Gruaja me klas,\u201dzonja\u201d, nuk duhet n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsuar ose marr\u00eb leht\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person me dhembshuri t\u00eb madhe dhe vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim, dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb rrall\u00eb burrat q\u00eb kan\u00eb nderin t\u00eb ken\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e saj. M\u00eb posht\u00eb po rendisim vet\u00ebm disa nga shenjat q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se jeni n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e nj\u00eb zonje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Ajo shfaq kontroll emocional<\/strong><\/p>\n Pa marr\u00eb parasysh se \u00e7far\u00eb po ndodh, ajo e ruan qet\u00ebsin\u00eb. Ajo mund t\u00eb qesh\u00eb, ose t\u00eb rrezatoj\u00eb nj\u00eb shk\u00eblqim verbues, por ajo kurr\u00eb nuk jep shfaqje duke u shprehur me teprim, thjesht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb marr\u00eb v\u00ebmendje. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e mir\u00eb se kaq.<\/p>\n Ajo e d\u00ebshiron mashkullin, ajo nuk ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mashkullin<\/strong><\/p>\n N\u00ebse nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb zgjedh t\u00eb jet\u00eb n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb tuaj, mos e merrni p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb. Ju nuk jeni aty, p\u00ebr shkak se ajo nuk mund t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb pa ju (sepse ajo sigurisht q\u00eb mundet t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb pa ju), ju jeni aty, sepse ajo d\u00ebshiron q\u00eb ju t\u00eb jeni.<\/p>\n Ajo ka pesh\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb bised\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n Zonjat me klas nuk flasin p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb t\u00eb folurit. Ato kan\u00eb ide, mendime dhe jan\u00eb nj\u00eb partnere e mir\u00eb n\u00eb bashk\u00ebbisedime.<\/p>\n Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00ebrregulluar, por jo narciziste<\/strong><\/p>\n Nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb ka gjithmon\u00eb klas n\u00eb paraqitje por nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kurr\u00eb e obsesionuar me dukjen e saj. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr t\u00eb cil\u00ebn njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebrhequr prej saj \u2013 magjia e nj\u00eb gruaje me klas ndihet kollaj dhe natyrsh\u00ebm, pa patur nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr teprime. Ajo nuk e fsheh bukurin\u00eb e saj natyrore, n\u00ebn p\u00ebrb\u00ebrje t\u00eb ngjyrosura dhe as nuk vendos stoli t\u00eb tep\u00ebrta.<\/p>\n Ajo tregon dhembshuri<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb me \u201cklas\u201d nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb pasuri n\u00eb \u00e7ant\u00eb, por \u00ebsht\u00eb pasuri n\u00eb zem\u00ebr. Nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb me klas \u00ebsht\u00eb e mir\u00eb dhe e v\u00ebmendshme ndaj t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. Ajo nuk gjen k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi n\u00eb mizorin\u00eb apo sarkazm\u00ebn \u2013 ajo kujdeset natyrsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n Veshja e saj ekuilibron mod\u00ebn me ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n Nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb me klas nuk ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb vesh\u00eb taka, mbi t\u00eb cilat nj\u00eb modele e mod\u00ebs as nuk ec\u00ebn dot. Nuk ka nevoj\u00eb as t\u00eb shfaq\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb trupit t\u00eb saj q\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb rezervuara vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr shoq\u00ebri intime. Modelet dhe standardet ndryshojn\u00eb, por ajo nuk p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen me shfaqje apo vulgaritet \u2013 ajo do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb me zem\u00ebr dhe mendje.<\/p>\n Ajo nuk p\u00ebrpiqet t\u00eb jet\u00eb qendra e v\u00ebmendjes<\/strong><\/p>\n Ka nj\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur dhe nj\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar. Gruaja me klas nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb personi m\u00eb i zhurmsh\u00ebm n\u00eb dhom\u00eb, por kur ajo flet, nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e ndrojtur. N\u00ebse ju doni v\u00ebmendjen e saj, do t\u00eb duhet ta fitoni at\u00eb.<\/p>\n Ajo merr p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi p\u00ebr veten<\/strong><\/p>\n Nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb me klas nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb frikacake. Ajo e kupton se duhet t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb prapa \u00e7do gj\u00ebje q\u00eb thot\u00eb dhe b\u00ebn. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00ebrisht arsyeja pse ajo nuk flet pa kuptim \u2013 fjal\u00ebt e saj kan\u00eb kuptim, ashtu si veprimet e saj.<\/p>\n Ajo nuk do q\u00eb t\u00eb merret si e mir\u00ebqen\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n Mjer\u00eb ju q\u00eb e merrni nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb si t\u00eb mir\u00ebqen\u00eb. Ajo e njeh vler\u00ebn e saj dhe vet\u00ebbesimi i saj \u00ebsht\u00eb i sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm. N\u00ebse nuk dini si ta \u00e7moni, ajo do t\u00eb ik\u00eb.<\/p>\n Kalimin e koh\u00ebs, nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb me klas e p\u00ebrcjell me hijeshi<\/strong><\/p>\n Ajo nuk e konsideron koh\u00ebn armikun e saj. Pse? Sepse plakja \u00ebsht\u00eb e natyrshme; kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb rruga e gj\u00ebrave. Nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb e sheh kalimin e koh\u00ebs si nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr t\u00eb fituar men\u00e7uri. Ajo nuk e lufton, sikur t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb armik i vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsimit t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Gruaja me klas,\u201dzonja\u201d, nuk duhet n\u00ebnvler\u00ebsuar ose marr\u00eb leht\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb person me dhembshuri t\u00eb madhe dhe vet\u00ebvler\u00ebsim, dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb rrall\u00eb burrat q\u00eb kan\u00eb nderin t\u00eb ken\u00eb dashurin\u00eb e saj. M\u00eb posht\u00eb po rendisim vet\u00ebm disa nga shenjat q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se jeni n\u00eb pranin\u00eb e nj\u00eb zonje t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. 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