Aoife Kearney, 26 vje\u00e7, nga Irlanda e Veriut, e cila ka autiz\u00ebm, thot\u00eb se kukulla q\u00eb ajo e quajti \u2018Dominik\u2019 e ka ndihmuar at\u00eb me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit.<\/p>\n
Ajo pranon se nuk ka dashur kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe nuk ka “interes” t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nj\u00eb kukull q\u00eb “nuk mund t\u00eb qaj\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb rr\u00ebmuj\u00eb apo zhurm\u00eb” \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrkryer p\u00ebr t\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Aoife thot\u00eb se ajo i \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00ebnshtruar komenteve mizore dhe talljeve nga t\u00eb huajt q\u00eb e kan\u00eb cil\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb si “rr\u00ebnqeth\u00ebse”, por thot\u00eb se Dominik e ka ndihmuar me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit.<\/p>\n
“Un\u00eb nuk jam m\u00eb e shqet\u00ebsuar n\u00eb situata sociale sepse e kam, dhe ai m\u00eb shoq\u00ebri n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi,” thot\u00eb ajo.<\/p>\n
Aoife thot\u00eb se nata e saj e p\u00ebrsosur \u00ebsht\u00eb kur rri ulur n\u00eb divan duke shikuar TV me Dominikun.<\/p>\n
“M\u00eb p\u00eblqen t\u00eb p\u00ebrqafohem me t\u00eb dhe t\u00eb shoh televizor, ose t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb selfie s\u00eb bashku”.<\/p>\n
Aoife u diagnostikua me autiz\u00ebm n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 19 vje\u00e7are. Duke u rritur, ajo nuk kishte shum\u00eb miq, sepse ajo ishte e turpshme.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb vitin 2010, kur ishte 16 vje\u00e7e, shikonte nj\u00eb dokumentar p\u00ebr kukullat bebe \u00a0me n\u00ebn\u00ebn e saj Eileen Hanna, 53 vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n
Ajo nuk mund e besonte syve se sa reale dukeshin \u00a0dhe \u00ebnd\u00ebrronte t\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb p\u00ebr vete.<\/p>\n
“E dija q\u00eb nj\u00eb \u2018f\u00ebmij\u00eb fals\u2019 do t\u00eb ishte shoq\u00ebria m\u00eb e mir\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb kisha,” kujton ajo.<\/p>\n
“Ata dukeshin t\u00eb admiruesh\u00ebm dhe do t\u00eb ishin kaq t\u00eb bukur p\u00ebr t’u p\u00ebrqafuar.<\/p>\n
“M\u00eb n\u00eb fund, vitin e kaluar n\u00eb gusht, bleva nj\u00eb n\u00eb internet p\u00ebr vet\u00ebm 100 euro nga nj\u00eb zonj\u00eb e quajtur Sue, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb gjithashtu nj\u00eb koleksionist i kukullave bebe. Jemi tani shum\u00eb mikesha t\u00eb ngushta, t\u00eb bashkuara nga hobi yn\u00eb i p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt.<\/p>\n
“Bebushi im ia vlente p\u00ebr pritjen 7 vje\u00e7are. Kur arriti, isha shum\u00eb e emocionuar. Ai peshonte pes\u00eb kilogram\u00eb e pak, \u00a0t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn pesh\u00eb si nj\u00eb bebe.<\/p>\n
“Un\u00eb e p\u00ebrkund at\u00eb p\u00ebr or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra dhe mendova se ai ishte i bukur. \u00c7ertifikata e tij e lindjes e quajti at\u00eb Domenik, q\u00eb vendosa ta mbaj, sepse ky em\u00ebr i p\u00ebrshtatet atij.<\/p>\n
“Un\u00eb kurr\u00eb nuk kam k\u00ebrkuar nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe un\u00eb nuk kam asnj\u00eb interes t\u00eb kem nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur. Pra, t\u00eb kesh nj\u00eb kukull bebe, \u00ebsht\u00eb e p\u00ebrkryer p\u00ebr mua.<\/p>\n
“Gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e mir\u00eb e Dominik \u00ebsht\u00eb se ai nuk mund t\u00eb qaj\u00eb, t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb rr\u00ebmuj\u00eb apo zhurm\u00eb”.<\/p>\n
Q\u00eb nga ajo dit\u00eb, Aoife do t\u00eb merrte Domenikun me t\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb bart\u00ebs foshnjash, n\u00eb parukeri, bare dhe restorante.<\/p>\n
Ajo i ka krijuar edhe n\u00eb nj\u00eb gard\u00ebrob\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb, me gjith\u00e7ka i duhet nj\u00eb foshnje. Aoife bleu shumic\u00ebn e rrobave t\u00eb Dominik n\u00eb eBay.<\/p>\n
Aoife pretendon se Dominik jo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb ka ndihmuar me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit, por ka ndihmuar gjithashtu t\u00eb luftoj\u00eb vetmin\u00eb e saj.<\/p>\n
Ajo thot\u00eb: “Domenik \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb un\u00eb e quaj \u2018kukulla ime e terapis\u00eb. Ai e ka ndryshuar plot\u00ebsisht jet\u00ebn time.<\/p>\n
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Aoife Kearney, 26 vje\u00e7, nga Irlanda e Veriut, e cila ka autiz\u00ebm, thot\u00eb se kukulla q\u00eb ajo e quajti \u2018Dominik\u2019 e ka ndihmuar at\u00eb me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb e saj t\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebsuarit. Ajo pranon se nuk ka dashur kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb dhe nuk ka “interes” t\u00eb ket\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb dashur, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb nj\u00eb kukull […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2013,"featured_media":59753,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[241,191,194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-59752","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aktualitet","8":"category-bota","9":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59752","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2013"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=59752"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/59752\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/59753"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=59752"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=59752"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=59752"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}