, por pa mir\u00ebsi n\u00eb sjellje. Nuk e justifikon.<\/p>\n
Nuk do arrij dot kurr\u00eb t\u00eb kuptoj dhe d\u00ebnoj \u00e7do akt q\u00eb mb\u00ebshtet superioritetin apo inferioritetin e dikujt. Kushdo qoft\u00eb ai!<\/p>\n
Respekti dhe dinjiteti i \u00e7dokujt jan\u00eb t\u00eb drejta t\u00eb paprekshme!!!<\/p>\n
Cila shoq\u00ebri mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrkufizohet si moderne dhe civile, kur k\u00ebto t\u00eb drejta maten me at\u00eb q\u00eb ke n\u00eb pron\u00ebsi?<\/p>\n
Kujt i sh\u00ebrben t\u00eb flas\u00eb 4 gjuh\u00eb kur nuk di t\u00eb shk\u00ebmbej\u00eb p\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje me at\u00eb q\u00eb merr ashensorin bashk\u00eb me ne?<\/p>\n
Kujt i sh\u00ebrben t\u00eb grumbulloj\u00eb n\u00ebse nuk jemi t\u00eb aft\u00eb t\u00eb ndajm\u00eb dhe t\u00eb ndjejm\u00eb at\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi dhe krenari q\u00eb vet\u00ebm bujaria di ta jap\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Pasuria nuk t\u00eb b\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb se t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
Superioriteti i v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb fitohet, por lind brenda nesh.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb njeri v\u00ebrtet superior e di se madh\u00ebshtia e njeriut nuk matet n\u00eb baz\u00eb t\u00eb suksesit dhe pasuris\u00eb, por n\u00eb var\u00ebsi t\u00eb akteve q\u00eb kyren dhe fisnik\u00ebris\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
Po ju l\u00eb me nj\u00eb mendim….mund t\u00eb duket si nj\u00eb lloj paralajm\u00ebrimi, por e quaj t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm, p\u00ebr t’u mbajtur mend:<\/p>\n
\u201cE keqja l\u00ebshon rr\u00ebnj\u00eb kur njeriu nis t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i mir\u00eb se tjetri”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Ndodh \u00e7do dit\u00eb, e shohim n\u00eb \u00e7do ambjent, n\u00eb \u00e7do sektor: t\u00eb varfrit, q\u00eb nuk jan\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, ‘shkelin’ mbi t\u00eb varfrit e tjer\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb e trishtueshme t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb, aty ku pritet q\u00eb t\u00eb ket\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptim, shpirt bashk\u00ebpunimi, ndjeshm\u00ebri. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb reflektim p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin mendoj shpesh: […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":52079,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[334,234],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-52078","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-histori","8":"category-kuriozitete"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52078","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=52078"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/52078\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/52079"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=52078"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=52078"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=52078"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}