{"id":56993,"date":"2018-12-23T19:42:15","date_gmt":"2018-12-23T18:42:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/?p=56993"},"modified":"2018-12-23T19:42:15","modified_gmt":"2018-12-23T18:42:15","slug":"si-te-silleni-ndaj-dashurive-te-para-te-femijeve","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/si-te-silleni-ndaj-dashurive-te-para-te-femijeve\/","title":{"rendered":"Si t\u00eb silleni ndaj dashurive t\u00eb para t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e prind\u00ebrve kan\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb ngjashme kur marrin vesh se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, tashm\u00eb adoleshent\u00eb, shprehin afeksion t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb ndaj nj\u00eb miku apo mikeshe, apo th\u00ebn\u00eb ndryshe bien n\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Reagimet e prind\u00ebrve shpesh mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb problematika t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, duke e shtyr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn drejt nj\u00eb stresi t\u00eb panevojsh\u00ebm dhe madje ka raste t\u00eb pafundme ku prindi shihet si nj\u00eb penges\u00eb e madhe p\u00ebr realizimin e pasioneve t\u00eb adoleshent\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

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Ju mir\u00ebkuptojm\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebr ju kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pak e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb, por me k\u00ebshillat e duhura do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb ta p\u00ebrballoni.<\/p>\n

Kujtoni adoleshenc\u00ebn tuaj<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Megjith\u00ebse mund t\u00eb duket si nj\u00eb situat\u00eb paniku se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb duke b\u00ebr\u00eb f\u00ebmija juaj me jet\u00ebn e tij, se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb shpejt p\u00ebr t\u00eb, mundohuni t\u00eb kujtoni \u00e7\u2019keni b\u00ebr\u00eb ju gjat\u00eb adoleshenc\u00ebs suaj. T\u00eb jeni t\u00eb sigurt q\u00eb do t\u2019ju duket sikur po shihni t\u00eb shkuar\u00ebn n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Vendosni kufij<\/strong><\/p>\n

Adoleshent\u00ebt mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb zbulim t\u00eb tyre t\u00eb ri saq\u00eb mund t\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka pas dore, ndaj duhen vendosur disa rregulla q\u00eb edhe duhet t\u00eb harrojn\u00eb, si shkoll\u00ebn, sht\u00ebpin\u00eb dhe pasione tjera te tyre.<\/p>\n

B\u00ebhuni gati p\u00ebr krizat e xhelozis\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e madhe e prind\u00ebrve n\u00eb fakt kan\u00eb nj\u00eb problem t\u00eb madh q\u00eb lidhet me xhelozin\u00eb q\u00eb ata ndjejn\u00eb n\u00eb raport me te dashurit e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve. Qet\u00ebsohuni, askush nuk e vjedh dot dashurin\u00eb e tyre p\u00ebr ju.<\/p>\n

Flisni me miqt\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur m\u00eb nga af\u00ebr problemet e t\u00eb rinjve n\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e para, mund t\u00eb flisni me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e miqve tuaj, por gjithashtu dhe me miqt\u00eb tuaj, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb se si ata e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrballuar k\u00ebt\u00eb risi n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e tyre. Nj\u00eb ide e mir\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb inkurajoni f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj t\u00eb flasin me miq m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj n\u00eb mosh\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Flisni p\u00ebr seksualitetin<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00eb fillim do t\u00eb ndjeni pak turp, sidomos ata do t\u00eb ndihen t\u00eb ofenduar dhe do t\u00eb ken\u00eb nj\u00eb sjellje refuzuese. Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni, sepse vet\u00ebm pas pak bisedash s\u00eb bashku, gjith\u00e7ka do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e thjesht\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u2019ju m\u00ebsojn\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre se si t\u00eb sillen me njer\u00ebzit, edhe kur vjen fjala tek marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet nd\u00ebrpersonale. Ata kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrkrahje dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebsojn\u00eb vlerat e jet\u00ebs nga vet\u00eb ju.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pjesa m\u00eb e madhe e prind\u00ebrve kan\u00eb sjellje t\u00eb ngjashme kur marrin vesh se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, tashm\u00eb adoleshent\u00eb, shprehin afeksion t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb ndaj nj\u00eb miku apo mikeshe, apo th\u00ebn\u00eb ndryshe bien n\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Reagimet e prind\u00ebrve shpesh mund t\u00eb shkaktojn\u00eb problematika t\u00eb m\u00ebdha, duke e shtyr\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebn drejt nj\u00eb stresi […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":56994,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-56993","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=56993"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/56993\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/56994"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=56993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=56993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=56993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}