Falenderimet m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta i p\u00ebrkasin Zotit t\u00eb madh\u00ebruar, paqja dhe m\u00ebshira e Tij qofshin mbi profetit Muhamed a.s, shok\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb ndjekin rrug\u00ebn e tij.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb, do t\u00eb fokusohemi mbi nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje tejet t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb i p\u00ebrket edukimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, madje edhe edukimit t\u00eb secilit prej nesh. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb, do t\u00eb flasim mbi kultur\u00ebn dhe edukat\u00ebn seksuale.<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb jam i nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm q\u00eb nj\u00eb dosje e till\u00eb, zakonisht rrethohet nga barriera t\u00eb kuqe dhe vet\u00ebm rrall\u00eb her\u00eb ajo hapet nga mediat vizive dhe t\u00eb shkruara.<\/p>\n
Mendoj se kjo ndodh p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb edukat\u00ebs q\u00eb kemi marr\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb vegj\u00ebli, edukat\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn disa e etiketojn\u00eb si kultura e turpit. Gj\u00eb e cila t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb kuptosh q\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet seksuale nuk ka p\u00ebrse t\u00eb hapen dhe t\u00eb diskutohen n\u00eb publik.<\/p>\n
Por, n\u00eb koh\u00ebn q\u00eb jetojm\u00eb, me zhvillimin teknologjik dhe p\u00ebrhapjen e mjeteve t\u00eb telekomunikacionit, nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje e till\u00eb ka marr\u00eb p\u00ebrmasa t\u00eb frikshme.<\/p>\n
Duke qen\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb nj\u00eb realiteti t\u00eb till\u00eb, ne menduam q\u00eb t\u2019a hapim nj\u00eb dosje t\u00eb till\u00eb dhe t\u2019a shtjellojm\u00eb n\u00ebn hijen e parimeve fetare dhe morale.<\/p>\n
Fragment i shkeputur:<\/p>\n
“Nj\u00eb her\u00eb, po debatoja me nj\u00eb per\u00ebndimor, i cili e kritikonte islamin n\u00eb disa \u00e7\u00ebshtje. Gjat\u00eb debatit, un\u00eb e pyeta:\u201dCila \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo gj\u00eb e cila e dallon kultur\u00ebn per\u00ebndimore nga islami?\u201d<\/p>\n
Ai u p\u00ebrgjigj:\u201d\u00cbsht\u00eb kultura dhe edukata seksuale. Ne e kemi ngritur n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb at\u00eb, e kemi forcuar dhe kemi krijuar nj\u00eb literatur\u00eb t\u00eb bollshme q\u00eb e shtjellon n\u00eb detaje.\u201d<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb:\u201dTi ke t\u00eb drejt\u00eb mbi k\u00ebt\u00eb, por a e din se islami i ka shtjelluar \u00e7\u00ebshtjet q\u00eb kan\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb me seksin, m\u00eb shum\u00eb se \u00e7\u2019i keni shtjelluar ju n\u00eb per\u00ebndim?\u201d<\/p>\n
Ai m\u00eb tha:\u201dKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e pabesueshme.\u201d<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb:\u201dDakort, at\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00eb thuaj cili \u00ebsht\u00eb koncepti i seksit sipas teje?\u201d<\/p>\n
Fillimisht ai heshti dhe kur un\u00eb i k\u00ebrkova s\u00ebrish t\u00eb ma p\u00ebrkufizonte seksin, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb t\u00eb jemi m\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb mbi konceptin q\u00eb ka secili mbi seksin, ai tha:\u201dMe fjal\u00ebn seks, un\u00eb kuptoj aktin seksual.\u201d<\/p>\n
Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb:\u201dKurse n\u00eb islam, p\u00ebrkufizimi i seksit \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb gjith\u00ebp\u00ebrfshir\u00ebs. Ti e koncepton dhe p\u00ebrkufizon seksin, vet\u00ebm n\u00eb aktin seksual dhe penetrimin, duke p\u00ebrjashtuar p\u00ebrk\u00ebdheljet para dhe pas penetrimit.\u201d<\/p>\n
Vet\u00eb profeti Muhamed a.s na k\u00ebshillon dhe m\u00ebson si t\u00eb kemi marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale sa m\u00eb romantike. I gjith\u00eb kontakti seksual, p\u00ebrb\u00ebhet nga hyrja, thelbi dhe p\u00ebrfundimi. Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb n\u00eb per\u00ebndim njihet vet\u00ebm kontakti seksual, penetrimi.”<\/p>\n
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Falenderimet m\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta i p\u00ebrkasin Zotit t\u00eb madh\u00ebruar, paqja dhe m\u00ebshira e Tij qofshin mbi profetit Muhamed a.s, shok\u00ebt dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb ndjekin rrug\u00ebn e tij. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb tem\u00eb, do t\u00eb fokusohemi mbi nj\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtje tejet t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme q\u00eb i p\u00ebrket edukimit t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve, madje edhe edukimit t\u00eb secilit prej nesh. N\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2044,"featured_media":60330,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[337,194],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-60329","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-kulture","8":"category-lifestyle"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60329","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2044"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=60329"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/60329\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/60330"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=60329"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=60329"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zjarr.tv\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=60329"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}